Any words to make me feel better?

[SmoothTalker]

I just got dumped by a girlfriend of almost 3 years, over facebook.

We had our problems but still, I loved her guys. This is my first breakup and I'm feeling like total ****.

Any wise words to help lift this feeling?

 

[MCristo]

Wow.. over facebook? She couldn't have cared that much to begin with if that's how she dumped you.

Go out, party and meet some girls and you'll be over her in no time.

 

[sexy_kuta]

LISTEN MAN
LIFE IS TOO FUKING SHORT. ITS WAY TO SHORT. JUST LET HER GO, thats all i can say. let go everything. LET IT GO. let it just fly away from your mind.
like that homie once said, "if you love something let it go, if it comes back its yours, if it doesnt, it never was"
go out and enjoy life. call your boys up, go make plan at a lounge, have fun. meet new people, you need to learn to hold yourself together, and only way to do that is to suffer. you will create a tolerance. soon enough, in the worst situations, you will be able to pull through.
take this as a lesson rather than a field full of niddles

when you get into a relationship. you mutually agreed that you cant guratueed a successful relationship.
so stop thinking it. keep yourself busy,

stop holding onto things and let them just fly away

 

[SmoothTalker]

You have a point I guess.

I just don't want to sound like one of those emo kids that dated some chick for 2 weeks and then pretends its the end of the world when they break up.

It's just really hard to adjust you know, not only was she my first girlfriend but we were together for what, like 15 percent of my life so far. That's a lot to get over...

 

[sexy_kuta]

You have a point I guess.

I just don't want to sound like one of those emo kids that dated some chick for 2 weeks and then pretends its the end of the world when they break up.

It's just really hard to adjust you know, not only was she my first girlfriend but we were together for what, like 15 percent of my life so far. That's a lot to get over...

15 percent eh, well guess what, you still got 75 percent left of the Good life, what are you whinning about?
make up that 15 with your hobbies and friends, invest some time into the gym

main key is, stay busy and focus on something, TIME WILL heal.
just smack your self, your not like this, your better than this

 

[KontrollerX]

The more you hang out with friends and people that have continually proven they really care about you the faster you'll heal and be able to move on brother.

Also avoid jumping into a new relationship with someone new right away as you could get clingy and needy having just gotten out of a LTR and then another relationship will be ruined adding to your misery.

Wait a while to start a new relationship but hook up with chicks for the sake of hooking up as the opportunity arises and hang out with friends as often as possible getting lost in your hobbies and fun activities again.

If you need to grieve the loss of the relationship which would be understandable after such a long relationship has ended you could schedule times such as hours or even an entire day to grieve the loss and let the thoughts enter your mind.

The rest of the time though force those thoughts away and focus on peace and fun with buddies.

 

[tick37]

I've got some words for you. You know when you go out and there is that one a$$hole that wants to beat your a$$ because he's having a bad day? That guy wants to feel better. The thing is that you could probably whip his a$$ & he doesn't even know it. You may be a master in kong bulls1t, right? Who cares? The best thing to do is keep yourself out of trouble. Fvck this b1tch.

She doesn't even have the audacity to break up with you to your face. I'll be your friend. I'll tell her where to shove it. Forget it, and let's find you a new one. We'll hit the bar, and we'll do our thing because in the end it's about you. You came to this world alone, and you'll leave it alone. As long as your here, you've got a friend like me. Forget a b1tch, dog!

 

[SharinganUser]

Brother, you just got a new lease on life. Dealers that get out of prison hit the streets with all the knowlege they learned in the slamer. Only difference is, you're dealing your **** and I am sure you have a lot of buyers waiting for ya.

