I used to date girls just like this. Regardless of what they say - they do enjoy the power they have over men, and DO tease them to feed their ego's. They also tend to play the field. So, just because they dont have sex with anybody, ever, doesnt make them good girls. Most of them are immature, and get their rocks off by holding all the cards, toying with guys, attention whoring, etc. They know when you want something, and are smitten with them, and use that to their advantage. Theyre pretty good manipulators. But they are really sweet and hot.
I dont understand them, and they drive you insane with their BS. It always feels like youre in a relationship, but dont get **** for action. Theres always that distance.
I think theyre just living in a fairytale world, because most of this **** is childish. I think we fall for them because of their child-like innocence, and stunning youthful looks, but with that also comes a lot of immaturity. Its very much a grade-school like relationship.
I never met a girl like this who didnt jump from guy to guy, wasnt fickle and indecisive, didnt have a short-attention span, etc, so it probably wont last.
I'm always wary of these lovey-dovey relationships, because its not realistic. But it happens to most everyone in their younger years. Theyre all into that disney soul mate picket flower romance - then become old and bitter like everyone else. Ha Ha. :moon:
But yea... Every girl like this had daddy issues, was too nice, got cheated on by all the guys they dated (all of whom were "hot"), chased after bad boys, treated nice guys like they are your friend, and eventually became huge man-hating *****s. But, they are spoiled, demanding, indecisive, and seek the aggressive dominance - only to whine and cry when theyre thrown down a flight of stairs. Seriously... They all cheated and got beat up. Not necessarily in that order.
I was the same way for a long time, too. All focused on love and affection and talking and heart-spilling, with no sex... Which just pissed everyone off, 'cause its not normal or realistic. People want sex, teasing, excitement, laughs, independence.... Not always cuddling and ****. That results in boredom, and these young girls love drama and ****. Plus, they dont really know what they want, and can never makde up their minds about anything. They also arent all that genuinely interested in nice guys, and become more passionate around stronger men. But still dont have sex, and complain about the lack of lovey-dovey ****. Damn crazy *****es.
Oh well, whatever.
