SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I normally have a pretty strict rule to avoid banging anyone in my close social circle because it normally creates a lot of drama, unnecessary confusion and it can split a social group in half. I've seen a group fall apart over girl drama before, and I rather keep my social circles in tact.
Last summer I ran into this cute 19 year old that recently moved into town and she actually wanted to take dancing lessons in town. I stopped dancing 3 years prior and as I really enjoyed it, we decided to swap numbers and find a place to dance. We hit it off almost immediately, had great convos, good kino and there was definitely mutual attraction. However, I at some point decided that my dancing was more important than getting involved with her and just placed her in the friendzone. She later dropped me a LJBF since I just continued flirting because she felt pretty much the same. We eventually ended up having a make out session a few weeks after that to clear the air of the remaining tension and all was fine.
Fast forward to april this year: I ploughed myself through every attractive girl in the pool of girls at the dancing school, and one unattractive one(no idea why the hell I did that). I ended up dating the last of them for about 4.5 months. My dancing partner was witness how I pulled the feet from underneath this girl and turned her into the brightest ball of happiness. She radiated. So, that whole deal died off this summer, and apparently, the girl is still talking about me.
So, after the dancing season ended in may, I didn't see my partner much as I was involved with other things. Dancing started again 2 months ago, and same sh*t happened between me and my partner: We hit it right off the bat with flirting like we've never done before. It's much more intense than last year, and that's the really confusing part.
With any other girl, I would've isolated her in living room and done what must be done. However, I value my dancing a lot and this girl makes a great dancing partner. She's driven, fun to dance with, has an ideal height and we're both well adapted to each other.
But the sheer amount of IOIs are confusing the hell out of me. My parents met her during the dancing examination last year and my mom actually commented on how she thought it would be amazing to have her as daughter-in-law. Yea, I know what my mother is telling me. I found that amusing, and told her that in a very teasing way, and her response? "That's still possible". She was over for a training session last friday and when looking up some music on my laptop I stood behind her and massaged her shoulders and neck. And I'll be damned if her breathing didn't indicate she was getting horny. However, she does throw in IODs scarcely, but not enough to tell me if she's just flirting or wants more. Some of my friends told me she wants more just by observing her behaviour.
What does SoSuave make of this? I think I'm just going to play this like I did last year: Ignore it and date other girls. I haven't had much time in the past 2 months, so I'm out of plates(I know, bad, my first dry spell in 1.5 years). I've got a few potentials and have 2 dates set up in the coming 1 week, so I'm not desperate. Just want to hear some opinions on this...
Last summer I ran into this cute 19 year old that recently moved into town and she actually wanted to take dancing lessons in town. I stopped dancing 3 years prior and as I really enjoyed it, we decided to swap numbers and find a place to dance. We hit it off almost immediately, had great convos, good kino and there was definitely mutual attraction. However, I at some point decided that my dancing was more important than getting involved with her and just placed her in the friendzone. She later dropped me a LJBF since I just continued flirting because she felt pretty much the same. We eventually ended up having a make out session a few weeks after that to clear the air of the remaining tension and all was fine.
Fast forward to april this year: I ploughed myself through every attractive girl in the pool of girls at the dancing school, and one unattractive one(no idea why the hell I did that). I ended up dating the last of them for about 4.5 months. My dancing partner was witness how I pulled the feet from underneath this girl and turned her into the brightest ball of happiness. She radiated. So, that whole deal died off this summer, and apparently, the girl is still talking about me.
So, after the dancing season ended in may, I didn't see my partner much as I was involved with other things. Dancing started again 2 months ago, and same sh*t happened between me and my partner: We hit it right off the bat with flirting like we've never done before. It's much more intense than last year, and that's the really confusing part.
With any other girl, I would've isolated her in living room and done what must be done. However, I value my dancing a lot and this girl makes a great dancing partner. She's driven, fun to dance with, has an ideal height and we're both well adapted to each other.
But the sheer amount of IOIs are confusing the hell out of me. My parents met her during the dancing examination last year and my mom actually commented on how she thought it would be amazing to have her as daughter-in-law. Yea, I know what my mother is telling me. I found that amusing, and told her that in a very teasing way, and her response? "That's still possible". She was over for a training session last friday and when looking up some music on my laptop I stood behind her and massaged her shoulders and neck. And I'll be damned if her breathing didn't indicate she was getting horny. However, she does throw in IODs scarcely, but not enough to tell me if she's just flirting or wants more. Some of my friends told me she wants more just by observing her behaviour.
What does SoSuave make of this? I think I'm just going to play this like I did last year: Ignore it and date other girls. I haven't had much time in the past 2 months, so I'm out of plates(I know, bad, my first dry spell in 1.5 years). I've got a few potentials and have 2 dates set up in the coming 1 week, so I'm not desperate. Just want to hear some opinions on this...
