Any Fathers out there?

[InLawsHateMe]

My gf is being a pain in the ass over something that happend 11 days ago... she's pregnant (9-10weeks) and she's evil right now with her hormones. Any suggestions on what to do to get out of the dog house? How bad was it for you, and what did you do to make things better? I'm trying to get out of the doghouse here...

I tried to talk to her, but she wants to play 'I got the baby right here, I know you want to see it, but you are going to pay for what you did first.' type of games.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

1. Kick her in the stomach!

2. Or be nice and tell her sorry and if it ain't good enough, resort to option 1.

M.A.C.

 

[Ninja Dude]

Call her bluff man. She is totally manipulating you using your own child as bait...doesn´t this piss you off??? I know I´d be fuming. So beat her at her own game. Don´t call her for 2 weeks. Eventually her hormones will swing the other way and she will get lonely and miss you...guaranteed!

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Yeah, it's pissing me off.... she's being evil about it....

 

[playfulboy]

Tell her you want to be part of the baby's life and that pre-natal development is highly important.

I was breaking up with Psycho-beotch while she was pregnant and it caused all sort of complications with the pregancy. The fetus became distressed and could have miscarriaged. Luckily he's a happy, healthy 10 year old now.

But the more love a baby feels while it's developing, the better adjusted it is when it arrives in this world. They hear everything, respond to emotions the mother is feeling etc. And like I said, it can cause a misscarriage.

Just reassure her you want to be part of everything.

That is of course unless you don't?

 

[InLawsHateMe]

I do, abosolutely...

 

[InLawsHateMe]

So should I let her know this? Or should I stay away until she gets her thoughts more together?

 

[Ninja Dude]

You mean you haven´t told her this already? If I were you I would say fukk the phone..fukk email. Just show up someplace you know she will be. Have a calm discussion with her and talk about everything, how you are sorry you blew your temper and that you want to be part of the baby´s life etc. She would have to be a truly evil bytch if she shot you down! In which case I hope you never have to deal with custody battles

good luck man... and dont let her see how pissed off you are..no matter what!! be cool

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by InLawsHateMe
So should I let her know this? Or should I stay away until she gets her thoughts more together?

Take your words of advice.

M.A.C.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by Matt ala Casanova
Take your words of advice.

M.A.C.

oye vae!

 

[Ninja Dude]

Dude...just confront her...everything will be fine

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Ok... sent her an email of 'so this is what's up' pretty much stating that I'm going to be a part of the baby's life, now, and forever, whether I get her help or not.

She replied with I love yous.....


whew.... those damn hormones.......

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Thanks buds... for looking out for me. I can't tell you the amount of stress that's been lifted....... that beer after work is going to be sweet....


Now for something shocking.... check this out...

http://forums.nasioc.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=390791&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

 

[Squy]

Glad it eased off for you a bit.

Just curious. Is your girlfriend the one with blond hair, who is a also a nurse?

 

[myfriendblu]

Good god Im never having kids, LOL.......

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by Squy
Glad it eased off for you a bit.

Just curious. Is your girlfriend the one with blond hair, who is a also a nurse?

Yep.. that's the one...

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Good god Im never having kids, LOL.......

Before this... I wanted 6.. I dunno anymore... they get really evil...

 

[marqZAL]

Take full advatage of her hormonal imbalance by fvcking her silly over and over again.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by playfulboy
Tell her you want to be part of the baby's life and that pre-natal development is highly important.

I was breaking up with Psycho-beotch while she was pregnant and it caused all sort of complications with the pregancy. The fetus became distressed and could have miscarriaged. Luckily he's a happy, healthy 10 year old now.

But the more love a baby feels while it's developing, the better adjusted it is when it arrives in this world. They hear everything, respond to emotions the mother is feeling etc. And like I said, it can cause a misscarriage.

Just reassure her you want to be part of everything.

That is of course unless you don't?

Thanks man, I did use some of your info in the email...

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by InLawsHateMe
Before this... I wanted 6.. I dunno anymore... they get really evil...

yep....there is scientific evidence shown that the more kids a man has, the higher is chances of having a heart attack go up and the lower is life expectancy go down. its a pretty scary looking chart.

Fu ck that. i will be lucky to have one, if that.