another rejection that is making me rethink my strategy

[Pro Gamer]

i talked to another random girl and called her cute but she was kind of angry. i was like "why does everyone ****ing reject me" and she said "ask them" but she started telling me about why she thinks relationship is bad. in the end she was like "go talk to your gf and don't talk to me ever again"

btw i do daygame because nightgame is not possible where i live

 

[Captain Redbeard]

judging from your previous posts I believe you are coming off desperate. You want to make every girl your gf, right? As discussed in another thread, opening by telling a girl she is cute is fine but you need to be nonchalant about it and have the frame of "what else is interesting about you other than just looks."
Btw, sometimes you catch a woman at a bad time and that is just part of the game. On to the next...

 

[kavi]

Dw your still young it will get easier as you get older as long as you work on your social skills and interactions with females.

 

[Pro Gamer]

judging from your previous posts I believe you are coming off desperate. You want to make every girl your gf, right? As discussed in another thread, opening by telling a girl she is cute is fine but you need to be nonchalant about it and have the frame of "what else is interesting about you other than just looks."
Btw, sometimes you catch a woman at a bad time and that is just part of the game. On to the next...

i just got rejected by everyone and it's making me sad. i really wonder if i will be able to become a seduction artist like many of you here.

 

[Pro Gamer]

Dw your still young it will get easier as you get older as long as you work on your social skills and interactions with females.

believe me i didn't interact with that much female in my life(excluding family members) and did not ever have a female friend so it's completely new for me. i hope that i don't get blacklisted in the area for approaching every girl. few days ago a girl was not telling me her name and was just smiling then went away but looked back at me while going away. I don't know if in need to change my strategy. i am thinking if a telling a girl something like "your friend that you were talking to is cute, can you set me up with her?" will work

 

[Pro Gamer]

it was super hard getting past the approach anxiety but once i somehow approached few girls and understood that girls won't react the way that i imagine in my mind then i was more comfortable with approaching them

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Gamer,
When in Rome do as the Romans.....You live in a Poor Moslem Nation with completely different values to those on this site....see us as a window into another World.

 

[Pro Gamer]

Hi Gamer,
When in Rome do as the Romans.....You live in a Poor Moslem Nation with completely different values to those on this site....see us as a window into another World.

human nature has to be the same

 

[Pro Gamer]

a seduction artist lol.. wrong mindset. You should aim the become the best version of yourself you can be, not a "seduction artist".

i fantasize becoming a manipulator who can get anything out of anyone so that i won't have to struggle to get anything in life

 

[The Duke]

human nature has to be the same

It is, but the subtle nuances make all the difference. Thats what separates the men from the boys. Keep trying, changing things up, eventually you figure out what works for your.

 

[characternote]

i fantasize becoming a manipulator who can get anything out of anyone so that i won't have to struggle to get anything in life

that's not how it works i'm afraid. Maybe people would tell you that on PUA forums back in 2004 or something but the community has largely accepted that it's all nonsense and marketing. Ross Jefferies with all his NLP magic would get rejected 100 times in a row if he went out tonight to hit on hot 19 year old girls. There truly is no jedi level of 'game' where you can use special verbals to essentially FORCE attraction in a girl. Don't go down that rabbit hole

That's why pretty much all advice on this site nowadays boils down to 'hit the gym, make more money'. Cold approach pickup is a game of numbers. If there were special verbals and lines and 'techniques' that we could use to 'manipulate' hot 18 year olds into wanting to bang us despite being 55 and bald and fat and broke, that's all you would see on in here in terms of discussion lol.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If you're walking around selling yourself and there are no takers, you have to work on making yourself more attractive. And work on your selling technique.

When you're the prize, you don't need to do much selling.

 

[bat soup]

i talked to another random girl and called her cute but she was kind of angry. i was like "why does everyone ****ing reject me" and she said "ask them" but she started telling me about why she thinks relationship is bad. in the end she was like "go talk to your gf and don't talk to me ever again"

btw i do daygame because nightgame is not possible where i live

If a woman is not responding positively just turn around and walk away. You don't need to care about why they are like that, most of them just are.

 

[Glassguy]

i just got rejected by everyone and it's making me sad

These women are strangers to you. Yet you are getting all worked up over them.

1.) You care too much. You shouldnt care AT ALL....they are strangers.
2.) Compliments should be EARNED, as should be your time.
3.) You have a scarcity mindset. You need an outcome independent mindset.

When you seriously dont care if a woman rejects your approach, the approach will come across totally different in the eyes of the woman you are approaching.

Anxiety/Fear of rejection/Weak social life/No options = Scarcity mindset
Having multiple options/Orbiters/Non chalant attitude/Outcome independent/Chill and relaxed/ Happy regardless of the outcome = Abundance Mindset

 

[Pro Gamer]

It is, but the subtle nuances make all the difference. Thats what separates the men from the boys. Keep trying, changing things up, eventually you figure out what works for your.

perhaps the best advice

 

[Pro Gamer]

that's not how it works i'm afraid. Maybe people would tell you that on PUA forums back in 2004 or something but the community has largely accepted that it's all nonsense and marketing. Ross Jefferies with all his NLP magic would get rejected 100 times in a row if he went out tonight to hit on hot 19 year old girls. There truly is no jedi level of 'game' where you can use special verbals to essentially FORCE attraction in a girl. Don't go down that rabbit hole

That's why pretty much all advice on this site nowadays boils down to 'hit the gym, make more money'. Cold approach pickup is a game of numbers. If there were special verbals and lines and 'techniques' that we could use to 'manipulate' hot 18 year olds into wanting to bang us despite being 55 and bald and fat and broke, that's all you would see on in here in terms of discussion lol.

i am not bald or that old. i am young but i still get rejected a lot. i am wondering when will i get one that accepts me?

 

[Pro Gamer]

If a woman is not responding positively just turn around and walk away. You don't need to care about why they are like that, most of them just are.

i see kids younger than me getting a gf. it makes me really sad those 14 years old are banging but i am single

 

[Pro Gamer]

It is, but the subtle nuances make all the difference. Thats what separates the men from the boys. Keep trying, changing things up, eventually you figure out what works for your.

you guys are experienced so i have a question. i have seen that most relationships here start as a friendship. first they are friends then they become weak or attached towards one another. it is really opposite of "friendzone" stuffs i hear from the westerns

 

[The Duke]

These women are strangers to you. Yet you are getting all worked up over them.

1.) You care too much. You shouldnt care AT ALL....they are strangers.
2.) Compliments should be EARNED, as should be your time.
3.) You have a scarcity m

When you seriously dont care if a woman rejects your approach, the approach will come across totally different in the eyes of the woman you are approaching.

you guys are experienced so i have a question. i have seen that most relationships here start as a friendship. first they are friends then they become weak or attached towards one another. it is really opposite of "friendzone" stuffs i hear from the westerns

Are You referring to male/female relationships with romantic intent from the start?

 

[Pro Gamer]

Are You referring to male/female relationships with romantic intent from the start?

i don't know perhaps but i saw them becoming friends first because they study together or work together then become bf/gf