When talking with a buddy of mine, K, I recalled how over the years, the women who retained my number recircled around for a second or third go at me.
Why?
I remarked how many people are like beaten-down dogs, wearing a badge of scars, almost proudly. They get to a certain point based on their dating career and they internalize ALOT of what's happened that they're so timid to make a step, it's like they're afraid to enter for fear they're tits will beam hard.
When you can separate yourself from the 'game' so to speak, you realize it's just a matter of mating habits, and that the more you search, the more luck you will have. YES. The MORE you SEARCH the more LUCK YOU WILL HAVE.
Further more, the more dating you do, the more you will realize people aren't totally nuts (though close), but they are EXTREMELY IDEALIST, to the point where their ideals and beliefs MAKE them who they are to their dying day. Anybody who challenges them, challenges their ideals.
I dated a girl from TX a year ago who calls and leaves msgs about how she misses me. This girl next had it so good, and will never have it that good again. Since we split, I've seen her tumble down hill smoking 3x/day, living with drug dealers and druggies, losing her bestfriend, getting in a near fatal accident with her friend, and a host of other oddities. She was a suite, extremely hot girl, yet she was troubled by the fact her father left her mother at the age of 2 and constantly dwelled on such a fact. When we got close, after about 1 year, she felt that it was time to split, b/c in her mind the warning lights went off that such a thing happened to her mother, IT MUST HAPPEN to her. She couldn't see the programs running her life, and now, since we've been through over a year, it's evident to me she didn't want to go through with it.
Many guys that opine over 'wanting of a woman' don't realize how seriously messed some women can be. It isn't meant to be negative. In fact, this is a positive. Some girls who reject you are stuck on X's who are off screwing other girls with diseases. Some girls who you're trying to pick-up are destined to get pregnant soon out of shear stupidity by the wrong guy.
Having a HIGHER goal than just women gives you stability to stay the course when a woman bucks you around like a wild horse would.
Don't give into the fake mental images you're concocting. I have friends purporting they're great at understanding humans, but in reality they're just 'assuming' what they would do. And since they're highly aggressive, self-centered, and pushy, they very often gloss right over the persons true intentions and force them into something they don't want.
David D said it on his Advanced Dating Program that when you begin adding more dates to your plate, you realize that having so many, and all the upset you had over a lack was for naught, because a good many of them are a waste of your time. It's good fun to relax and enjoy it for what it is, but don't become so disheartened over the journey because you've been met with failure. The biggest thing you've done was...
Take responsibility for your life and the women you allow into it. With your eyes wide open, you're able to manage yourself and your time better. You can be more successful with the ladies. Maybe it doesn't happen today, in January, or even 2005, but does that mean you should stop working at it to sacrifice future progress in 2006, 2007 and beyond? NO!
So many people will dismiss the power of just 'knowing' this. Yet, that's the biggest step to take. It's the largest chasm to cross. And by doing so you're open to a whole world of new delights.
As in fight club when Tyler Durden (the real one) says...
"My eyes are open, Tyler."
A-Unit
Why?
I remarked how many people are like beaten-down dogs, wearing a badge of scars, almost proudly. They get to a certain point based on their dating career and they internalize ALOT of what's happened that they're so timid to make a step, it's like they're afraid to enter for fear they're tits will beam hard.
When you can separate yourself from the 'game' so to speak, you realize it's just a matter of mating habits, and that the more you search, the more luck you will have. YES. The MORE you SEARCH the more LUCK YOU WILL HAVE.
Further more, the more dating you do, the more you will realize people aren't totally nuts (though close), but they are EXTREMELY IDEALIST, to the point where their ideals and beliefs MAKE them who they are to their dying day. Anybody who challenges them, challenges their ideals.
I dated a girl from TX a year ago who calls and leaves msgs about how she misses me. This girl next had it so good, and will never have it that good again. Since we split, I've seen her tumble down hill smoking 3x/day, living with drug dealers and druggies, losing her bestfriend, getting in a near fatal accident with her friend, and a host of other oddities. She was a suite, extremely hot girl, yet she was troubled by the fact her father left her mother at the age of 2 and constantly dwelled on such a fact. When we got close, after about 1 year, she felt that it was time to split, b/c in her mind the warning lights went off that such a thing happened to her mother, IT MUST HAPPEN to her. She couldn't see the programs running her life, and now, since we've been through over a year, it's evident to me she didn't want to go through with it.
Many guys that opine over 'wanting of a woman' don't realize how seriously messed some women can be. It isn't meant to be negative. In fact, this is a positive. Some girls who reject you are stuck on X's who are off screwing other girls with diseases. Some girls who you're trying to pick-up are destined to get pregnant soon out of shear stupidity by the wrong guy.
Having a HIGHER goal than just women gives you stability to stay the course when a woman bucks you around like a wild horse would.
Don't give into the fake mental images you're concocting. I have friends purporting they're great at understanding humans, but in reality they're just 'assuming' what they would do. And since they're highly aggressive, self-centered, and pushy, they very often gloss right over the persons true intentions and force them into something they don't want.
David D said it on his Advanced Dating Program that when you begin adding more dates to your plate, you realize that having so many, and all the upset you had over a lack was for naught, because a good many of them are a waste of your time. It's good fun to relax and enjoy it for what it is, but don't become so disheartened over the journey because you've been met with failure. The biggest thing you've done was...
Take responsibility for your life and the women you allow into it. With your eyes wide open, you're able to manage yourself and your time better. You can be more successful with the ladies. Maybe it doesn't happen today, in January, or even 2005, but does that mean you should stop working at it to sacrifice future progress in 2006, 2007 and beyond? NO!
So many people will dismiss the power of just 'knowing' this. Yet, that's the biggest step to take. It's the largest chasm to cross. And by doing so you're open to a whole world of new delights.
As in fight club when Tyler Durden (the real one) says...
"My eyes are open, Tyler."
A-Unit