Annabell Sarges POF

[Desdinova]

Is there anything on his profile, that gives away he's into any PU-related stuff or seduction material? I know POF is heavy on the David D newsletters.

I wouldn't doubt that he's into David D. Here's his profile:

hey

i keep coming back to this site cause it's cheap... and now i know why. cause this site is a joke.

I'm looking for someone who is willing to meet in person, not have back and fourth emails sent to each other on how our day went or what we had for dinner.... ah who my kidding, of course i want to know what you had for dinner!! I had a slab of meat for dinner. what did you have?

i'm Looking for chemistry, only way to find it is by meeting and getting to know each other on a real life level, not through a computer screen. ha who am i kidding yet again... computer screen is where the initial spark begins. its very important that we connect on screen. Right? lol

all i ask is that you pretend to enjoy my company and laugh at my lame jokes... ah! who am I kidding for the third and final time.... you're more than welcome to leave as you please. lol

oh and if you have any questions about my qualities and my motives as a person... well they're all wonderful.

thanks for watching, Goodnight.

 

[wait_out]

Yes but our suave buddy is sinking his time into this conversation with you, Des, and he'll have nothing to show for it afterwards. I don't know about you but I consider that a fail.

Sure he's doing a better job jumping through the hoops you're setting up for him than the others... but the most "DJ" (?) thing to do in this situation is ascertain she's mostly into this conversation for her own amusement, not to set up a potential date, and move on immediately.

2 good lessons here.
1) The public and private faces of women can be radically different:"I'm looking for my knight" = false, "I use POF because I have a sick and unbreakable fascination with all these guys shamefully hurling themselves at me!" = true.
2) We enjoy the same things girls do. And Des, you're kind of a b!tch, sorry :crackup:

 

[synergy1]

A response to the post above me was summed up hundreds of years ago by Machiavelli.

For a long time I have not said what I believed, nor do I ever believe what I say, and if indeed sometimes I do happen to tell the truth, I hide it among so many lies that it is hard to find

We enjoy the same things girls do. And Des, you're kind of a b!tch, sorry

Everyone likes the power of choice. Choice allows us to relax our personal fronts and not kiss everyone's ass. Even average women in their early 20s have all the choices they want when it comes to guys, thus their behavior reflects this. I have seen it plenty of times where a chick turns into a single mommy and her attitude does a complete 180; it has too. Their choices just got a whole hell of a lot smaller.

I leave my POF account for days and I already have more responses that I can even read. The illusion here is scarcity; hordes of desperate dudes for every couple attractive women in the online arena. After this little test, i have no intention of EVER using an online dating service again. I don't see how you can differentiate yourself short of being a complete ******* or making threats* - nothing else would grab my attention in this sea of crap.

The brief experience was enlightening, but didn't tell us anything new. Here is my plan of action: I plan on changing a few key metrics to see if the number of views and number of initiations change. For example, i will start by lowering her salary and maybe putting that she smokes. A week later, I shall put that she has 1 kid and a crappy job. It will be an easy test which won't require a bunch of my time. I will report general results here and we can draw some conclusions from it.

(*I do NOT advocate threatening people obviously but merely cite it as a tool to get attention)

 

[spinaroonie]

Curious - what's the demographic profile of the guys who are messaging you? I'm thinking working class white dude, mid-late 20s, his social circle's dried up. Doesn't really come across young single girls very often. His game is ****ty in bars and clubs. Basically online dating is his only recourse.

And these guys aren't obese ogres or autistic dorks. They're relatively normal guys with normal looks and normal jobs and normal desires. Your basic average guy-guy. They're just guys who have no clue on the psychology of women, or what attracts them, or how to relate to them. They're basically guys who've been lied to all their lives, guys who haven't swallowed the red pill.

If the pool of guys on POF is representative of the general single guy population, and assuming these guys are as atrocious in the real world as they are online, then it means a *huge* number of guys aren't getting with *any* women.

It's a testament to the 80/20 rule - 20% of guys are tapping 80% of the women. The 20% of guys who actually get it. And I imagine the same dynamic is being played out on POF.

 

[Chosen1]

I hate to say this but my ex wife has a pof account look how boring she sounds http://www.plentyoffish.com/member21836934.htm there is no telling how many men tried to hit on her. and her pics are booty yo

 

[synergy1]

children, yes. Over weight, yes. Car, no. Age, 22.

wow, just wow to any guys who would hit on that.

Curious - what's the demographic profile of the guys who are messaging you? I'm thinking working class white dude, mid-late 20s, his social circle's dried up. Doesn't really come across young single girls very often. His game is ****ty in bars and clubs. Basically online dating is his only recourse.

