I know this forum consists a lot of how to deal with interactions with women and how to be alpha in your daily life with them. But I'm having issues with my brother and I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to deal with it without ending up just ignoring him at family functions and actually handling it like a man.
He's actually my step brother but we grew up together since we were young kids. About 6 years ago I had a brain aneurysm burst, I had to be rushed to the hospital and I almost died. It was basically a toss up for a week whether I'd live and I was there for 2 weeks till they found it and he did not come once to see me. After we both moved out we didn't see much of each other, different groups of friends different sides of the city. He never replies to any texts I send him but acts all interested in my life when were at a family gathering. When he met my gf for the first time, he actually messaged her on fb to talk about anxiety he was experiencing and opened up to her, but never told me any of it. He then just recently was supposed to travel for 3 months but had a breakdown or something after a month and flew home. Texted everyone in our family he was ok but didn't tell me anything. I actually found out from my sister he was back home. I have tried texting him lately, today I actually asked what his halloween costume was but didn't respond again. So what should I do here? I've done my best to try to have a relationship with him but it's clear he doesn't care so I'm hoping you guys can have some suggestions because I don't wanna just give him the cold shoulder and look like a *****.
He's actually my step brother but we grew up together since we were young kids. About 6 years ago I had a brain aneurysm burst, I had to be rushed to the hospital and I almost died. It was basically a toss up for a week whether I'd live and I was there for 2 weeks till they found it and he did not come once to see me. After we both moved out we didn't see much of each other, different groups of friends different sides of the city. He never replies to any texts I send him but acts all interested in my life when were at a family gathering. When he met my gf for the first time, he actually messaged her on fb to talk about anxiety he was experiencing and opened up to her, but never told me any of it. He then just recently was supposed to travel for 3 months but had a breakdown or something after a month and flew home. Texted everyone in our family he was ok but didn't tell me anything. I actually found out from my sister he was back home. I have tried texting him lately, today I actually asked what his halloween costume was but didn't respond again. So what should I do here? I've done my best to try to have a relationship with him but it's clear he doesn't care so I'm hoping you guys can have some suggestions because I don't wanna just give him the cold shoulder and look like a *****.