An observation on attractive and higher status women in their early 20s.

[BadBoy89]

Older men are only creepy to women if they aren't good looking and/or wealthy.

How would a woman know If he’s wealthy?

 

[CornbreadFed]

You are a sugar daddy no matter what

Most women are terrible at finances no matter how much money they make, so you either stay single and look for the unicorn or you accept things for what they are

I have never ever been in that situation ever in my life. I am sorry you and @Chowda cannot relate

And now you gonna come up with some bullsh1t about your gf, but I am gonna ask you one thing: why would a guy with a perfect relationship and with a hottie would spend so much time in a place like this mainly arguing non sense subjects?

This forum literally consumes like 10 minutes max of my day. In addition, I can post while working, at the gym, or walking in public. I don't have to waste my free time on going on stupid dates to potentially get my rocks off anymore too.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I keep hearing back and forth versions of this. However, I often hear that the best looking women in their early 20s go for guys in their early 20s. I am not saying that is true or false. I am saying that it seems like despite all that, they are proactively going to places where there are likely to be older men. I just never got it.

Why not just stay at the college bars?

Why not just stay at college oriented venues?

Why go to places where the older men are?

They don’t necessarily go there to meet rich geezers. The ones who do tend to be escorts. Women go to high-end nightclubs for the same reason they buy designer handbags, shoes and other “luxury” items. It’s a status symbol. How many likes on Instagram do you think she’s going to get posting a selfie taken at some lame college pub with a dart board and a beer keg in the background? And how would that compare to a selfie taken at some fancy downtown lounge with a rooftop bar and an infinity pool? It really is that simple (and stupid).

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Where I disagree is this notion that young women are dreaming about late 30s and older

Nothing new with that.....

14 y.o. girls dream about boys with their own car
18 y.o. girls dream about boys with their own place
25 y.o. girls dream about boys that can improve their lifestyle and show them the world

women had older men since the beginning of time and thats how people roll in most parts of the world.

In a time of financial crisis, war etc., this is going to be more pronounced.

 

[I_have_BDE]

I keep hearing back and forth versions of this. However, I often hear that the best looking women in their early 20s go for guys in their early 20s. I am not saying that is true or false. I am saying that it seems like despite all that, they are proactively going to places where there are likely to be older men. I just never got it.

Why not just stay at the college bars?

Why not just stay at college oriented venues?

Why go to places where the older men are?

I don't see many women in their 20s going for guys way older than them. Usually closer to their ages. In their mid 30s and later I see it a lot more women going for a lot older because of the $$$$$

 

[SW15]

How would a woman know If he’s wealthy?

Based on clothes, the place of the approach, and other accessories (shoes, Rolex, etc).

In their mid 30s and later I see it a lot more women going for a lot older because of the $$$$$

I see more of this.

 

[SW15]

these women want a "Tupac with a degree" or an anomaly male and think they are too cool to hangout/bougie to hang out in the spots with the commoners. They hangout at these places hoping Mr. Anomaly shows up and sweeps them off their feet or something close enough does.

Seen this happen. It's not good to chase anomalies.

They don't want an older guy, they want a guy their age with the money & wisdom of an older guy, energy and suave of a high school drug dealer or younger 20s hipster, and beta submissiveness of a middle-aged husband.

That's not realistic. I think most 20 somethings end up choosing someone close to their own age. As a result, many move on with the dating phase of their lives, at least until the 1st divorce.

Spoiler alert, they aren't going to find him and end up 40 years old with a bunch of dogs in a crappy 2–3-bedroom 1 bathroom house.

The women who chase that anomaly for too long end up as you describe. I know a woman like the one you described but her house that she bought as a single woman does have 2 bathrooms. I am impressed at how accurate your description was. There are many 1980s born Millennial White women who are doing exactly what you describe.

They are going to butt their heads with every close enough hybrid until they give up and settle for some Rich Blue-Collar Bubba named Rudy in their 40s.

Some will settle, but some won't because feminism told Millennial women to "Never Settle!". Also remember that Millennial White women were given a lot of self-esteem boosting by the Boomer parents and sometimes even participation trophies. Settling isn't something that Millennials like.

 

[kavi]

Im not Rambo so dont associate me with this King of Beta Males. He is living a delusion, whereas im living in the reallity. Im merely speaking the truth.

I make 300k the a year, have my own company, higher iq then than probably most of you guys here and even proofed (lols) proved it, I have a girl who worships me and we have a great healthy relationship together you guys ever wish (lol wat) to have but cant. Im educated in various topics, you guys wont ever have the chance to understand or learn (why not??), Im a role model for many employees in my company (wow). Im working with many great Leaders leaders, Im not a social dud like most of you guys. I have good looks, I also have a top physique. When in fact Rambo was at least right with all the guys here, even if I cant stand this that guy, he has chosen to speak facts about most of the guys here

So you guys don’t have to waste your time and reply to my posts. Im fully confident in whatever I say, so whatever you say goes to deaf ears.

"The end times will be near when even the lowly will rise to high positions...."

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why would this be surprising? Most young guys want to be like college frat boys and have little going for them.

 

[CornbreadFed]

@Cornbread May I suggest abstaining from giving advice regarding younger women being attracted to older men until you have experienced it first hand?

Just because you were a fvcking loser with women until past 35 before you finally tasted some pvssy does not mean younger women are attracted to older men. Unlike you, I have been getting laid since college, so I am aware of the opportunities and encounters a young man has. For example, I will more than likely never be able to fvck different 5 girls in one night like I did in college. I am aware of the MAA pool party opportunities in your mid-twenties. Guess what, I knew and interacted with twenty-year-old women that did date older guys beyond the age of 35. I hate to bust your bubble, but they were all complete gold diggers using them for material game. In conclusion, your snake oil is never going to convince me otherwise because I live in reality. If you agree that younger women go for older guys for resources and personal gain, we can come to a complete agreement. However, if you think these relationships are purely genuine and non-transactional then you need to start selling the stash you are smoking.

 

[CornbreadFed]

think you should delete that post, man.

Keep coping and carry on