heres a thing a man said to me once..."every time i figure out a woman, she changes."
i did not understand it with clarity at the time because i was young.
the older i got, the more i understood this about myself.
i saw through my own actions and words on how i changed every time a guy did figure me out. perhaps in my younger day, i wanted to be in a guy's head all the time, where he would think or wonder things about me.
after this realization, i decided to make changes to better my inner self, where once a man figured me out, if i ever changed at all, then it would be better things, and more icing on the cake. i no longer wanted to be in a man's head, but wanted to be in a man's heart.
and then it was after that, that i met my husband.
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