Another Guy approaches your G/F in front of you: How to Act

[blueangel83]

 

[blueangel83]

If you let a stranger hit on your girl (especially when you're with her), she'll think you're a pssy. Fight for your woman! If you were my man I'd think you're a pssy and a lame, I'd kick the guy's ass myself for disrespecting my man.

If she's known the guy for years, then it's ok.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by bbestar

Sup PLAYER(really loud)!!! Pat him real hard on the back so he looses balance. What are you doin here? *put your arm around his neck. Before he finishes his first word interrupt him and say...Look pal, how about you go to that store and buy us some chocolate and maybe i'll late you talk to my girl. Then just walk away with your girl..

:crackup:

Origionally posted by TylerDurden
100% AMOG DESTROYER

The easy way to handle any alpha is to be polite to him, but act disinterested by his rap/accomplishments using tonality/body language (without coming off as patronizing/sarcastic) while simultaneously being charming to others around you. This will drop his perceived value and cause him to qualify himself to try and raise it back up. He can't fight you or do **** like that, and he can't move to insults, because you've been polite and in doing so he would be making himself look VERY BAD. The only tactic vs this is to walk away. If you reward him just enough to encourage further qualifying but not enough to make him feel validated again he will fall into line as beta in relation to you. I blow out rich men in power outfits, top ranking professors in schools, 300lb bouncers, police officers and gangers ALL THE TIME. This **** works - if you do it right they will work VERY HARD to be your friend.


Ultra quick and effective AMOG destroyer

This is just like the JAP Busting stuff, where you say "you're cool", as a way of tricking him to qualify himself to you.

He's stuck, because if he DOES do well, he's qualified himself to you. If he doesn't, he's failed to. The only answer he would have would be to say back to you "hey now, you're cool.. I didn't mean to step on your toes man.. You're a smart guy, keep talking to her and I'll watch and learn man!"..
Of course to that, you could reply, "You just met me and you already say I'm smart and cool? hahah"


More AMOG destroyer

AMOG: How do you guys know eachother?
PUA: Her? I ****ed her.
(Girl will go "aaaaaaaaah... hahahahah, I did NOT!!! But she'll hit you and be giggling and start crawling all over you...).

AMOG: Hey, this is a nice girl.
PUA: Her.. she's a slut..
(Again, girl will start going "nooooo!" while giggling her ass off and crawling on you.. this is very deflating to the guy trying to cut in)

AMOG: Hey girls whats up (or whatever)
PUA: Hey dude dude (putting hands up like you give up).. I will pay you a HUNDRED dollars right now, to take these girls away from me.
(Girls will go "no no no... we love you PUA.. noooooo" and giggle and crawl on you.. Again, immediately deflating to the guy)

AMOG: Hey girls what's up (or whatever)
PUA: Dude, OMG that shirt is AWESOME.. I had one just like it in highschool, it ****ing rocks man.. Having a good time in London man.. It's awesome huh? Dude you're like the coolest guy I met all night.. (patting him on the shoulder)..

AMOG: (showing signs that he wants to fight)
PUA: hahah, dude, are you like trying to pick a fight with me? hahahha.. ok ok hold up hold up.. wait a sec, we'll do even better.. first... we'll have an armwrestling competition.. then second.. we'll do one armed pushups.. and last..... POSE-DOWN!!

(then you start flexing and go "ladies?", and they start saying how you're so strong, and the AMOG looks like a tool.. you're tooling him, by making him seem like he's trying too hard to impress the girls by showing them superiority).

AMOG: Hey man.. keep talking.. no no, let's hear your pitch man.. pick these girls up man, you're doing awesome.
PUA: Hey, you know I've gotta try to impress you COOL (x-city, x-dressed, x-whateverquality) guys.. You guys ****ing ROCK.
(cut him down on whatever limited amount of knowledge you have of him, even if its not relevant whatsoever, he'll feel uncomfortable and his bodylanguage will show it)

AMOG: (starts touching you to show dominance)
PUA: hahhaha, DUUUUDE, I'm not into guys man... dude, there's club-gay-whatever over there man.. hands off the merchandise buddy
(girls laugh at him, then he starts qualifying himself to you that he's not gay)

