OddTech
Senior Don Juan
Hi Guys, I hope some of you can shed some light on my situation.
Here is the low-down. I have been dating this girl twice. She's is very funny and isn't afraid to throw some sarcastic remarks at me. We have lots of laugh together and have no problems making fun of each other. In appearance, she is a little "wide." So I give her a 5; a 6 when I'm in a good mood. Some of you are asking why I'm dating a 5, but honestly, I don't care too much about appearance.
What I don't really get is that her confidence. She walks with a sense of pride that I don't see very often. This is good. But some of our conversations made me think that her confidence is a little too much. Here are some examples.
1) In regards to her appearance, she gives herself an 8. Now I just saw this tread and I'm thinking that those girls that stormwriter shows are getting 7 to 9. Then this girl I'm dating is obviously over-rating herself.
2) Again in regard to appearance, she says that in a couple, the girl is always better looking than the guy. And she reinforced it by saying that we (me and this girl) are no different. Again, I'm thinking that I do everything to make myself look better, such as working out, buying nice clothes, fixing my hair, and etc. I thought I should be at least equal to her. H*ll, I have a trimmer midsection than hers.
3) Lastly, we had a talk about relationship, and she says that no guys really turn her on. My impression from this conversation is that she apparently is looking for a perfect man because she is so d*mn great herself.
In the end, I feel sorta awkard about this girl. I expect humility in someone who isn't that great or who doesn't apply the "high standards to herself" as Pook said. I don't know if I wanted to go out with her again. Sorry for the rants guys, but god I don't know anymore.
Here is the low-down. I have been dating this girl twice. She's is very funny and isn't afraid to throw some sarcastic remarks at me. We have lots of laugh together and have no problems making fun of each other. In appearance, she is a little "wide." So I give her a 5; a 6 when I'm in a good mood. Some of you are asking why I'm dating a 5, but honestly, I don't care too much about appearance.
What I don't really get is that her confidence. She walks with a sense of pride that I don't see very often. This is good. But some of our conversations made me think that her confidence is a little too much. Here are some examples.
1) In regards to her appearance, she gives herself an 8. Now I just saw this tread and I'm thinking that those girls that stormwriter shows are getting 7 to 9. Then this girl I'm dating is obviously over-rating herself.
2) Again in regard to appearance, she says that in a couple, the girl is always better looking than the guy. And she reinforced it by saying that we (me and this girl) are no different. Again, I'm thinking that I do everything to make myself look better, such as working out, buying nice clothes, fixing my hair, and etc. I thought I should be at least equal to her. H*ll, I have a trimmer midsection than hers.
3) Lastly, we had a talk about relationship, and she says that no guys really turn her on. My impression from this conversation is that she apparently is looking for a perfect man because she is so d*mn great herself.
In the end, I feel sorta awkard about this girl. I expect humility in someone who isn't that great or who doesn't apply the "high standards to herself" as Pook said. I don't know if I wanted to go out with her again. Sorry for the rants guys, but god I don't know anymore.