Ok I know POF has a love/hate reputation on here so isnt everyones cup of tea, however I changed tac recently and simply started to be more direct and up front.
the basis for the new message was that I am a busy guy, I dont have a lot of free time due to my work and unusual shift patterns and therefore cannot commit to a full on relationship. I make it clear I am attracted to the women, I want a sexual relationship but Im also interested in developing things but that I also value my free time.
like a lot of guys I didnt get that good a response previously but now, ive got numbers, met two women (in real life not for me) but the overall level of response has been good, women actually reply to this and appear to respect its honesty.
one thing I will give women credit for is sifting through Guys sh1t, they seem to appreciate the honest, up front aproach, maybe I shouldnt be surprsed.
oh and its not a fail safe, get laid 100% of the time routine, it just gives me a bit more of an edge it would seem.
anyone else adopt this line of approach on POF?
the basis for the new message was that I am a busy guy, I dont have a lot of free time due to my work and unusual shift patterns and therefore cannot commit to a full on relationship. I make it clear I am attracted to the women, I want a sexual relationship but Im also interested in developing things but that I also value my free time.
like a lot of guys I didnt get that good a response previously but now, ive got numbers, met two women (in real life not for me) but the overall level of response has been good, women actually reply to this and appear to respect its honesty.
one thing I will give women credit for is sifting through Guys sh1t, they seem to appreciate the honest, up front aproach, maybe I shouldnt be surprsed.
oh and its not a fail safe, get laid 100% of the time routine, it just gives me a bit more of an edge it would seem.
anyone else adopt this line of approach on POF?