Another day with strippers

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Strippers want a relationship with you, in general? And yet, you haven't started a fling with any of the younger ones? Again (if you are male), you have this glaring lack of testosterone. You simply don't want a variety of young, healthy women, even though you could have any of them easily, and you aren't committed to anyone.

Actually I engage in sexual activity of some sort with a woman almost every day. Over my lifetime I would guess that I have ejaculated in or on a woman some 10,000 times. It’s just that the vast majority of those times have been with a few select women. I’m of the opinion that the more times I have sex with a particular woman, the better it gets.
There is sort of a game in interacting with women. Strippers just tend to understand that it is just a game moreso than most.

Awhile back we ended up sitting next to each other at a party and ended up spending most the night together, just talking. We came to an understanding and it makes it easier to be just friends with her.

What "understanding" was that? Explain why is it easier for you, an unattached guy, to be only a friend of a hot woman who clearly wants you. (Seriously, if you're trying to show us how things work in your world, that would go a long way.)

For the most part I flirt with most women that I encounter. In the process there is a considerable amount of unspoken communication that goes on between me and each woman. In that I can tell quite a bit how much a particular woman likes me or not, often just by the way she looks at me, through the emotions that I can see in her eyes.

When I’m out and about and start flirting with a girl, say at the deli counter, there is no expectation that it will go further than that, even if I can tell that she is really excited. With Kennedy it’s not like that. When I first started running into her, I could see that she took it seriously, that she seemed to be falling for me. As such there was an expectation on her part that it go further. That expectation made it very uncomfortable to be around her – in large part due to my not wanting to hurt her feelings.

I’m more inclined to have relationships with women rather than just bang whichever one comes along. Though I’ll flirt with the other strippers I never hook up one because I think it would diminish the relationship that I have with Amanda.

 

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I agree - there are a lot of strip joints out there where attractive women are hard to find. I've always wondered why managers just don't tell the fatties, "you're NOT hired." Maybe there is some type of discrimination precedent in which a club can't tell a woman that she can't be hired because she is fat. Or maybe the club figures that with the women paying their tip-out, that the club will make its money one way or another, and that the fat ones will quit in short order because they won't get any business. Or maybe the fat ones are just a lot more aggressive, and through a strong level of marketing, they are able to talk clients into forking over (I know from personal experience that the ugly strippers are generally more likely to rub my groin when talking to me.)

A strip joint would really need to be bad to not have at least a few good looking ones around. Not many want to be around if there is a steady procession of only fat women.

Agree, alot of strippers are unattractive. MOST of them are unattractive. And I've been to almost every strip club here in Long Island and the NYC area. Reason I think a lot of these unattractive ones get hired, is because most guys out there have NO F*CKING STANDARDS..and the strip club owners know that..so they don't care who they hire, they'll still make money either way.