You got any kids? I didn't think so. TRUST ME BRO, the situation is sooo much easier from the outside. Its easy for some random bloke to sneak in from the outside and then split. When its the real dad juggling the real responsibilities, its alot harder to keep the ship afloat and the romance alive. this is why when they DO FINALLY get there sex drive back, its often with another man. Seen it happen a million times.
If anything, you should NEVER stay together just for the kids. Does alot more harm then agreeing to disagree and splitting up.
True in most cases but in my case we stayed together for the kids and then one day out of the blue our romance life spiced back up. Again it depends on your situation and/or love for your spouse.
I am not saying to lose the DJ mentality, i have never lost mine and never will but i don't DJ the wife. Trust me, when kids come and you are truely dedicated to them and your wife, the competition ends. Marriage is a compromise.
Yay!! Glad things are better... Everyone was like "**** no don't give it time" but it's not always about something that can be controlled (e.g. hormones)... but by working on the things that CAN be controlled (sleep deprivation, increased responsiblities) and giving the needed timet to the things that can't be controlled... it usually works out. It did for me. I'm glad it did for you.Originally posted by assasin
Follow Up:
Well it's been three months, and I'm happy to say that things are much better now.
It took a bit of upheaval and things looked a bit shaky for a few weeks, but now we're back into a decent routine. So I'm glad I stuck with it.
Thanks for everyone's input though, especiall Sexy_Malibu and Matt
I haven't been on the forum since I started this thread, so I don't know how InLAwsHateMe got on, sad to hear about Bungo Pony's tribulations though.
Thanks again.
It'll probably keep getting better.Yawn....This is why Im NEVER gonna do the kid thing. A year? NEXT. Where ya at least giving head? After all, the baby, didn't come out of your mouth
myfriendblu... have you even EVER read a single thing I posted? OF COURSE I was giving head!!!!! Puleeeeze! But the issue wasn't about where the baby came out
... it was about desire... hormones and sleep deprivation decreasing the desire to have sex...LOL Of course I read, I just wanted to hear you say you were giving head, LOL. hehehehehOriginally posted by Sexy_Malibu
myfriendblu... have you even EVER read a single thing I posted? OF COURSE I was giving head!!!!! Puleeeeze! But the issue wasn't about where the baby came out
Ok. For like the 100th time, Sexy_Malibu was my name on another site, which used an "alias maker" to create it based on questions it asked you. I thought it was funny. When I came here, I knew a few people who were on both sites so I kept the name here too. But all that aside, what's the big f*cking deal anyway? A ton of guys have names like that too. So much of this site is devoted to talking about dating and sex, so what's the big deal if my name is Sexy_Malibu or if it's I_Like_Giving_Head or I'm_An_Attention_Wh*re? Get over it.Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Speaking of females on this board, what do you think of a girl who comes on, what is suppose to be an all guy forum and calls themselves Sexy Malibu?
Now out of her 600+ posts, on how many of those has she mentioned she loves to give blow jobs. Maybe a 100?
What's her agenda here anyway, has anyone thought about that?
I mean how obvious can you be!!!
A lot of the girls on here have names in which you may not be sure their a girl right away. For example Shorty Brown and iqqi.
Now what the hell is an iqqi and a Shorty Brown?
What kind of fucckin Aussie kangaroo kind of names are those?
But anyway, to get back to Malibi I noticed she removed the "attention *****" from her signature.
Well, that's good, it's the first step to recovery.
I know. Sorry if I sounded a little pissy. Caught me at a bad moment (hey attention wh*re's have feelings too!
) The points I made above are all still true, but I did sound like a total b*tch, so I apologize. You're usually cool Helter Skelter, so I'll give you a break... but a lot of people on this site DO feel that way, so basically they can take my advice then (that is, if they would ever be caught dead taking advice from a woman )
