Any 5ft8 Guys Doing Well With Woman?

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I'm 5'8. Never had a problem getting girls, gf's, LTRs, or banging women half my age.

Height is only one small part of an equation with lots of moving parts.
I couldn't have said it better myself!

5'7'' here but still killing it!

IMHO - There is one girl im seeing rn who I honestly cant keep up with sexually. Its fun but exhausting. Granted she's essentially a YOLO girl but * shrugs *. I can already see the writing on the wall where she gets too attached, wants a LTER, I say no, we stop seeing each other for a bit and then keep ****ing on and off for a while. But oh well thats life. If i'm being totally honest its probably a psychological issue as much as an arousal issue but im not here to be a therapist.

It's funny cuz a lot of dudes on forums like this have some frankenstein-esque idea of how much sex they can actually handle ( probably cuz they are getting nowhere near that number.) I'd like to see half the dudes on this site try and maintain 5+ girls at a time. That shiit is a full-time job itself. Most dudes would fail to produce enough nut for 3+ girls at a time without resorting to some synthetic **** pills.With the above mentioned girl I could probably be sexually satisfied without anyone else but I also dont want a LTR.

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I'd like to see half the dudes on this site try and maintain 5+ girls at a time. That shiit is a full-time job itself.
I did a 5 and 6 new girl/week straight in a row stint at various times. I've tried this twice and will never do it again. Like you said, it's a full time job and begins to feel more like work than pleasure. Only a 18yo sex addict could do this but not sustain it for the long haul.

I definitely wouldn't want to eat steak and lobster every day either...
 

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It's always the most interesting when people who were super into 'game' and seduction discover the truth.
It's more interesting than people who never believed in game at all in the first place, and more interesting than people who are new and still believe that game = mind control and haven't been through the 'trials and tribulations' as you say lol.

I was also 100% game for a while. Even though I knew instinctively that looks were super important (since I simply couldn't ignore what i'd seen with my own eyes with my clearly good looking friends) I really wanted to give it a chance. I was willing too accept that I was wrong and that girls don't care about looks and everything else that PUA books at the time promoted. I wasn't like these whiny new guys you see nowadays who never approach because they don't look like a young DiCaprio and who believe game is 100% irrelevant. No, I really wanted to be believe. And I read a lot and watched a lot and put all kinds of **** into practice in the field. But at some point, it becomes clear how this game is played. I'm at the point where my mind simply can't be changed about any of my beliefs about this stuff.

I love game and I think it matters, but it's not as it's sold. It makes you a more efficient closer. The all important attraction is the most important bit. A pre-requisite. And it doesn't really h ave anything to do with game lol
Definitely. That's why I actually get irritated at some of the responses people by reflex give. They make it sound like had you done something a little different (less calling, texting etc...) you would have gotten the girl. More often than not it just boils down to attraction you have no control over. That being said I do believe you should always try and be the best version of yourself.

The silver lining (depending on how you want to look at it lol) I have found is that women can have different types of people they feel this attraction towards. So even though you are objectively more attractive then say a subpar woman... she may not be attracted to you at all. At the same time a better looking girl might be but it will depend on each girl individually regardless of their objective looks.

I have been trying to recount as many experiences with women I have throughout my life and document findings/theories. I'd encourage you to check it out and provide feedback based on what you've experienced yourself.

 

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Definitely. That's why I actually get irritated at some of the responses people by reflex give. They make it sound like had you done something a little different (less calling, texting etc...) you would have gotten the girl. More often than not it just boils down to attraction you have no control over. That being said I do believe you should always try and be the best version of yourself.

The silver lining (depending on how you want to look at it lol) I have found is that women can have different types of people they feel this attraction towards. So even though you are objectively more attractive then say a subpar woman... she may not be attracted to you at all. At the same time a better looking girl might be but it will depend on each girl individually regardless of their objective looks.

I have been trying to recount as many experiences with women I have throughout my life and document findings/theories. I'd encourage you to check it out and provide feedback based on what you've experienced yourself.

I have dated some very hot women who were crazy about me and constantly told me how good looking they thought I was while some average women didn't give me the time of day...it is crazy how some people can view you as being hot while others don't see it at all.
 

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Definitely. That's why I actually get irritated at some of the responses people by reflex give. They make it sound like had you done something a little different (less calling, texting etc...) you would have gotten the girl. More often than not it just boils down to attraction you have no control over. That being said I do believe you should always try and be the best version of yourself.

The silver lining (depending on how you want to look at it lol) I have found is that women can have different types of people they feel this attraction towards. So even though you are objectively more attractive then say a subpar woman... she may not be attracted to you at all. At the same time a better looking girl might be but it will depend on each girl individually regardless of their objective looks.

I have been trying to recount as many experiences with women I have throughout my life and document findings/theories. I'd encourage you to check it out and provide feedback based on what you've experienced yourself.

sounds like we're in agreement lol

And yes, that last point. It's one that i've mentioned a few times. (I have a thread here somewhere where I used to document lots of my approaches)

I always try to make a point to give complete newbies (realistic) optimistic replies. I refuse to lie to them and pretend girls are blind adn 'don't care about looks' or lust after very handsome men, but I do try to make it clear that not all girls have identical taste!