I won't go through every dude who messaged this account, but I can sum it up for you. Its mostly mid to late 20s, some 30s and a few older. you get every type available from the inept nerds, the wanna be jocks, and the old guys who don't seem to have any game. Almost all will tell sadie she is interesting or address one of the other points in hopes of qualifying themselves. As I said earlier, I don't see how a guy can differentiate themselves at all. Further proof that real life encounters trump POF by a lot. Also, I find most guys are too chicken **** to really engage women in real life they don't know, so why not leverage than instead of playing ball in an impersonal environment like POF?

I know plenty of guys with good social circles who still use these things. To them, its supplemental and they barely log in. incidentally enough, of my group of friends, they are in the top 20% of guys who seem to get around with girls from our group. from what I can tell, none of them have had success on it recently, but one of my friends said he banged two chicks off myspace a while back. Maybe it was easier back a few years ago.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I was emailing them without reading profiles (who has time for that crap and doing a detailed AFC response anyway).

Headlines like this:

Don’t worry about my wife..She’ll never know.

The last ten people who’ve emailed you...

Body:>>>The last ten people who've emailed you before me have herpes. Just thought I’d let you know. Oh yes and I’m mentally sound, STD free and "love to laugh"!

You'd be surprised by how many respond when you try to get a rise out of them in a humorous way. You have to spam alot. Alot will reply and laugh or be a humorless twit.

If they ask "Did you even read my profile?" I say: NO I didn't. It seemed to bore me, but I thought you were semi-cute so I banged out my reply and fired off my wacky email too you! And YES. I thought you were cute. DEAL with it woman! (And let them respond. Good or bad.)

It is what it is. That's the way I took the Plenty of Oil Spill.

 

[RSanders219]

Maybe you should chat with a couple of them a bit longer, get some emotional commitment, and then email them and say you're stranded in nigeria and they've taken your passport, and could you please wire a couple grand?

I like the way you think! Haha

 

[squirrels]

...really??

 

[Drdeee]

What could really be sick if you could chat a fattie girl into meeting 'you' at starbucks, and then a fattie guy into meeting a 'hottie' at that same starbucks, same day and time. You could also mix it up and make a fattie guy meet a hottie woman, and vice versa. They'd just arrange online when and where to meet, and when at starbucks they just call each other. It be hillarious!

 

[Mr.Positive]

The problem these guys responding is all the lame attempts at humor. Short back and forth responses. Responses should be bold and to the point, imo. Never try to have a "conversation". After maybe message #3, tell her you want to talk in person and get a phone number. If you don't get the number, don't waste any more time. I've found that after a couple of messages, you'll get the number if she's interested. This weeds out attention seeking women only looking to have their online ego stroked.

 

[old married dude]

A friend of mine and I did this once on POF as a joke. We found pics of a chick who was just so-so, maybe a 6, but holy cow, I think we had about 3990565905 messages on the inbox within 24 hours.

To sum it up, just about every guy was a tool & if I was a chick I probably wouldn't respond to 90% of them. We got so many messages that were obviously canned, copy & pasted, and mass mailed in an effort to get a bite from anyone. We came across many examples of atrocious spelling and grammar. The thuggish guys that would message were some of the funniest, they would write things like "Hey shawty, wut it do?" :crackup:

 

[IamJosan]

I made a fake profile for some other sites too, and it just made me sad at how pathetic most of the guys are. So sad

 

[Alle_Gory]

What could really be sick if you could chat a fattie girl into meeting 'you' at starbucks, and then a fattie guy into meeting a 'hottie' at that same starbucks, same day and time. You could also mix it up and make a fattie guy meet a hottie woman, and vice versa. They'd just arrange online when and where to meet, and when at starbucks they just call each other. It be hillarious!

This is deliciously devious. Reminds me of this:

I met someone recently who told me one of the most epic trolls I've ever heard of, so I thought I would share. He posted an ad on craigslist pretending to be a female asking for a male furry dressed as a leopard to rent a hotel room and "she" would show up dressed as a rabbit and they would ****. When he got someone to accept the offer and disclose the location of the hotel room, he posted another ad, again pretending to be a female. He asked for a man dressed as a rabbit to show up to the previously disclosed hotel room and "she" would be there dressed as a leopard.

The next day, his inbox was flooded with angry emails after the 2 furries fooled around with each other for a while until they realized they both had ****s.

 

[facadegeniality]

This is deliciously devious. Reminds me of this:

what the f*ck?? this is hilarious!!!

 

[TheMale]

This is deliciously devious. Reminds me of this:

i hope these guys (the rabbit and the leopard) are not a PC freak ! ;p

 

[Zodiac]

This is beyond hilarious. Shame I never saw it till now.