joker79 said:
wow guys, I'm new to this online dating thing (it's really far away from my mindset, I think that it's for losers) and reading your adventures in POF am really scared of the psychopaths I might find there. I should say that it's not really POF-style as the members should pay more than 3,000 dollars to use just the services. It's like when club PRs invite gorgeous chicks for free, I'm good looking, fit and reasonably wealthy so they're want me to be in their database for free as i'll be a really good "object of desire"; they told me that their clients are " very attractive, fun, slim, professional, successful and very busy". ahah. I'm wondering if I said "yeah ok, but my requirements on age are not above 26 (i'm 35)". I think 95% of women there are above that age, but it's just my guess. Any experience with this kind of things?
Don't know if your story is true. But IF it is. And even IF the website doesn't really charge members $3000 to join but says it does in advertising. Maximus Rex is partially right.
I don't know how they'd screen the women who join but if chicks are joining a site (possible free for chicks?) where it's ADVERTISED it costs $3000 for a membership...It's basically telling chicks these dudes have cha- to pay that much coin to join and the site would be loaded with gold diggers and pros. There may be a few truly rich dudes and rich chicks (who aren't fronting rich) but to really find each other and date (if the super rich don't have time) it will still be hard weeding through the rest.
They'll have to sort through the "pool boy" types who aren't really rich but looking for a bang or sugar mama. And the men would have to "pay up" to "date" hot chicks who may not be rich themselves.
If they offered you to join for free I'm sure they'll do it for hot chicks. And everyone is under the premise of looking for money, but may still be meeting the best looking to fvck in the meantime. So the hot dudes will be banging rich women on the side with little money while the rich guys unless really good looking will be shelling out for dinners etc. (chump way as let's face it you're advertising as a rich guy you paid $3000 grand for "love".) The hot women with little money looking for a sugar daddy will be doing the same thing but possibly not putting out as much stringing them along for more dinners etc.
Besides everyone online goes off of pictures for the most part. If you don't look like you have money in the type of clothes you're wearing..unless you are a super hot guy and h0rny rich chicks are looking to fvck. You can forget it. Because those same women are going to be looking at your clothes, where you took the pictures etc. Then compare them with the dudes sitting in their Aston Martins, with the rolex on, on business in Dubai etc. That's what most all of the type of chicks that join that site will be looking at.
And then the nigerian scammers will flood it with pictures of rich looking unknown model chicks looking to scam rich chumps out of money.
It's going to be for most like paying $3000 to join POF.
For you it's "free" to join but they may entitle themselves to use your pictures for their advertisements while you then would "if you're really rich" have to pay the membership fee to send or read emails or "winks" from profiles that may not even be the chick on the other end.
Sounds like one of those ads on POF where they show the hot "rich" girls looking for "average guys" using selfies in their crappy bathroom. Those pictures are most likely all stolen from chicks who signed up for "free" or are on those sites looking for a sugar daddy and aren't rich at all. You can easily tell by the photos.