An expensive dating site asked if i want to join them for free... would you do that?

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wow guys, I'm new to this online dating thing (it's really far away from my mindset, I think that it's for losers) and reading your adventures in POF am really scared of the psychopaths I might find there. I should say that it's not really POF-style as the members should pay more than 3,000 dollars to use just the services. It's like when club PRs invite gorgeous chicks for free, I'm good looking, fit and reasonably wealthy so they're want me to be in their database for free as i'll be a really good "object of desire"; they told me that their clients are " very attractive, fun, slim, professional, successful and very busy". ahah. I'm wondering if I said "yeah ok, but my requirements on age are not above 26 (i'm 35)". I think 95% of women there are above that age, but it's just my guess. Any experience with this kind of things?
 

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joker79 said:
I should say that it's not really POF-style as the members should pay more than 3,000 dollars to use just the services.
3 RACKS!!!!! My dude, you spent $3,000 TO JOIN A F*CKING WEBSITE WITH NO GUARANTEE THAT CHICKS ARE GOING TO F*CK YOU!!! Dude, you need to kill yourself like four or five times for that dumb a$$ sh*t.

If you have 3 racks to f*ck off on a "dating site," with "access," to hot chicks, then you have the disposable income to either

1) Travel to your nearest metro on a regular basis

2) Move to your nearest metro area so you can have access to these women for free.

My dude, what you joined was one of those "I'm-a-gold-digger-looking-for-a-simp," websites. These b*thces are the worst because they're pseudo wh*res. They're all about the money, but don't want to admit that they're out here hoin'.

Not for nothing dude, you could have taken that same $3,000 and went on a Mystery or RSD boot camp. At least with these dudes they would give the skills needed to holler at hot chicks. You f*cked up my dude. Rex STRONGLY SUGGESTS that you cancel your membership to this "dating site," and meet women the old fashioned way.

I'm trippin' off of the fact dude actually admitted to 3 racks to join a "dating site," you need to be shamed of yourself.
 

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Rex, think you misunderstood, I'd never ever ever pay a dollar for that kind of stuff: the dating site is offering me FREE membership (zero cost to me), chicks are paying. My question is, what kind of chicks can I find there?
 

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Lol..I'm trippin off the fact that you missed the part where he said free
 

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JoeMarron said:
Lol..I'm trippin off the fact that you missed the part where he said free
In case you haven't noticed, Rex tends to miss a lot of things...
 

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joker79 said:
Rex, think you misunderstood, I'd never ever ever pay a dollar for that kind of stuff: the dating site is offering me FREE membership (zero cost to me), chicks are paying. My question is, what kind of chicks can I find there?
Oh my bad.

joker79 said:
My question is, what kind of chicks can I find there?
Chicks like:

http://www.thegloss.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/ashley.jpg

Ashley Dupre

http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2006/celebdatabase/annanicolesmith/anna_nicole_smith5_180x240.jpg

The late Anna Nicole Smith and

http://cdn.cnwimg.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/courtney-stodden.jpg

Courtney Stodden. This is assuming this is a real site that isn't phishing for information.
 

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I find it hard to believe that a site would even charge that amount of money. That's just absurd. It seems like it's just a ploy to make you believe that a free membership is actually worth $3000.

Life isn't supposed to be easy man and neither is dating. You gotta work hard otherwise there will always be a catch. Like for instance, if this was real, and the girls are aware that you have to pay $3000 to join the site, then what does that say about you, a guy that's willing to pay $3000 just to **** girls. Already they have the upperhand knowing you're desperate and rich.
 

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joker79 said:
wow guys, I'm new to this online dating thing (it's really far away from my mindset, I think that it's for losers) and reading your adventures in POF am really scared of the psychopaths I might find there. I should say that it's not really POF-style as the members should pay more than 3,000 dollars to use just the services. It's like when club PRs invite gorgeous chicks for free, I'm good looking, fit and reasonably wealthy so they're want me to be in their database for free as i'll be a really good "object of desire"; they told me that their clients are " very attractive, fun, slim, professional, successful and very busy". ahah. I'm wondering if I said "yeah ok, but my requirements on age are not above 26 (i'm 35)". I think 95% of women there are above that age, but it's just my guess. Any experience with this kind of things?
If you can get in for free you should do it.
 

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You shouldn't have to PAY anything to meet women. They are all around you.
 

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The image of exclusivity, enhanced by a fat price tag with a special free deal for you?

What could go wrong?

Seriously? Where does this 'free offer' come from? Why do you think they 'picked' you?

CALL ME! I have a great deal for you on a bridge that runs between Manhattan and Brooklyn.
 

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There are a few dating sites like this that charge a few grand.

The demographic is more for the richer folk who can piss 3,000 away
without thinking twice about it.

A Wealthy guy I know did it for awhile.

It's all about match-making the upper-class. Not for the average earners.
 

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Its for matching wealthy men with hot/attractive/shallow/spoiled/high maintenance/gold digger women who want to exclusively date wealthy men.
 

