Another Six Months... Are You With Me

spider_007

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bbestar said:
Atleast give some time to think about it, how it will affect you weeks and months from now.
well it would have been nice if i made it, but i caved in and lost it.... nothing to debate......on top of that, this is a bad time for me to start doing this, i'm starting a buisness and i'm stressed and scared and I need some comfort.... I might start again at the end of this month...
 

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--6th June to 24th December--
Day 4/202


spider, what business you starting man? Anyway, there's always excuses, but the best time is now.

I blew it twice since I started, but I just get up again. I know how crappy it is to keep losing it, but I'm determined to solve this and don't want to have to put it on my 2007 resolutions list so I'm gonna solve this and get right with God.
 

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This smacks of puritanism and self-loathing. If you think excessive masturbation is hurting your chances, why not restrict yourself until you've got 20 numbers or approaches or something then treat yourself to a great big pornathon.Nautica Thorn, she's my favorite (and coincidentally looks quite similar to my new girlfriend).

The most positive aspect of masturbation (besides the pleasant feeling) is that you can use it as an opportunity to practice control.
 

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Nighthawk said:
This smacks of puritanism and self-loathing. If you think excessive masturbation is hurting your chances, why not restrict yourself until you've got 20 numbers or approaches or something then treat yourself to a great big pornathon.Nautica Thorn, she's my favorite (and coincidentally looks quite similar to my new girlfriend).

The most positive aspect of masturbation (besides the pleasant feeling) is that you can use it as an opportunity to practice control.
control? if you can't even resist the urge to look at porn and wank, you want to talk about bigger things? oh wait, you say "bah how hard can it be, well give it a try".

Beyond spiritual cleansing, there are practical aspects to not wanking, see the original thread by pendo and read how people's lives became more constructive.
 

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No I say 'bah that sounds difficult and pointless.'

I feel spiritually cleansed after ejaculation, not by abstaining from it. I don't feel guilty about it, although I have barely had a chance lately. Like I say, by all means cut down, but I see no reason to torture yourself over something fun and natural. Lot of Catholics in this thread I reckon.
 
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