El Campeon 56
Don Juan
Ok guys well I have been a member of this forum for well over a year now but i never signed on and posted a thread until now due to computer problems logging on. I am pretty adept at Don Juan skills and have used them in both STR's and now currently to get girls for LTR's. But something has happened that is a huge problem right now in my life and i desperately need the advice of those who know best, being you fellow Don Juans.
Right now I am with a girl named Laura who after using C/F skills and being unpredictable and confident has made her fall hard for me. Up until this point we have been together for 2 and half months, and she does at least 90 percent of the calls when we talk and frequently pays for things when we go out. She was also the one who asked to become exclusive, and had to literally steal me away from the girl i was with previously. Basically, she is way more involved with me emotionally than I am her, and is constantly telling me how she wants to see me and talk to me to just hear my voice. Very high interest level. So here is where the problem has arisen. This last Saturday she was at a party with a bunch of friends and many people were drinking alcohol. She is a firm believer against it and never has had a drop. I wasn't at the party, but from what I have been told here's what happened. Most of Lauras friends do not like me simply because they feel i am not "sweet" and "kind" enough to her all the time. They basically have no clue as to what elicits attraction.
So at the party all the guys were telling her how she deserves better than me and she was unfortunately digging all the attention and didn't do more than just say that she liked me a ton. One guy who was totally drunk was flirting with her, but since he was a friend of Lauras and is that type of flirtatious guy she thought nothing of it or so she says. He later approached her and told her that he thought that if she needed someone to take her away from me he would be that guy, but of course she said no. Yet they were on the couch later that night, and he leaned over and kissed her on the forehead and then the nose. The rest of the group were happy about it all, and prompted him to do it again. The problem is that Laura did not stand up and tell him to get the hell off her or that she had a boyfriend, she just stood there doing nothing. She said she was just so shocked. So she got up to leave about a minute later because it was getting late, but this guy stood up and kissed her on the lips, but she did not kiss back and everyone at the party claims it lasted for only a second. She is not one to lie, and my own friend who was there vouches that is the way it went down.
Now i would be ok if he had tried to kiss her and she had resisted and then certainly made sure the next kiss did not take place. But she didn't do that. Not only that, but she told me what happened the night it occured but left out the second kiss on the lips until i found out from my friend who was there. All of this is unbeleivable and i got angry with her and called her on her lies and all this behavior and told her we were through. But she broke down and sobbed and came over and cried and tried to explain herself for over an hr, and eventually after talking to all her friends and listening to what she has to say, i decided to give her one more chance on the grounds that she does not betray my trust whatsoever or we shall never speak again. She was crying throughout the whole conversation so i believe she has it n her, but if not im gone. I honestly would not have done this at all if she wasn't so adamant about still being together.
Yet i would like to get feedback from you all, i know this is anti challenge but the thing is she has been so much more extremely into me and is religous and have strong values so this came as a shock. She also tried so fervently to get me back, and i actually do care for her that i want to be with her. I'd appreciate any help or advice you guys could give me, as this is one of the most difficult situatiuons of my life. I just don't know what i should really do to take care of her and her friends and etc. in the best way possible. Sorry for making the post so long, but the details to all this situation are very neccesary.
El Campeon
Right now I am with a girl named Laura who after using C/F skills and being unpredictable and confident has made her fall hard for me. Up until this point we have been together for 2 and half months, and she does at least 90 percent of the calls when we talk and frequently pays for things when we go out. She was also the one who asked to become exclusive, and had to literally steal me away from the girl i was with previously. Basically, she is way more involved with me emotionally than I am her, and is constantly telling me how she wants to see me and talk to me to just hear my voice. Very high interest level. So here is where the problem has arisen. This last Saturday she was at a party with a bunch of friends and many people were drinking alcohol. She is a firm believer against it and never has had a drop. I wasn't at the party, but from what I have been told here's what happened. Most of Lauras friends do not like me simply because they feel i am not "sweet" and "kind" enough to her all the time. They basically have no clue as to what elicits attraction.
So at the party all the guys were telling her how she deserves better than me and she was unfortunately digging all the attention and didn't do more than just say that she liked me a ton. One guy who was totally drunk was flirting with her, but since he was a friend of Lauras and is that type of flirtatious guy she thought nothing of it or so she says. He later approached her and told her that he thought that if she needed someone to take her away from me he would be that guy, but of course she said no. Yet they were on the couch later that night, and he leaned over and kissed her on the forehead and then the nose. The rest of the group were happy about it all, and prompted him to do it again. The problem is that Laura did not stand up and tell him to get the hell off her or that she had a boyfriend, she just stood there doing nothing. She said she was just so shocked. So she got up to leave about a minute later because it was getting late, but this guy stood up and kissed her on the lips, but she did not kiss back and everyone at the party claims it lasted for only a second. She is not one to lie, and my own friend who was there vouches that is the way it went down.
Now i would be ok if he had tried to kiss her and she had resisted and then certainly made sure the next kiss did not take place. But she didn't do that. Not only that, but she told me what happened the night it occured but left out the second kiss on the lips until i found out from my friend who was there. All of this is unbeleivable and i got angry with her and called her on her lies and all this behavior and told her we were through. But she broke down and sobbed and came over and cried and tried to explain herself for over an hr, and eventually after talking to all her friends and listening to what she has to say, i decided to give her one more chance on the grounds that she does not betray my trust whatsoever or we shall never speak again. She was crying throughout the whole conversation so i believe she has it n her, but if not im gone. I honestly would not have done this at all if she wasn't so adamant about still being together.
Yet i would like to get feedback from you all, i know this is anti challenge but the thing is she has been so much more extremely into me and is religous and have strong values so this came as a shock. She also tried so fervently to get me back, and i actually do care for her that i want to be with her. I'd appreciate any help or advice you guys could give me, as this is one of the most difficult situatiuons of my life. I just don't know what i should really do to take care of her and her friends and etc. in the best way possible. Sorry for making the post so long, but the details to all this situation are very neccesary.
El Campeon