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Free to join.

You gotta pay to access your messages though. yada yada yada...
 

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pdx1138 said:
There are a few dating sites like this that charge a few grand.

The demographic is more for the richer folk who can piss 3,000 away
without thinking twice about it.

A Wealthy guy I know did it for awhile.

It's all about match-making the upper-class. Not for the average earners.
This.

Pretty much the exact opposite of POF. Rich and Successful people still need to date. Considering a lot of those type are workaholics and don't get out as much as the "normal" folk, They're the ones who could probably use a dating the site the most. If I had millions of dollars, I probably wouldn't mind throwing down a couple grand for a dating site. Wouldn't have to deal with the rif raft and fake profiles like on a POF.

As far as signing up for a site like that for free?? Yeah, I'd do it. Why not?

Not sure how they found you, guessing FB, or another dating site. I'm sure this site is trying to be the "VIP" of the dating sites. Recruiting good looking, successful people.
 

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joker79 said:
wow guys, I'm new to this online dating thing (it's really far away from my mindset, I think that it's for losers) and reading your adventures in POF am really scared of the psychopaths I might find there. I should say that it's not really POF-style as the members should pay more than 3,000 dollars to use just the services. It's like when club PRs invite gorgeous chicks for free, I'm good looking, fit and reasonably wealthy so they're want me to be in their database for free as i'll be a really good "object of desire"; they told me that their clients are " very attractive, fun, slim, professional, successful and very busy". ahah. I'm wondering if I said "yeah ok, but my requirements on age are not above 26 (i'm 35)". I think 95% of women there are above that age, but it's just my guess. Any experience with this kind of things?

Don't know if your story is true. But IF it is. And even IF the website doesn't really charge members $3000 to join but says it does in advertising. Maximus Rex is partially right.

I don't know how they'd screen the women who join but if chicks are joining a site (possible free for chicks?) where it's ADVERTISED it costs $3000 for a membership...It's basically telling chicks these dudes have cha- to pay that much coin to join and the site would be loaded with gold diggers and pros. There may be a few truly rich dudes and rich chicks (who aren't fronting rich) but to really find each other and date (if the super rich don't have time) it will still be hard weeding through the rest.

They'll have to sort through the "pool boy" types who aren't really rich but looking for a bang or sugar mama. And the men would have to "pay up" to "date" hot chicks who may not be rich themselves.

If they offered you to join for free I'm sure they'll do it for hot chicks. And everyone is under the premise of looking for money, but may still be meeting the best looking to fvck in the meantime. So the hot dudes will be banging rich women on the side with little money while the rich guys unless really good looking will be shelling out for dinners etc. (chump way as let's face it you're advertising as a rich guy you paid $3000 grand for "love".) The hot women with little money looking for a sugar daddy will be doing the same thing but possibly not putting out as much stringing them along for more dinners etc.

Besides everyone online goes off of pictures for the most part. If you don't look like you have money in the type of clothes you're wearing..unless you are a super hot guy and h0rny rich chicks are looking to fvck. You can forget it. Because those same women are going to be looking at your clothes, where you took the pictures etc. Then compare them with the dudes sitting in their Aston Martins, with the rolex on, on business in Dubai etc. That's what most all of the type of chicks that join that site will be looking at.

And then the nigerian scammers will flood it with pictures of rich looking unknown model chicks looking to scam rich chumps out of money.

It's going to be for most like paying $3000 to join POF.

For you it's "free" to join but they may entitle themselves to use your pictures for their advertisements while you then would "if you're really rich" have to pay the membership fee to send or read emails or "winks" from profiles that may not even be the chick on the other end.

Sounds like one of those ads on POF where they show the hot "rich" girls looking for "average guys" using selfies in their crappy bathroom. Those pictures are most likely all stolen from chicks who signed up for "free" or are on those sites looking for a sugar daddy and aren't rich at all. You can easily tell by the photos.
 
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It really sounds to me like a (part) scam, but then, if there is no risk involved for you...

Sounds to me they're just feeding your ego.
 

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guys, it true definitely. I thought it was something like a scam or worse but definitely it's not. The offer comes from a really exclusive social circle I'm in and scam and fake stuff are not tolerated at all. I checked the site deeply and apparently is like a matchmaker site, think massively used by professionals (men and women) that spent their youth after their career. I assume it's full of post-wall career-focused chicks.
I'm at the peak of my SMV, single, fit and with a business career developing quickly, living in an exciting city.. I'm probably a good bait for this kind of women.
Ps. just checked further: there's a premium membership for ONLY 5k! :crazy:
 

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It's probably free initially. Then some fake (shill) hottie (or several) will contact you. Then you have to fork over some $$$ in order to respond to "her" emails.

If a 23 year old supermodel emails you three seconds after you post a partial profile with no pic (yet), you KNOW she's legit lol.

Maybe I'm being cynical :).
 

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You would get better value going to one of those sites for mail order brides from Ukraine or somewhere in Asia.
 
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