Another "how to play it from here with this chick" thread... (please help)

[MindOverMatter]

Some thoughts:

-her friends are giving her advice, as evident by her away messages. for all you know, she may have not even had a guy to watch a movie with, her friends could have just advised her to say that in order to make you jealous. i've lived with 2 sorority girls before, and I know they do this kind of sh!t all the time.

- when she mentioned watching movie with a friend, which was a classic jealosy test, the correct thing to say would have been "ok cool, wanted to see if you would like to chill, but since you're busy i'll call someone else, have fun with your friend!". basically reverse her game back at her, and never let her see you bothered.

- missing her dance when you said you were gonna be there did piss her off, all girls hate being lied to. but it's still better to be the unavailable a$$hole, then it is to be the doormat nice guy. when she asked you to show up, the correct thing to do would have been to tell her you're very busy and that you can't make it, then rescheduale for another time.

-don't send the e-mail. act is if nothing happened. wait a week or two (no aim whatsoever, not even away messages, block her), give her a call and ask her out again for something low key, like coffee. the reason i say wait is cause if you call her now, she will most likely still be pissed off, and will play some bs game. give her time to cool down then do it. if she says no and doesn't try to rescheduale, say "ok cool, no worries, i'll call someone else, have a good night girl". then call someone else.

 

[Barbillus]

Good advice and great thoughts I am really glad I did not send that email out so soon and instead came here to consult.

Here is what I think I am going to do.

First, she has already been blocked again on AIM. This is probably going to make her wonder again what I am doing since she has been use to seeing me online for the last several weeks.

Second, I am going to take some of the below advice from Squirrels.

Bring the game to her and let her know you're interested in playing again...that you're not scared of losing her, you're not angry or being a d!ck to her, you're not in "love" with her, you don't take her for granted...

Let her know that YOU want to keep dancing this dance of romance with her. And DANCE. Stop trying to remember your steps...just close your eyes, catch the rhythm, and DANCE.

Third, I am going to wait until the end of the week(Friday) before I contact her. I am going to bring the game to her and tell her that I want to keep this going and see her more often, that I enjoy spending time with her, and that I want to come visit her at school and take her out to a nice dinner sometime in the very near future and spend some time together. Since it will be close to Halloween I will add a little bit of my C&F lines in the email and bust on her on some stuff. I'll end it by telling her I am going to NYC for the night to a Halloween party and to call me tomorrow afternoon to discuss my date offer.
If she accepts my date, which I am confident she will b/c I know she still has high interest in me, it would also mean that I would spend a night, or maybe even two nights at her place at school, which would mean good things. If she declines my offer, then that is it. I mean this past weekend at homecoming, this was my final test for her, she passed the test and her interest was sky high i just fuked up big time at the end cause I was too drunk and stupid. Hhaha oh well...

Good plan?