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Ahh my venomous E-stalker owns me again. I just cant compete.
Its a bit hard not to, half the board is filled with your bitterness. I'm actually thinking you're secretly a nutcase feminist trying to give men a bad rep.
 

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how do you delete posts?! Ack! I changed my mind, I don't want to be involved with this thread... lol (seriously, will a mod delete this post? :p)
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
Its a bit hard not to, half the board is filled with your bitterness. I'm actually thinking you're secretly a nutcase feminist trying to give men a bad rep.
Woah easy there tiger, no need to get all personal over......err whatever you got all sand in your vagina over.

Which part of my post pissed you off this time mate? want a hug, a tissue?
 

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This thread delivers.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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titdude, why u gotta hate? were not soft cus we dont think of every girls as our *****es
 

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Now that weve put the myth of chicks wanting an "equal" to bed lets look at the rest of this crap.
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2. The other thing that I was curious about...I know there are a lot of 'don juans' here, but don't most of you want to settle down in a long term relationship and stop playing games?
No LTR's are not the be all and end all of what a man of worth looks for, thats a chicks reality. And what do you mean by "playing games" ?
 

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The simple answer to your questions: Most guys here don't know how to deal with women.

They know they are f*ck ups but they don't know why, so they keep experimenting with different personalities, attitudes, tricks, mind games and so on, hoping that one day they will chance upon the key to success. But most of them get stuck in the loop and fall deeper into their trap.

Don't let the arrogance fool you. A lot of the posts here make out that this is an expert seduction forum, when the truth is, we only have a handful of experts here and a sh*tload of delusional geeks seeking approval from fellow internet nerds.

As for relationships, despite what they say about monogamy being bullsh*t and not wanting to settle down, some guys don't have the choice because they are not capable of keeping a woman. Even many of the "top" pick up artists can't keep a woman. They know how to fool women into sleeping with them with lies and games, but as soon as they reveal how pathetic they really are, those women run for the hills.

Other guys know how to keep women but they genuinely don't want the hassle, committment and responsibility of a relationship. Or they're just not into the emotional thing. Some women are the same and it's a lifestyle that's more acceptable these days.

I agree 100% that confidence has nothing to do with placing people above or below you. It's about being happy with yourself and the way you live with nothing to prove.
 

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I just realised, t!tboy is one of our fine examples of bitter men who hate women. Seriously dude, is there something you're not telling us? Ex-girlfriend ripped out your heart?


Mystic, my advice is to judge people individually. Don't think a person is bad just because he's a man, or a woman, or black. Each person is different from each other (its quite obvious, yet people still don't get it). One person's views doesn't reflect on his entire gender/race/religion.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
I'm actually thinking you're secretly a nutcase feminist trying to give men a bad rep.
diplomatic_lies said:
t!tboy is one of our fine examples of bitter men who hate women.
:crazy:

lol shiver me timbers dont hold back mate ,tell me how you really feel :eek:

But seriously , I'm happy to roll with either one of those labels when you decide which one it is I am, dont think you can have both?

Sound fair?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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