an interesting afternoon with a friend of mine..

[organizedconfusion]

you took them out of context and those phrases are meant with a bit of sarcasm and in a complacent tone...and your point is?

if you haven't noticed, i type exactly how i think or talk..with a bit of ..well, in a sarcastic and complacent tone.

In contrast to what i stated prior to when i said those statements you pasted,it's obvious that they weren't meant soo literly and said out of either a tone of 'you know what? fine, have it your way..who cares' attitude..kinda like flopping my hands in the air like 'wow, you know what? good for you- you know how to copy and paste- i wish i know was as clever and slick as you are!' now does that literly mean i wish i was as clever and slick as you were? no, as a matter of fact..theres nothing clever nor slick about it..dosen't make any sense does it? NOW 'grasshopper', do you understand what it means? it's said in a frustrating and complacent tone..you should't take things SOOOO LITERAL. The overall message of the post is the frustrations that he won't get off his azz and do something with his life,yes-there are things (the POSITIVE)aspects of him that i respect about him..NOT the NEGATIVE ones,did nobody read the shyte that he does? bumming off money,food and god knows what else from these girls,essentially using them for everything that got? and yes, i do find it interesting that he does all the WRONG things AND and the right things at the same time (concerning woman).But what about banging his manager for food,stealing,being low level criminal,and engaging shady activity...NOW, do you think i am ENVIOUS of this type of behaviors? come on slick! buy some fvcking glasses or learn how to read with a lazy eye one of the two..okay, now does that mean you REALLY..never mind, i think you got it- i wasn't being literal..and yes, i am a smart azz.

you're a few watts short of being bright...anyone can take something out of context and have it mean anything they want it to mean, journelist and reporters do it all the time in the media , so what?

don't mean to sound harsh but from the last reply it looked like you needed to get a reality check of what's really going on in the post.And that IS meant to be taken literal and it NOT said in a sarcastic and complacent tone.

 

[MacAvoy]

Out of curiousity how old are you organizedconfusion? What have you done since you left high school? From some of the previous posts you've started, your priorities and outlook on life are that of someone in their early 20's.

 

[organizedconfusion]

now, from reading the posts- can i have some view points of how he could be able to do what he does?

Positive traits-
fit
charismatic
charming
individualist
idealist

Negative traits-
he just does all the wrong things..nuff said!!

also keep in mind that he has nothing,literly nothing...yet he still gets really hot girls,now don't you think that's kind of odd? he can do alot of the right things and yet do all of the wrong ones? kind of a paradox isn't it? he can and does all the wrong things,shyte that we are told NOT to do...and enough with the zen stuff or bad boy/jerk thing..he's none of that. i know this may sound mean but he's nothing more then a charming smooth talking..'used car salesman' , you know the type- could sell an eskimo a bathing suit and slippers.Imagine the personality Alfie has ,but he was from the south,has a mullet ,a mean six o'clock shadow,looked as if he hasn't bathd in a week and wears the same staind wife beater day in and day out..is everyone starting to wonder what the heck is going on? how could he still be such a bum and still be getting chicks? theres being yourself and then theres just completly letting yourself go..big difference. with all the preaching about positivity and getting in control of your path or whatever self help mumbo jumbo is going on in sosuave about having a life ..a good life and then having woman as a side dish- it's like he's living in the grey area and mastered how to seduce girls, without all the other aspects that we are preached that we should have taken cared of and handled first-job,career,education etc.

 

[organizedconfusion]

Out of curiousity how old are you organizedconfusion? What have you done since you left high school? From some of the previous posts you've started, your priorities and outlook on life are that of someone in their early 20's.

i am in my mid 20's, you know- those years where you try to find yourself,filled with the most passion and still has a positive outlook! i never even went to highschool, i spend my childhood in and out of detention centers and youth centers up from about 13-16 going on 17.Got into some trouble from there til i was about..20,after (what i believe) overdosing on cocaine and then coming off it really hard, i prayed to god (i don't even believe in god) that if i was to live, i would change my life and never tough the stuff or any drug again..well,i manage the drug part.still got into alot of trouble and then found my way after that.Had alot of friends either died,hooked on drugs or just plain left.Worked a ton of odd jobs ,worked on an Alaskan island for a few months doing cheap labor and carpentry for a village,traveled the upper pacific northwest,hung out in Seatle for a bit,portland,made my way up north and then back down south.NOw i am a book keeper and keep to myself and do what i need to do.plain and simple,but i still have a alot of the mischievious streak inside of me :rockon:Not perfect by any means

i don't know why i am giving my friend such a hassle- i also have had to learn how to seduce more out of nessessity then anything else...