It's important to realise this, and it also explains/refutes certain arguments that coaches try to prove by showing girls they pulled or whatever

Some of the hottest girls i've pulled have been the girls who made it easiest for me. They just happened to think I was good looking (i'm not handsome, but i'm not a complete gargoyle either). One of them I wrote in my FR I tihnk. She was like just 18 (much younger than me) and very much my physical type and she just beelined for me and I was taking her to her parents house (lol) to bang within 30 mins of meeting her in the bar

Similar with another girl who was one of my hotter lays. That night i'd been rejected by landwhales all night lol

My other reference is when I used to work in an office with a bunch of girls. They spend all day oogling over handsome guys on insta and dm'ing etc, but the hottest girl always picked guys who the others girls thought was ugly. She just didn't have super conventional taste
 

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My other reference is when I used to work in an office with a bunch of girls. They spend all day oogling over handsome guys on insta and dm'ing etc, but the hottest girl always picked guys who the others girls thought was ugly. She just didn't have super conventional taste
Amen... I think a topic of deeper exploration might be what causes a woman to have a certain attraction.... I'm thinking this could be conditioned at a young age by environment or early exposure to people? An example... maybe a young girl who is around her father's nerdy friend who makes her laugh and comfortable might develop an attraction towards that type?
 

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I am 1.80 something , so I can not talk from my own experience about this

but a moment ago I saw a guy , less than 1.80 . I would say around 1.75 , talking with a really good looking 1.80 girl . Guess what , she was enjoying so much his company and flirting

even though some girls would not like someone that is average in height , there are for sure women who are more than ok with this

being average in height is not really an argument for not being able to pull good looking girls , or taller than you

man up !
 

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I am 1.80 something , so I can not talk from my own experience about this

but a moment ago I saw a guy , less than 1.80 . I would say around 1.75 , talking with a really good looking 1.80 girl . Guess what , she was enjoying so much his company and flirting

even though some girls would not like someone that is average in height , there are for sure women who are more than ok with this

being average in height is not really an argument for not being able to pull good looking girls , or taller than you

man up !
It might surprise some people to know that the slayer friend of mine who i've mentioned the most (I have 2, but the one i've mentioned many times in my FR's) is actually on the short side. I think he's about 5ft 8. I just think he's facially handsome enough that it's not an issue. I think there's a cut off point where his good looks wouldn't save him, though. Probably under 5'7'' at a guess. At that point I think he wouldn't get the outrageous success he has lol

(I think I even shared the FR here once where a group of hot Eastern European girls were basically trying to rape him, and they were all a fair bit taller haha)
 

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also this guy had a nice face. Would not rate him more than a 7 face wise

he looked quite Arab or Indian . Or something like that . He had a British accent though

but he had Strong verbal game
 

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This is so true. I've had experiences where I feel like I am objectively higher SMV than a girl but she just wasn't feeling it. There are 1,000 reasons why this could be but not worth analyzing. On the other hand, I've attracted some real fine girls I sort of wrote off mentally for the same (reverse) reason. C'est la vie say the old folks, it goes to show you never can tell.
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I know having some height is definitely an advantage.. However we have to make the best of what the creator has given us.

I am 5ft8 in height, jacked up muscular & with a nicely shaped beard.. I dress sharp too.


Other men often refer to me as "Big Man" even though realisticly I am not that big 5ft8.. However the muscular frame definitely adds to the image.

I seem to do better with females in person rather than online.. Females tend to pick up on that masculine energy around me, I carry myself in a very confident & sure way.

However there will definitely be a group of woman who will write me off simply based on my height.

I would like to hear from other 5ft7 5ft8 5ft9 guys, how are you doing with the ladies?
Stand on your wallet and you will become 6ft.
 

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I've been getting quite a few matches with women 1-2" taller than me within the past couple weeks. I know more women are wanting to go out now that there is a vaccine and things are starting to open up and weather getting warmer.

I've gone out with a few taller women in the past so this isn't entirely shocking, however I know there is a big selection of guys that are taller than me out there so still approaching it with caution but not showing any insecurities about it.
 

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I'm 5'8. Never had a problem getting girls, gf's, LTRs, or banging women half my age.

Height is only one small part of an equation with lots of moving parts.
no issues here either
I know having some height is definitely an advantage.. However we have to make the best of what the creator has given us.

I am 5ft8 in height, jacked up muscular & with a nicely shaped beard.. I dress sharp too.


Other men often refer to me as "Big Man" even though realisticly I am not that big 5ft8.. However the muscular frame definitely adds to the image.

I seem to do better with females in person rather than online.. Females tend to pick up on that masculine energy around me, I carry myself in a very confident & sure way.

However there will definitely be a group of woman who will write me off simply based on my height.

I would like to hear from other 5ft7 5ft8 5ft9 guys, how are you doing with the ladies?
I’m 5’7 and don’t have an issue with landing women. There are other factors that play a role.
 

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I know having some height is definitely an advantage.. However we have to make the best of what the creator has given us.

I am 5ft8 in height, jacked up muscular & with a nicely shaped beard.. I dress sharp too.


Other men often refer to me as "Big Man" even though realisticly I am not that big 5ft8.. However the muscular frame definitely adds to the image.

I seem to do better with females in person rather than online.. Females tend to pick up on that masculine energy around me, I carry myself in a very confident & sure way.

However there will definitely be a group of woman who will write me off simply based on my height.

I would like to hear from other 5ft7 5ft8 5ft9 guys, how are you doing with the ladies?
My 5 ft 8 friend has ridiculous success with women. He's not in shape, but his style and social skills are on point.
 
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