AMOG: (gets in your face)
PUA: (don't answer.. just SIT there quiet.. the more he says stuff to you, the more he's TRYING.. talking too long without an answer is QUALIFYING yourself.. so if he keeps trying to out-alpha you, and you don't answer, eventually he looks beta because he tried too hard to get your attention.. another trick is to make "let's get out of here" girlcode with your eyes to the girls (mimmick what they do to eachother when you do a bad set), and they'll leave with you)

AMOG: (gets in your face)
PUA: dude, you're an alphamale..
AMOG: what's that..
PUA: you know, like the leader of the pack.. you call the shots.. you can put your hands on guys you don't know, cause you're alpha..
(****s up his whole 'look cool' game, because you've characterized all his manneurisms, so anything he does to look alpha makes him appear to be qualifying himself too you.. if he continues, just say "see... alphamale.. whoa tiger, I can't mess")

PUA: dude, you're like Bart Simpson all grown up.. (for guys who pull the college-guy type out alpha on you)

PUA: dude, you're like the Joan Rivers of the club.. I love all the little comments and ****.. (to imply like he does nothing but sits on the sidelines making comments but doesn't take action, so use this on guys who have that characteristic in the club venue)

PUA: That was really good man, you're like a comedian.

OR, if the dude is out-alpha'ing you, keep going until he's TOO into it, and then let him do a bunch of condescending **** on you in a row. Look at the girls like you're bored or sad, and because he's talking TOO MUCH he's therefore qualifying himself to you and losing. Then say to the girls "he's playing the condescention game.. I already won so I stopped now.. who do you guys think won, me or him?" (key is that you looked SAD so the girls start going "awww, he's so sweet", so they'll say you won because they love you now)
For super aggressive AMOGs who try to pick fights

AMOG: blah blah..
PUA: Dude, are you pissed that you're rolling with all guys?

AMOG: blah blah
PUA: dude, your all guy crew is so slick man.. where are your girls dude, what happened tonight?

AMOG: let's go outside..
PUA: guy man, I'm with chicks right now.. I'M INTO CHICKS.. I can't get into this experimental kinky **** with you right now, I have my hands full.. (misinterpreting that he was trying to sleep with you, not fight you)

AMOG: blah blah..
PUA: dude, that shirt rocks.. Tommy Hilfiger.. awesome.. man, back in highschool I used to have the one with like all these cool stripes on it.. it was awesome..

AMOG: fight blah blah..
PUA: guy man, these chicks just told me that they dig you like so bad.. you don't have to fight to prove yourself to them.. they think you're an alphamale dude.. you don't need to try so HARD man.. just BE REAL..

Once you get the guy to qualify himself to you in any way (like he tries to make friends), rather than being nice, IMMEDIATELY cut him out of the circle. Just cut him out. You'll notice trying to SHUT YOUR GAME DOWN by bombarding you with logical questions. They'll start pummeling you with logical stuff, so that you have to answer him the girls fall out of state. For me I found the solution was just to say "hey man, don't get all scientific on me.. we're here to have fun.." and then immediately start gaming the girls again. btw, if I'm out with any of my GFs at a club, and another guy hits on them, I use the same tactics on AMOGS to stop them.

When you cut him out of the circle, he'll either leave (too deflated), or he'll try to grab your shoulder and say something like "don't turn your back on me". From there, the girls think he's creepy, so you say "hey guys, this dude is creepy.. are you friends with this guy?? did YOU bring this guy here?" The girls will say "no no no, we don't know him", and you say "OK, let's get out of here", and put out your arms for them to grab.

Then walk away with the girls on your arms, and if you want (I do this alot) turn around and have them both kiss you on the cheek and wave the AMOG goodbye.

Also, you can USE the AMOG's WORK for yourself. Like he lines 'em up, you knock 'em down.
This is something I do alot. I let a guy pick a girl up and increase her buying temperature, then I go in and outalpha him, say he's creepy to the girls, and then remove them from him.

The girls are already aroused, so they are still in state based on what the AMOG did. I can do this like maybe on 90% of sets I approach where a natural AMOG has gotten far with a girl. I think a dude I know "Stephane" recently posted about this on Cliff's List regarding a sarge we did.
Basically, I just make the friends of the girl who is getting gamed on by the AMOG like me. Like, they want me, but they know they're not qualified but their friend is.

