Another guy taking my girlfriend home?

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My girlfriend is going to a cross country get together of hers and the guy she used to like will be there and is planning to bring her home. My girlfriend says she has no feelings for him and he has no feelings for her and they are just friends. She asked me if i was ok with it. I said um...i guess. Even though I really am not. Should I have spoken up in said no? or would that be too controlling?
 

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dont worry and definatley dont show any jealousy

if you do she will have the upper hand

dont worry unless she gives you reason to

a ride home doenst qualify as that...and im paranoid
 

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Jealousy will just end up screwing you over. Just think about the benefits this has to you - she basically has to allow you to do stuff with other girls, as long as you say they're "friends."
 

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Agreed. Also, think about all the times YOU have been flirting with girls. This just evens it up in a way, if she decides to do something. If she can do one thing, then you can do it too. Don't think about it too much. You will just kill yourself thinking about it.
 

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Well, while shes out @ Xcountry dinna... why don't you get together with the fella's and spend some quality time meeting new sexy/interesting women?
 

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cheating!!

Dude your girl is going to try to cheat.. If the guy lets her she will give him a b/j on the way home.. Trust me setup a cam or something..

Girls love DRAMA and if she can have a good chance to cheat she will..

tell her something b4 she starts the drama by fvcking in the backseat..
 

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i hate it when guys or girls try to screen all interaction of their girl/boyfriend from the opposite sex.

don't WE preach having female friends? so does that stop applying when we have girlfriends? don't you want your girlfriend to be social?
 

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wtf, its probly nothin, i get rides from x-country buddies, and visa versa... chances are its nothing.
 

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male friends is cool, except u said she use to like him...so why doesnt she like him anymore?

if its not a valid reason, she gon **** him...sorry...break up wit her before she leaves n tell her ur doin it so she can enjoy herself without worryin about u...thatll make her think haha
 

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
i hate it when guys or girls try to screen all interaction of their girl/boyfriend from the opposite sex.

don't WE preach having female friends? so does that stop applying when we have girlfriends? don't you want your girlfriend to be social?
That's the sound of a man without insecurities about his girlfriend.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Originally posted by Gold Heart
That's the sound of a man without insecurities about his girlfriend.
or the sound of a man who been cheated on a lotta times n still dont know about it :)

naw, but yeah its true, theres no reason to be jealous if its a good reason she dont like him no more...

by the way, i dunno how far the get together is, but now that i read it good there really is nothin to worry about at all...i read ur post fast and i thought u meant she was goin to a get together ACROSS THE COUNTRY, and he was gonna bring her back from across the country...
 
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