The way I see it, if you are not man enough to take on the responsibility of children then you shouldn’t be having sex. The choice to have children is made the moment you chose to have sex. Even if you use a condom you should be man enough to take responsibility in the event that life comes into existence.
I can tell you that I would never have sex with a woman if I weren’t man enough to take full responsibility for my actions. I am not a coward that is afraid of children. I do not subscribe the to culture of lust that most people have been suckered into.
If you end up getting a girl pregnant you had best be ready to do the following!
1. If they would end up being a single mother who doesn't want to raise the child (for whatever reason), we need to show to them that there are realistic adoption alternatives or take that responsibly on.
2. If the issue is financial, we need to be ready to show them that there is resources that will help them afford the child. This might include income support.
3. If the issue is reputation, we need to show them love and respect at a level they have never rec'd before
If you are only thinking about your **** every time you f-ck a girl then you have no respect for humanity, your own existence, and your legacy.
In other words a real man is not afraid of commitment. He works hard for his family and all his offspring. He is the natural provider and a protector of both. There is nothing that will make a man out of your more then to provide for your children. It is a life lesson that seems to be lost in our modern f-ucked up culture.
The most powerful men in history were NOT afraid of proliferating their seed.
Every man should work toward his legacy and ensuring that his gene pool continues.
I refuse be a weak loathing coward that is only focused on selfish desire and pleasure.
For this very reason I would never cut my ball off. I have the power and the will to take repsonsibilty for my actions.