another AFC question(or is it?)

[napoleon]

Yes it is.


If a girl ,when I ask her where will she go on a saturday night ,never mentions a guy but is always going with friends. Would you assume that she's single? I assume that if a girl is taken(college) she will definetly go out on saturday with her borefriend.

 

[silkkster]

well not always - i know a lot of girls in college (i am in college as well) i know alot of girls that go out with their girlfriends on the weekends and not w their boyfriends.. so you should just be upfront and ask her - "are you single?" if she says no, say, to bad for you then and walk away - then the next time you see her, use a little C+F and she might come around lol

 

[Magnus Pym]

I agree with silkkster, girls like to go out with their girlfriends. Just be up front and ask her if she has a b/f.

Pym

 

[napoleon]

Anybody?

 

[MacDiddy]

Does it matter that she has a BF or not???

You sarge you do your best and if she gives you IOI, you're in!!! If she has a BF and they are tight then she will reject your advances.

Don't let a mental block like that stop your game.

 

[Magnus Pym]

The only reason you need to know about the b/f issue is so that you can adjust your approach accordingly.

Pym

 

[MacDiddy]

The only reason you need to know about the b/f issue is so that you can adjust your approach accordingly.

Before I call your BS, give us an example!!!

I've never known any PUA to even bother with that issue.

 

[Magnus Pym]

Originally posted by MacDiddy
Before I call your BS, give us an example!!!

Before you call my BS? I hope I can come up with a satisfactory answer for you…

I am dating two women right now, one 14 years younger than me and the other 13 years younger than me. I’m doing fine and your opinion means little.

I will indulge you however and you can call it what you want.

I have observed that many women place a value on a potential mate based on what he can provide in terms of material and emotional security.

If you deem her worthy of you and she is otherwise committed, then you begin gathering intel on their relationship. Find the weaknesses and exploit them. Most women are more than willing to trade up if there is little risk to their material and emotional security.

It is the guerrilla war code of conduct:
Draw attention away from the front
Know your enemy’s weakness
Confuse your enemy
Cause damage

Pym

 

[MacDiddy]

I am dating two women right now, one 14 years younger than me and the other 13 years younger than me. I’m doing fine and your opinion means little.

This statement is irrelevant and needless grandstanding.. Unless you actually used your above mentioned techniques on these girls.

I have observed that many women place a value on a potential mate based on what he can provide in terms of material and emotional security.

I'd rather a girl not know whether I can or cannot provide for her materialistic and emotional needs. I'd like to know whether she can provide for me!!!!!

If you deem her worthy of you and she is otherwise committed, then you begin gathering intel on their relationship. Find the weaknesses and exploit them.

What weakness, what explotation???

Most women are more than willing to trade up if there is little risk to their material and emotional security.

Most women will trade up if her BF is a loser or an AFC even if there is a risk. Both of which matters little in your attempted sarge.

Seriously.....How does knowing her status aid in the actual art of seduction??? Explain this to me like I'm a 4 year old!!

 

[Magnus Pym]

Explain this to me like I'm a 4 year old!! [/B][/QUOTE]

Why? 4 year olds don't have problems getting women, they are chick magnets!

Fine, you don't think it matters and I do...who cares?



Pym

 

[MacDiddy]

The seduction community cares!!!

I'm having a problem deciphering your explaination... But otherwise would like to know how (tactically) you would benefit...

 

[napoleon]

Stick to the topic!!!!!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by napoleon
Yes it is.


If a girl ,when I ask her where will she go on a saturday night ,never mentions a guy but is always going with friends. Would you assume that she's single? I assume that if a girl is taken(college) she will definetly go out on saturday with her borefriend.

If a guy, when he asks a woman where will she go on a Saturday night, never asking for a date but he is obviously interested in her. Would you assume that he is a AFC because he is afraid that he will be rejected per usual?