Another possible A male problem

[The_Game]

As I am in 6thform/college, I am improving myself to be the considerate, respectful person to everyone, yet not to take c**p from anyone or place myself as inferior all the time,

In essence I am improving my alpha male instincts.

I've always seen myself as a leader, deffinately intelligent, yet for some reason people don't see this way about me, well a few of my friends.


I am quite intelligent, if I say so myself because that's one of my traits that I take pride in.

However one of my, well I say friend, more of a rival now, has started being a di**head to me for no reason.

He can slightly be seen as an alpha male, but not in my view and of course there's only room for one alpha in a pack.

I comeback at him with smart comments but sometimes he just laughs at everything I say which is not only di**headish but disrespectful as well.

I want to do something that will wipe away that smarmy grin of his and prove, overall my supiriority to such a lowlife human being.


Any suggestions or tips or help?

 

[619joe]

Show us an example bro.

Why do you strive to be the only alpha in your pack?Its making me think that your doing anything to become sort of like "the leader" and it probably comes off making you look like a prick.If Im with buddys I make sure to BE one of the main guys and be the loudmouth typically but when you try and be the leader like that,it pisses people off.

 

[The_Game]

Well I see it as that I can take lead of my friends and also be sincere at the same time.

I'm not a di**head, I like to be respectful to people as well.


I guess that's what I was trying to say, I dont want to act alpha male, I just want to be the alpha male because I know I can.

Want kind of example were you thinking of? an example of the other guy or example of how I can be more alpha in my group of friends?

Also this other guy does act like a prick because he tries too hard. That's one of the reasons a few of my friends dont like him

 

[619joe]

Well if his naturally personality is like that then thats due to him and doesnt really have much to do with your personality.If you get a few of your friends with that opinion of you,THEN its time to start re-evaluating how your projecting yourself.

I find the best way to come back at someone is to diss them back so that they shut up and know you dont play games.One of my friends tried to diss me about like a few pimples on my shoulder until finally I noticed he got sun burned on his nose and it looked terrible and like deformed and crap so I said "W.e buddy atleast my problem doesnt affect me from getting girls and you know it(hes seen me pickup some girls few days before).Your the one whos got like some fungus crap growing on your nose.Im actually thinking up of calling the news station to get a report on how ****ed up you look".After that he finally shuts up.Just remember everybody has a weak point sort of like a video game boss,you just have to FIND that weakness and exploit it.