 

[Maverick001]

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okay, honestly it is kind of annoying when i am out sarging or reading endless pages of a seduction site- not to mention working on my life as a whole and trying to better myself..to become a better person and to become attractive to the opposite sex, and i am doing all that i possibly could and putting alot of concious effort into this area of my life..but then we got my buddy, mr.16 year old 'man/boy' and he's getting laid like a rockstar and is ..well..basicly a bum..am i missing something here? i know about attraction and yadda yadda yadda, i read it all already...but this just defies the laws of alot of the shyte that i have read..sure he does alot of things right naturally and avoids the wrong things..but c'mon..the guy is BUM !!!:crackup:
he reminds me of this guy,looks exactly like him! :rockon:

http://img53.echo.cx/img53/7469/ghostworld6ho.jpg

Ok, the above snipped quote is what piqued my interest in this thread. The harshest critic is always one's own self. That being said, the greatest rival that you'll ever have is yourself and so there is no point in comparing yourself to anyone else.

The game is to improve yourself and reap the rewards - personally, professionally, financially, socially, etc. It all begins and ends with you.

Don't concern yourself with what works for your friend and why. Keep honing your own skills to get the results you want and enjoy your friend's company because it sounds like he's a fun guy to have around.

As for all the wrong things he's doing in his own life, well that's his life and your concern is to be lauded but in the end it's his choice and telling him to get his sh!t together isn't going to do anything until he's ready to make changes on his own.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[organizedconfusion]

concerned about his well being- interested in his insights :woo:

 

[Slickster]

Okay dude

come on slick! buy some fvcking glasses or learn how to read

Okay maybe when you learn how to write. :crackup:

Seriously dude.

Do you really expect us to believe that you've written all this BS about your buddy on a seduction forum because you are worried about his well being? If you are SO worried about all his shady behaviour then why do continually bring up the fact that he is successful with the ladies. What does that have anything to do with you being worried about him?

You've written pages and pages about this dude because you are jealous that he gets girls and you don't. If you did get girls, you wouldn't even bring it up. If you did, and ALL you REALLY cared about was his well being then you'd be posting all this crap in the ANYTHING ELSE forum.

Anyway you're trying to figure out how your buddy does it and you're disguising it as a post about you being worried about him. No worries, happens everyday around here. No shame in that.

You want us to explain to you why your buddy gets the girls?

Okay. Its because he doesn't give a fawk whether they're coming or going. Pretty simple huh? You've read it a million times on this forum I'm sure. Well here's your proof. You can look, act, and live like a bum and still get hot chicks if you just don't give a shyt!!!

Does your universe finally make sense?

Speaking of taking things out of context....

I'm not attacking you. I'm trying to help you here OC. You're brainwashed by all this seduction bs you've been reading and buying. You're banging your head against the wall trying to figure your buddy out when its as plain as day. I'm only trying to snap you out of it. Sure I may have been harsh but it got your attention didn't it?

From the things you've written it sounds like you've been studying seduction theory like a madman. If all that BS works then why are you here? Now I'm not saying it doesn't work. I'm only saying you don't need any of that shyt.

Your buddy is living proof.

Truth is though most of these chicks your buddy is banging are losers just like him. They might be hot but they're not too bright. Now imagine the quality chicks he'd be screwing if he actually had a life.

Anyway OC I don't think I'm going to get through to you at this point so I give. You win. Your buddy is practicing some sort of black magic, cult-like, mumbo jumbo and that is how he is getting all these hotties. There's really no other explanation. How could he be such a loser and still succeed?

Please let us know if you ever get to the bottom of it.

 

[organizedconfusion]

oh my god, it's like you really know me- it's like where soul mates or something

i appretiate your insights, i really do..but i have 100,000,001 posts of how to seduce a girl with my eye..my left eye to read so i better jump to it


as far as my buddy goes...who knows what he is doing right with the ladies(other then the painly obvious reasons that people keep pointing out ; bad boy persona,not giving a fvck etc.) whatever he's doing, it works and that's all that matters.As far as his bad habits go..what can i say? he is who he is and i got his back if trouble comes along :trouble: we were never the ideal citizens anyways, and i'd be a total hypocrite if i said that i never did anything unethical or illegal...


as far as the seduction materials? Meh, just more recylced and regergated shyte...nothing new in years. i have always had success without it, but they always serve as a brisk reminder and keep me on base when i loose sight on things...

cheers