Another Guy approaches your G/F in front of you: How to Act

[Colinski282]

So my girl is good lookin and we have been spending alot more time lately and now im am quite sure she will get a cold approach sooner or later when i am in front of her. I was wondering what was the most DJ way to act when this happens....

Should I

A: Let her talk and see how she acts (To me this seems too passive)

B: Goto my girl and ask if everything was Okay, look at the guy, and then let her finish the convo. (Is not not passive nor needy and shows you know whats going on)

C: Act all crazy macho and front the guy himself (Might be unneccessary and is most likely un-needed)

What would you say to do. You dont have to pick a letter thats just what i had in mind

 

[flu]

If it were MY girlfriend and somebody approached her i'd be calm about it. Establish eye contact with the guy, give a sly smile, gesture "go for it" and go on doing whatever you were doing - even if means walking away.
Being in a LTR = trust in my eyes. Wouldn't be worried about anything.

 

[MightyMate]

Well i would look, maybe come to her, but dont say or mention anything. Id act like i thought she may know him or so.

 

[B-Lemond]

There was an article on this on the main site (sosuave.com) about this EXACT situation.

Unfortunately I can't find it.

If you can, post it on here.

 

[n00bPimp]

Just act cool and friendly to him, this will make him realize you're a confident person and you would kick his ass if he tryes to steal your girl, it will also send her the message that you couldn't care less what she does because you trust her and b/c you're a confident man who doesnt let anything bother you. However let it be known that she is yours.

 

[avrilishot]

basically what eveyone said, just act cool and calm it shows confidence.

 

[MinDFreeZ]

yea, like they said... just make sure you introduce yourself to him and make it kind of agressive.. like.. loud I guess.. like "Hey, my name's Guy, how's it going?" *shaking hand* ... do it really confidently... shows her you aren't worried and shows him you're confident, so he needs to be more confident than you (make that impossible )

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I'd love for that situation to occur, I'd just sit back maybe with a grin on my face, and have my input when needed. At some point, they guy would know who Iam and back off easy.

 

[reyalp]

i'd flip out my knife, hold it really aggressively. then use it to clean my fingernails.

i think he'll get the hint.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Originally posted by reyalp
i'd flip out my knife, hold it really aggressively. then use it to clean my fingernails.

i think he'll get the hint.

LMAO :crackup:
That's some funny stuff.

I agree with the other guys. DO NOT show that it phases you in any way. If she doesn't handle the situation in the right way....... that's "your get out of jail free" card to do anything you want to her after that. If she's ever nagging u about something just be like "remeber that night when you let that guy hit on you right in front of my fukking face".........

 

[BG the HB Tamer]

Originally posted by Colinski282
So my girl is good lookin and we have been spending alot more time lately and now im am quite sure she will get a cold approach sooner or later when i am in front of her. I was wondering what was the most DJ way to act when this happens....

Should I

A: Let her talk and see how she acts (To me this seems too passive)

B: Goto my girl and ask if everything was Okay, look at the guy, and then let her finish the convo. (Is not not passive nor needy and shows you know whats going on)

C: Act all crazy macho and front the guy himself (Might be unneccessary and is most likely un-needed)

What would you say to do. You dont have to pick a letter thats just what i had in mind

My gf is pretty social.

So what I do when some guy comes and talks to her is.... I either join in (if the guy leaves room), or I hand around for about 10 or 20 secs and if nobody involves me in the conversation, I turn around and strike up a conversation with someone else.

I'll be ****ing my chick in 3 hours anyway, that guy will be at home jerking off while fantasizing about us.

Might as well meet some new people if some lame chump gives me the opportunity.


(btw, this is congruent with me. She knows i'm a really social guy, she knows i strike up conversations with random people everywhere (it's how I met her, haha) - if this is not congruent with you, it will seem like too much like an action out of jealousy.. Compensating!)

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Okay, first of all, you should carry yourself in a manner that retards any such cold approaches from guys if you are with her.

Nothing a little MMA can't help. I suggest hitting the gym and upping your protein.

If a douchebag DOES do such an approach, kindly dominate the situation by putting your arm around her, taking control, and giving the guy a look like you will seriously kick his ass.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Colinski282
So my girl is good lookin and we have been spending alot more time lately and now im am quite sure she will get a cold approach sooner or later when i am in front of her. I was wondering what was the most DJ way to act when this happens....

If you conjure up crazy scenarios in your head before they even happen with the fear of you losing, then you will lose. Change your way of thinking.

If you think some guy can slide over to your space and snag her away then you obviously know that you are not good enough for her. You can change that as well.

Your girl will be more likely approached when you are not around, this is a scenario you should be concern about if you think you don't have a tight game. It is more likely that you will lose your girl when she by herself and gets hit on by a confident guy. Then you will get a phone call that she "needs some time off to find herself" but she is calling you from some strange dude's bed.

When you go out with a woman always mention to her that you are a man of integrity and that believe in respect. If a strange guy in a bar approaches her when you are around and she flirts with him in front of you it means she doesn't really like you or respect you. A woman who respects and loves her man knows that its a turnoff for him to see her flirting with another man in front of him and she wouldn't want to do that because she already knows that you are a suave guy with many other options and that you will not tolerate disrespect and Bvll**** behaviour.

Work on yourself first and you won't worry about small things like that.

DjDamage

 

[bbestar]

ummm... how come I haven't heard the word amog yet on this thread.

hint

Do this.. say to the guy

Sup PLAYER(really loud)!!! Pat him real hard on the back so he looses balance. What are you doin here? *put your arm around his neck. Before he finishes his first word interrupt him and say...Look pal, how about you go to that store and buy us some chocolate and maybe i'll late you talk to my girl. Then just walk away with your girl..


Come on people, take control

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
I'd love for that situation to occur, I'd just sit back maybe with a grin on my face, and have my input when needed. At some point, they guy would know who Iam and back off easy.

this is how you do it. thats the best way, seriously.

start commenting on the way the guy is doing his pickup and giving him tips while you sip your drink or something. real chill and laid back.

this way you look like you are not threatened by some random punk and are better than him.

 

[Badmannaz]

Be yourself whatever emotions felt at the time act on them truthfully and repectfully in a pure DJ manner.

 

[BG the HB Tamer]

If you feel any insecurity, you have work to do.


Make sure you act out of comfort, not out of insecurity.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

I was thinkin bout this last night, while we're on the subject of AMOGing.

invite him openly into the conversation, but keep in controll of it

whenever he tries a techique or routine, say "oh the (whatever) routine? duuude you've been at this for a while eh? nice! *high five*" or "that one wont do it, try THIS one instead *give him random technique you just thought of" or even "my FAVORITE! I'm saving that for later, definitely"


he wont last long. and after you seriously socially dominate him, go to the bathroom or get a drink and let him finally be alone with the girl.

oh too cruel

 

[JackPrescott]

I've done this before and it works well. If she is an actual committed girlfriend, I simply walk up to her in mid conversation, and start Frenching her in front of the guys face, then I introduce myself, minus the handshake, and if she is my gal, she knows how I am about $hit like this, she basically tells the guy "nice to meet you, excuse me" without any further communication. If he is persistent, thats usually when Security is breaking us apart, and I usually can land the first shot.

 

[blueangel83]