Annoying women

[Murk]

I have been seeing a girl for a couple of months and she's just annoying. She asks stupid questions, like we were watching netflix and she asked me 3 times in 10 minutes if I was cold to which I kept saying no, she had a warm blanket on her I could feel she was hot. If we ever watch something she tries talking to me when I'm trying to hear the TV/movie.

After we banged and she was going home she says "why don't you take me out, are you embarrassed of me?" I said no, we've already been outside on dates and she's more than happy to come straight to my place so why is she making problems? I'm just busy with work and have no desire to take her anywhere as I don't see this going anywhere with her.

She asked me on the 4th or 5th meet while in bed, if we were boyfriend and girlfriend, I laughed and said no, and she got upset. Naive, stupid or mentally ill?

She turned up 1 hour 20 minutes early one time, with no warning, just banging on my door. I think that really just disgusted me, who does that? I've never just knocked someone's door without a text/call beforehand. I literally just got out the shower and hadn't given my bedroom/bathroom and living room a quick whip round like I usually do.

She has asked if we are going on a date Friday, I took a day to reply "yeah". I'm thinking to just cut her loose, the sex is very good, but I can see headache and stress brewing with this situation, so seems a good time to cut her loose. It's run it's course I feel.

Maybe I'm just grumpy, women do piss me off with stupid stuff, talking for the sake of it, asking probing questions or making assumptions. I just feel too old for the BS these days. I can hear how moany and miserable I sound even typing this.

 

[Westminster]

This is what a lot of women are like, especially when they're into you. They fuss about and ask lots of questions, it's all part of their 'charm'.

I know what you mean though, it can get a bit tedious - especially if you're not that into them.

 

[Barrister]

Murk,

It sounds like you flat out just don't like this chick that much. I am guessing if she was very hot and interesting you wouldn't care that she asked you multiple times if you are cold. And you likely would be fine taking her out more often because she would look good next to you.

You sound kind of burnt out on the dating scene, brother. May not be a bad idea to just take a few weeks off from it and focus on something else.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Meaning you only want the body, but nothing to do with the person.

I know that feeling and was there at your age.

You know, you cant blame women for being more then a sextoy.

I guess you are at a point in life when pvssy starts becoming less important then your peace.

Its time to get into LTR material when bimbos aint doing it anymore.

 

[jimwho]

She likes you, and you treat her like trash. She's a woman and simply reacting.

 

[Dr.Suave]

She turned up 1 hour 20 minutes early one time, with no warning, just banging on my door. Who does that?

Naive, stupid, and mentally ill.

There. Fixed it for you.


A guy at work once told me that its impossible to watch TV with most girls because they just wont shut the f0ck up. Its like they just need to talk during tv. We should talk to girls about the weather or something like that, during penetration, see how they like it.

You could always try "training" her to be less annoying. But its possible it might not work and/or she will just find new ways to pizz u off.

You are already bored of her. This particular juice is no longer worth the squeeze.

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

She asked me on the 4th or 5th meet while in bed, if we were boyfriend and girlfriend, I laughed and said no, and she got upset. Naive, stupid or mentally ill?

What a sav.

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah, this is the price we men pay to be with women. As said before, she doesn't want to be just a hole, so she'll fight for recognition and attention. Especially when they feel you're not into them. Always remember there were 10 simps before you, but she ditched them somehow. In between are guys like you who dont really want her. She knows EXACTLY what and who you are.

Big part might be that you are still used to certain types of women. This almost sounds like "she's too nice " ( apart from the unexpected visit perhaps). Something else must be a turn off about her, otherwise you can simply train her ("dont talk when we watch a movie I like"). Could also be a symptom of your own reluctance to date a new woman.

Let me say this; when you are out and available on the market be prepared for women acting like women. The next 5 might also have these or other "annoying "feminine traits .

One solution can be telling them straight up that all you want is sex and no relationship. And even then women will annoy you.