Another field report (firstdate) - new plate and learn from this!

TheGambino

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First date report (yesterday)

So I asked this girl out (HB 6.5, face is a 6, body a 8) I knew from high school (about 8 years ago).

I ran in her downtown months ago and we had some small talk and we danced a little.

Reached out on facebook to get together, got her digits. Texted back and forth but two weeks she told me she was too busy and that she was going on vacation soon.
Last week she reached out to me that she was in town (yesterday) and if I wanted to go for drinks so I set up a date with her.

Showed up 10 mins late, kissed her 3 times and we are set.

As usual the same routine, ask a bunch of interesting questions.

What are your hobbies? What are your passions? How was your vacation? Who do you still see from highschool? What's the most fun thing you ever done after highschool? What's the most naughty thing you done ever? She talks, you listen, remain, eye contact, give her all attention and be laid back and cool.

If she asks you stuff, be short, direct, and turn the convo to her. If I tell the girl something about my passions, ill be using my hands, smile a lot and bring it very convincing. Then steer the convo away to her again, remember 70-30%, I even do 80-20% if I don't have much to say.

She will feel that she has to be interesting and that shes doing some kind of job interview wheter she fits in your amazing life or not. (don't forget to have fun and make jokes and be blunt, talk about cexual stuff too)

Grabbed her hand and told her they are soft and nice sometimes. I turned bold sometimes and after about 30 mins you act like you lose interest and you look around the pub. She will notice this and try to get your attention back to her.

Then the time will fly (in her mind) because she was talking for an hour or maybe two so she has fun, they love to talk about themselves.

Then only this: ''Hey lets have some drinks at my place''

In my situation my mom was at my house for the weekend so she invited me to her house (parents were home, she lives by herself in another city but thats far away). She introduces me to her parents, and they went to bed (very awkward..)

We have a long as$ convo on the couch about a lot of stuff then I tell her I wonder how you kiss ''come here'' and I make out with her.

She gets on top of me but she doesn't let me undress her.

I end it sweet and nice and leave the joint.

I texted her the next day to ask her how her day was going and that's that. Welcome new plate.

Went to a club after my date (learn from this part!!!!)
One of my plates that I fvcked a couple of times, she is very emotionally attached to me due some happenings. She asked me to come over.

I went to the club, she was there, she notices me and does not greet me. (she is on the other side of the club) She hates and loves me because I make her cvm like a champ, she loves the D but she knows im playing her and she knows she can't control me or lock me down. I always been indifferent and this is without knowing im alpha widowing her.

She was there with her friend and her friends bf. They were sitting with a couple of other dudes that spent 100s of euros on bottles in the vip area.

I went in and joined my buddies at another table. Danced a bit, talked to some ladies, my friends and moved around. At some point I went up to my plate in the vip area, kissed her cheek in front of everyone there and told her to follow me. She says ''no ill come later''. (this is disrespect in my eyes) I tell her ok and bail. I catch her talk to a dude and another dude and her friend is checking out what im doing.

At this point I was like okay lets play your stupid game. (inviting me to the club to play games)
I hit on the best looking and dancing girl and seduced her. I slowly grinded the girl, talked to her and kept dancing for 30 mins, she saw everything and started to rage. She even threw a glass to the DJ out of frustration (she was drunk). Im kind of sure it had to do with me, because she was looking all mad towards me. I ignored her, number closed the new girl and when the lights turned on I kissed her goodbye (on the cheek) and left.

My plate follows me outside and wants me to go home with her. We go to her house with her friend and her bf. She goes to bed straight and throws up all night and morning (she was sick all week and had loads of alcohol, bad...)

Anyway, no cex but that doesnt matter, im always welcome to stop by to get laid.

You guys see what happened here? She invites me to the club, ignores me, tries to make me jealous by talking to other dudes and acting all high class in the vip area, not even greeting me. I really don't give one damn sh1t about her, like I really don't, it's pure cex with this broad for me. She is fine but her personality is just not interesting at all. Real indifference for months with her.

She hopes that I will become desperate so she can lock me or lose interest or whatever the f8ck she wanted to accomplish. Instead of pursuing her inside or asking what up I just withdrew attention, succesfully approached a new chick and grinded and had fun with her infront of my plate all night. She drinks more, gets mad and in the end takes me home again.

Well, the ''player'', indifference, killer guy that doesn't give a sheit wins again here I guess. I wish I could feel the same with all other girls.


Update 3-year ltr girl that I hooked up with 2 weeks ago. This text convo was today. I care more about this wh0re then my plate that wants a ltr (described above). Cex is AMAZING, and her personality is FUN.
Texted her some fun stuff and that I was in her town today and if she wanted to get out.

Her: Im tired, and I need to sleep on time so sorry....
Me: Okay
She blows me off, that was the 3-strikes, I deleted her number for good now. She might reach out when things don't go well with her bf anymore. I will make her my fvckbuddy then.

Feel free to reply with any of your thoughts, except for the ''moral'', ''white knights'', ''karma'', ''better men'' talk about the last girl in the thread, I just don't care about morals in these situations.
 

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Best question of all time...

Whats your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Not only does it tell you something about them, you can let them know ahead of time that to be careful what they answer because it will tell a lot about them...they eat it up...and its actually true based on psychological research...
 

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Best question of all time...

Whats your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Not only does it tell you something about them, you can let them know ahead of time that to be careful what they answer because it will tell a lot about them...they eat it up...and its actually true based on psychological research...
Ill Remember This and use iT.
 

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Best question of all time...

Whats your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Not only does it tell you something about them, you can let them know ahead of time that to be careful what they answer because it will tell a lot about them...they eat it up...and its actually true based on psychological research...
Link to the research?
 

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She’s not a plate till you continually bang her.....
 
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