Any good storytellers here???

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I think that the ability to tell a good story is a powerful seduction tool. The story doesn't have to be true, just entertaining. I think that observational lies: where you make up a story that is relevent to the person your talking to is the most powerful and that general stories are just complex ice-breakers.

What kind of stories or observational lies do you tell?

-- I am not talking about making up **** like having a lot of money or anything like that, but stories that engage your audience.....
 

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What I like to do is remix stories (some real some fake) So like I will be talking about my dog had a fight and then add some fake thing about what I did lol. Usually when I throw out my first story I usually use other parts of the story to transition to other topics like sex. Before i had went out and started approaching I had read alot on how to construct stories and now my stories are pretty solid. Always have girls come back to me an say a comment from one of my stories.

Best stories are the ones that catches the persons ears, you wouldnt want to say "So I was at the beach" you want to get them hooked by getting str8 to the point

(assume you did some opener about the beach)
"At Melon Beach this bald head guy was.."

Then you want to include some social dynamic (sh!t that stirs a problem,emotions, etc sh!t that you find in those gay ass love novels)

"...drinking on the beach, now melon beach is a great nudist beach over in Cali and this guy is just sitting there drinking and my ex gf is talking to my other ex gf and laughing at the guy..."

The girl is probably wondering...What is the bald guy going to do, what is the relationship with his 2 ex gfs toward each other and what is there relationship towards him. It also social proofs you because you have girls how like you.

"then the craziest thing happens I bust out the stereo on the beach and my ex gf mimi starts to dance and now its looking like a mini beach club, but the bald guy decides to join the party and starts grinding on mimi next thing I know he grabs both of her breast and just start making out with her. Me and nana are there dieing, after we left me and nana are there imitating infront of nana how he started dancing on her"

you hook her again so she will be able to picture it even better and then you sat there and laughed so it shows your not mad about the break up anyway and that you are a fun guy, and your comfortable with everything that went on.

thats just a little example, of how I put stories together, its always good to leave mystery and make sure you convey your personality.
 

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The problem with story telling these days is that lots of people suffer from extremely short attention span. If it takes longer than 3 minutes they lose focus, lose the spin of the story, don't get the clue, become distracted etc.

The stories i tell are all true, or atleast as far as i know. I wasn't always there, i tell stories i 'heard' from a guy sometimes. You know, the type that happened to a friend of a friend. And then i just tell them like "oh yeah, soemthing like that happened to a friend", or "omg a friend of mine just told me this story...".

For some reason, there seems to be always something screwed up happening to me or someone i know so i always have plenty of storytelling material at hand.

but like i said, most peopel have short attention span and storytelling is wasted on them imho.
 

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One thing that helps me is having a friend who will vouch for any story I tell. We 've been BS'ing for 12 years we have stockton & malone synchronicity...

most peopel have short attention span and storytelling is wasted on them imho.

I think it greatly depends on what your talking about. I think that most ppl are starved for real conversation even if they dont know they are.
 

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this is a great thread IMO. I have trouble tellnig stories as well. It seems that any story i tell i say soemthing stupid or people just dont give a **** about what im saying... any tips with that?
 
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