Then I say "Hey I want to meet your friend so much, but that touchy grabby lean in guy is all over her.. is she just being nice, or does she really like guys who lean in and touch and do all the 'whats your name' fake ungenuine stuff?"
The UGs are invariably like "no no, we hate guys like that.. that's why we love you so much blah blah", and then you get the FRIENDS to literally REMOVE the hottie that you want from the AMOG who is conveniently heating her up for you and saving you the hassle.

Most of the time, the AMOG feels immediately beta after such a line!

Hey AMOG, what's up? Are u ill today? You look sick!

Hey AMOG, you look/talk/act strange, do you take drugs?

Hey AMOG, your clothes are really strange!

Hey AMOG, i talked to some people here...
They don't like you, because you seem strange!

 

[Scorched]

If someone approaches your girl... shoot his **** down!

Example...
I was talking to a girl who I knew from high school in front of a movie theater. Two minutes into the conversation some random dude comes up and is like, "Don't I know you from some where?!" She is like huh... I made eye contact with him and simple said, "I'm not done talking to her buddy..." And then I just continued on with the conversation where it left off! 4 mins later she walked off with me. heh...

If the guy got smart... I would have just gotten smart back with him and imply that he needs to calm down.

Although if the girl smiled at him and acknowledged his questioning I guess... I'd just look over her shoulder and act intrigued and say be right back and walk off. i've done similar... heh - I don't see that happening when a guy tries the cold approach though.

 

[Derek Flint]

Just own the frame and lead.

Your girl will quickly see who is Alpha and who is not.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by blueangel83
If you let a stranger hit on your girl (especially when you're with her), she'll think you're a pssy. Fight for your woman! If you were my man I'd think you're a pssy and a lame, I'd kick the guy's ass myself for disrespecting my man.

If she's known the guy for years, then it's ok.

Bzzzz WRONG!!


"Fight for your woman" What the hell is this AFC bollocks???

Try and stick to fashion , entertainment and STD topics in future eh? Leave the tricky questions to the big boys.

 

[bbestar]

Originally posted by bluelemond
:crackup:

Yes that was from the neil strauss book, from tyler.

 

[DJHoolahoop]

i'd just say to the guy and my gf "do you think you two would make a cute couple?" and I'd look at the guy all serious and say "what do you have to offer?"

 

[OzyBoy]

I wouldn't worry too much. I would trust my gf 100 per cent. I would only go over and ask is everything ok and show to the other guy she is mine and tell him to back off if he starts getting a bit pushy.

 

[tihash]

This happened to me a few weeks ago. My gf and I were at a bar with about 3 or 4 other friends. My gf and I we kinda drunk and were making out there. I went to the bathroom (no line-- was back in like less than 3 minutes literally) and there were TWO guys there... one talking to my girl and his wing running interference on one of our friends.

I did not say a word, squeezed in between them, and began making out with her again. When I surfaced for air a few minutes later both of the guys were nowhere to be found.

I did not even acknowledge the dude's presence in any way whatsoever.

Act like he does not exist.

 

[speedo_meme]

yep, that's the way to do it tihash. i don't really worry about this situation anymore, my girl knows i'll pull the trigger and dump her a$$ quick. contrary to popular belief, most guys don't just come up cold approaching a girl with a guy with her.

if he does and he is a troublemaker, make sure you throw the first lick....

 

[spider_007]

If you let a stranger hit on your girl (especially when you're with her), she'll think you're a pssy. Fight for your woman! If you were my man I'd think you're a pssy and a lame, I'd kick the guy's ass myself for disrespecting my man.

If she's known the guy for years, then it's ok.

Any guy could make that mistake, and walk up to a woman that has a b/f. there is notting to fuss about.....If you wana be a little wh*re and flirt with other guys with your guy around, you might as well go home with him because you can't be trusted and i don't need your ass. You know what's appropriate, behave like it....

 

[OrioleMagic]

ummm... how come I haven't heard the word amog yet on this thread.

hint

Do this.. say to the guy

Sup PLAYER(really loud)!!! Pat him real hard on the back so he looses balance. What are you doin here? *put your arm around his neck. Before he finishes his first word interrupt him and say...Look pal, how about you go to that store and buy us some chocolate and maybe i'll late you talk to my girl. Then just walk away with your girl..


