Any tips On a Black Guy Approaching White Girls ?

[ElStud]

Might as well ask "Any tips on Approaching Girls" because it's all the same. If you think approaching white girls is different, it's all in your mind. All I mostly approach is white girls(I'm also black) myself because I'm more attracted to them than black girls(Although I have approached black girls before just for practice).

First accept that fact that some white girls are not going to date a black guy no matter what. It's a family thing for some, a race or social thing for others. Some just might not be attracted to you, thats with any type of woman right? Once you accept that your halfway there.

Accept that some will want to just 'try' a black man to see what it's like. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just don't go getting oneitis over em.

Accept that some will hook up with you if nobody knows and you don't act overtly sexual or over friendly in public. They just want to get some chocolate on the downlow. They might have a racial,family,social issues stopping them...they may have a nerdy white boyfriend who's not hitting it right and just want something on the side with no strings....just accept that it can happen like that.

Become apart of the social circle. If the white guys like you and see you as a friend, or at least as a cool dude, it gives you social proof and says your vetted. If the other females in the social group like you it also vets you. You don't have to act 'white', you just have to be yourself.

Be prepared for haters if she's hot. Lots of haters. A whole lot of haters. But what's new about that? Anybody dating a hot chick got haters.

Primarily the game really doesn't change...plenty of black and other girls do this same stuff. Just know what your getting into.

This post is actually mostly bullsh*t. White girls aren't gonna date a black guy? BS, complete BS. There are several white girls out there that date black guys and several white women who have MARRIED black men. There were even a couple black guy/white girl couples at my HS. So stop all the talk about how white girls won't date black guys because it bull.

And chocolate on the downlow? Haha, that is such crap dude. I've seen white girls that love to act sexually around black guys. But it's basically the same with any guy she's dating. If she keeps on the downlow, she's gonna do it with ALL guys and not just a particular race. If she acts overly sexual, that's the way she is with ALL guys she's attracted to, not black guys. So that part of your post is BS too.

And haters will come with any chick you date, not just white girls.

 

[PRMoon]

Dear lord. I can't believe people still let silly things like race inhibit their game. It's the mark of true losers because you've just found another way to beat yourself.

No advice from me here on this subject. Just ridicule and apathy.

 

[Warrior74]

Might as well ask "Any tips on Approaching Girls" because it's all the same. If you think approaching white girls is different, it's all in your mind. All I mostly approach is white girls(I'm also black) myself because I'm more attracted to them than black girls(Although I have approached black girls before just for practice).


This post is actually mostly bullsh*t. White girls aren't gonna date a black guy? BS, complete BS. There are several white girls out there that date black guys and several white women who have MARRIED black men. There were even a couple black guy/white girl couples at my HS. So stop all the talk about how white girls won't date black guys because it bull.

And chocolate on the downlow? Haha, that is such crap dude. I've seen white girls that love to act sexually around black guys. But it's basically the same with any guy she's dating. If she keeps on the downlow, she's gonna do it with ALL guys and not just a particular race. If she acts overly sexual, that's the way she is with ALL guys she's attracted to, not black guys. So that part of your post is BS too.

And haters will come with any chick you date, not just white girls.

I think you should re-read that. All of that applies to ANY girl. But for some guys they are quick think of several negative reasons why girls of different races won't choose you. And some white girls will not date a black man. I know black girls who refuse to date a white man. It's people like that in every race. I really don't think you read it all word for word. I think you skimmed it. Read it again youngbuck. Read it 10 times before you post again.

 

[ElStud]

I think you should re-read that. All of that applies to ANY girl. But for some guys they are quick think of several negative reasons why girls of different races won't choose you. And some white girls will not date a black man. I know black girls who refuse to date a white man. It's people like that in every race. I really don't think you read it all word for word. I think you skimmed it. Read it again youngbuck. Read it 10 times before you post again.

SOME white girls, PARTICULAR white girls. But the majority of white girls won't really have a problem dating black guys. And yeah, some white girls won't be into black men. It's like that with all girls, some black girls prefer white guys, but aren't interested in black guys, an asian girl might strictly be into black guys, it's all the same. Taking what you said further, there are black girls who refuse to date black guys. Asian girls who refuse to date Asian guys. In the end, it's not a matter of race, but the women's personal preference. And if you're REAL good, you can get a girl to go out with you, even if you're not her type.

In the end, to the guy who started the thread get that "White girls won't date black guys" mentality out of your head and overall just approach white girls like you would any other girl. In the end, race doesn't matter when it comes to gaming. If she rejects you, it's probably NOT because of your race. And in the end, you shouldn't even pay attention to that because there are BILLIONS of reasons a particular set could reject you and in the end there's no point in even worrying about. And what if one particular white girl DOES reject you for your race? Just move on dude cause you wouldn't even want to be with that girl anyway.

MOST of the girls I've approached(And I've approached A LOT) have been white and I don't think I've ever seriously been rejected by a girl just because I'm black. It's not the 1950's anymore guys.

 

[EFFORT]

hey elstud where do you live?