 

[dannyegg4575]

Listen dude, those of us here have heard of the bomb. It's not an easy thing to go through and we don't have any soft words that could help you deal with your situation. All we can do here is give you our words of sympathy and perhaps a hug. ({)
Life didn't end because of a girl, in fact there are many beautiful things that's going on in your life. Think of it as an investment that went wrong. Why would you want to catch a falling knife? Are you hoping that somehow the knife will jump back up to the cutting board?
Take it one day at a time... try to find an outlet, try to get angry and go through all those emotions that you're going through. It'll help you heal a lot faster, i guarantee you. buy yourself a notepad and start writing on it. Tell her how you feel in that notepad if you want. Work through your feelings, work through your thoughts and just let the emotions run through you. And for godsake... if you really have to cry, CRY! I know it's so taboo to hear a grown man cry, but it'll help you heal a lot faster. Your body is designed to go through these things... don't deny them... embrace them...
And when you have let it run through your body, quickly accept what happened... once you have accepted things to happen the way they happen, you know that it's time to move on. I can't tell you there will be a timeframe. There isn't. Everybody heals at a different pace. You will be no different. But do take the time to be alone and feel the emotions. Then, go hang out with your friends.
I agree with a lot of posters here.. Life truly is short. with a blink of an eye, it's already a month since my last breakup. it was tough, but you'll get through it. I guarantee you. And the funny thing is, once you let go, you will see that there were so many girls who liked you but you never gave them a chance. It's funny. Doors open up for you. suddenly you have friends you never knew you know. and you have girls who had crush on you but you never gave them the time of day because you were too loyal to this current one.
Just take the time to heal man... time is the greatest remedy to your pain.
But don't get trapped in the pain. Quickly accept and move on. so many beautiful women out there. she is a dime a dozen.

You're free now dude. Think of how much less pressure you are under now. Let it go.

 

[iqqi]

Why did you guys break up? Did you see it coming? How old are you?

 

[ketostix]

Why did you guys break up? Did you see it coming? How old are you?

It doesn't matter now. Besides isn't it obvious what happened, BRANCH SWING as usual.

Smoothtalker, you got some good input and advice. It's going to be rough and take time. But you know the old PU standy advice for this situation, GFTO, spin plates. That's the quickest way to get over it.

 

[lookyoung]

Most of us here have been in your shoes. Its hard to see it now but as time passes you will forget about this girl. In the mean time you should concentrate on doing things that make you happy. I had about 4 devastating things happen to me within a span of 4 months.

What helped me was reading the DJ bible, working out with weights, and picking up a hobby brazilian jiu-jitsu. It may not be easy but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Everyone has a path in life and this is yours. Remember we learn something everyday about ourselves and you will learn from this experience and be better for it.

Rememeber there are people in the world today that would love to be in your shoes. Everything will work out just fine. Later on you will realize this girls was not right for you and you will be thankful she broke up with you. It may take a while but you will. I promise

 

[SilverSonnet]

Good posts, but dude, your wasting more time thinking about her, let go of this power she has over you. YOU are the great catch remember? Your a fvcking DJ, a MAN. Your the one with the deep voice, the big balls, and the power to fvck any woman you come across, so find some pvssy and do your thing bro!

ben

 

[DismantleRepair]

15 percent eh, well guess what, you still got 75 percent left of the Good life, what are you whinning about?

You mean 85, right?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Anyone who breaks up with someone over facebook has character issues. Consider this a bullet that you dodged...

 

[SharinganUser]

Atleast you aren't in Tibet right now.

 

[dannyegg4575]

so you've been together for 3 years, that means you met her when you're 17. come on dude... you have decades of pussies to experience.

 

[drak_ool]

Don't try to contact her! if she tries to contact you give her the silent treatment. cut off all forms of communication with her

she dumped you. even if you think you still have a chance, the best that could happen would be for her to take you back as her little bytch. Have you heard about the sexual life of the angler fish? take a look at this:

http://blogfishx.blogspot.com/2007/02/parasitic-males.html

you don't wanna end up like the male angler fish...

What got me out of the slump after breaking up with my ex was seeing other girls (i literally hooked up with one the day of our break up). sure, i was still thinking about my ex, but having other girls to worry about and still getting pvssy really helped me move on.

 

[thedeparted]

plenty of guys would like to have had 3 years of puzzy at that age. but there are no time machines yet. so, no whining. you got a good ride. go find another one now.

 

[BMX]

Pretty soon, u will be back to normal. I went right back to my goofy self, and felt hella good checking other women out and flirting with them right in front of my ex's friends!