Come on people, take control

I think this is the best way to handle the situation. If you are with a seriously hot woman, men are going to be approaching her all the time. If you kick the ass of every man that talks to her, you will be in jail, and she will be with some other man. Basically clown the guy, make him realize he is way out of his league.

 

[everywomanshero]

Yea, fighting is out unless he strikes her or does something crazy. In a club, if he got really annoying I'd introduce him to a bouncer I guess. It's never gotten that far wth me except one guy who ATTACKED a girl I was just out with as friends. Fighitng == jail== no $$$==no exotic vacations or a beach home==a ****ty middle class lifestyle. No thanks, not over any one freaking woman.

If she voluntarly enters the situation by turning response, I'd probably open a set and merge back with her after she's seen me being the life of the group.
I try to avoid bars/clubs with my LTRs unless we are with a groups of friends or it's a strip bar and she's paying. These things reduce the chance of being annoyed.

If it's just some random shmoe, I might give him a second to see what he tries to use, or if I know he's got no game I'd just blow him out by saying she's with me. It's really pretty simple.

If anythng other than that occurs you need to A) Get Security to control the guy or B) Get you girl under control. No, I wouldn't stand there like a tool. Women expect you to protect them. If she's dragging you out there time after time just to get you to play this game, I would just refuse to play and go see someone else. I'm sure this happens to guys with weak frames, because I have female friends who talk about it.

In clubs if a 30 something milf appears I will always sarge her even if she's with her man. Women of the age group take their men into clubs full of youngr, horny guys to pull this kind of crap. Sometimes they jst wanna do something risky in the club, and other times they wanna meet otuside the club. Anyway, 30-40 year old hot MILF in younger club == horny chic who will do damn near anything for future reference,

 

[Dave yeah]

This happened to me a few weeks ago, however she isn't exactly my girlfriend yet, just someone I'm dating.

The dude came up to her and started talking. I introduced myself to him and just played it cool. There was a game on at the bar so I sat and watched that. They were chatting a lot, so I got up and left for about 15-20 minutes. I came back and she was upset because she thought I left.

He even asked me if she was my girlfriend and I told him "not really" just to sit back and watch everything unfold. I had some other guy that was observing ask me what I was going to do and I told him nothing, she isn't my girlfriend.

Granted, I think I played it cool while it was happening....but the entire car ride home I didn't really talk to her and wouldn't tell her why. She figured it out, but I still got the long kiss goodnight.

 

[Fash]

Granted, I think I played it cool while it was happening....but the entire car ride home I didn't really talk to her and wouldn't tell her why. She figured it out, but I still got the long kiss goodnight.

You did well my man. Because she wasn't officially your gf, there wasn't much more you could do. It was really up to HER to tell the other guy to p*ss off!

However, you were able to make it very clear that you were NOT impressed by her actions and did not approve of them in an indirect way.

good job!

 

[Dave yeah]

You did well my man. Because she wasn't officially your gf, there wasn't much more you could do. It was really up to HER to tell the other guy to p*ss off!

However, you were able to make it very clear that you were NOT impressed by her actions and did not approve of them in an indirect way.

good job!

Thanks! She still told me that she thought I was acting jealous by not saying anything to her, though. I think if I was going to show I was jealous I would have punched the guy in the mouth!

The next step is getting her in bed. I'm working on that. I think I'm in.

 

[Tomatoes]

Depends what mood i was in. Most the time i would let it fly. If shes into me then she wont do ****. However you have to be aware of fellow DJ's out there after your pvssy. If it was going on too long. I would go and AMOG his ass. If she asked why i did it. I would say sorry. I thought he was bothering you.

 

[speedo_meme]

90% of the time this problem lies with the girl, not you...

 

[tihash]

Don't we have to make a distinction between when this happens to your GIRLFRIEND versus when it happens to a girl you just met and are sarging or a girl you are casually dating?

I think the OP had mentioned a girlfriend.

Oh, and do you guys get this a lot with girlfriends? The body language is different if it is a gf or if it is someone you just met. My gf never gets approached in front of my face when I am with her, but if I leave to take a p!ss that is when shyt goes down.