An Epidemic of Single, Lonely Females

[BeExcellent]

So if mom and dad slept in different beds where not affectionate your probably not getting none after marriage.

The other predictor is friends groups. What are their norms?

I dunno. Maybe dad snores like a freight train and mom has to actually get some sleep. Ask me how I know, lol. Boyfriend snores like crazy...no issues with sexual desire whatsoever...but I sometimes go sleep in another room so I can actually rest. Same was true while I was married. Husband got to where he snored, I slept in a different room. Sex life not adversely affected.

Friend groups are important. Happily married friends are supportive of other marrieds as a general rule and tend to gravitate to one another socially for a number of reasons.

 

[BeExcellent]

Yes, I'm trying to get involved in that stuff. Working all the time + education is a bear, that's why I settled for LDR recently and got burned of course. Hate to say it but as the matriarchy expands there are less and less women in these churches.

That's true, and it's a bummer (about church). Funny little story. Was on a double date with my guy and one of his best buddies and the buddie's date. The buddy met his date at church, my guy met me at a restaturant/bar and then we skipped to a salsa club (nightlife). So the buddie's date goes to the bathroom. The buddy leans over to my guy and goes "BF, it's not fair. This girl is a crazy freak nut job, but I met her at church...and here you are with a nice girl you met at a nightclub. What gives?"

Good people can be anywhere, and so can bad people. Screen and show up in places that improve your odds, but keep your eyes open everywhere. God has a sense of humor.

 

[sosousage]

I posted this in the @mellow_yellow thread on misandry. There's so much bleating about how tough it is for men out there. However, I've met so many single and lonely women both in big cities and small towns it's difficult to comprehend.

True, a lot of these girls are average, or fat, or even ugly. However, many of them are cute. Some are actually hot. There are just too many ways for "relationships" to go awry these days. And women are so overworked it's often difficult for them to enter into a relationship in the first place. Men suffer more, no question, but a lot of women lose out in this musical chairs game as well. Here are just a few ways women can run into trouble with dating or not even find the opportunity to enter into a relationship:

-They find a man but he leaves after she gets pregnant and fat.

-They are divorced and one or two decades more past prime dating and marriageable age

-They completely refuse to go to clubs and bars, where they would be drooled over if they had the patience, time and temperament to stay out late and deal with all of the bull-**** that nightlife entails

-They work long, odd hours and don't have a schedule that allows for regular dating even if they want to

-They work long, odd hours and don't have the energy to go out regularly

-They are in grad school and don't have the time

-They want a boyfriend/husband but have been taught in college that men are evil and women must have a career first

-They live in a small town and the men are generally stupid, ugly and/or evil

-They are highly religious and can't find a man who shares the same beliefs and lifestyle

I am just scratching the surface here. I am a very social person and meet a lot of people and I think many men would be completely shocked at the enormous number of women who are in their 20's and dateless. Some of these women go on dry spells for months or even years.

In effect, any "normal" modern woman in her 20's now has at three full time jobs: school, career, dating. And if they have a strong commitment to the first two, dating usually suffers. A modern woman is very similar to a confused, abused and overworked dog. They are actually traumatized by life. I don't see any easy fix for this situation, either.

this is just mgtow coping 'qq sad females epidemic, damn now they have what they wanted dont they!'

generally men are MUCH more dissapointed and sad about dating situation than women

 

[Who Dares Win]

If a woman in any western coutry nowadays is single OUTSIDE her active attempt to score significantly above her league (I mean 3 or more points), its because she is either:

1)painfully ugly for human eyes to see
2)pathologically fat beyond any alarming level according to the world healthy assembly standards
3)she is so screwed up in the head that it would take a joint force of freud and the exorcist to push her back to the pit

Never in the history of manking women had so much power, so many opportunities and so much market value as now.

For one to fail thats like playing a videogame with god mode and invulnerability and actively looking for that glitch that freezes the computer.

 

[AttackFormation]

I met my HPD stripper(after breakup) ex at church lol

Hahahahaha, man... I still chuckle from time to time when you said in another thread you probably developed abandonment issues from your exes. The women who prey on you are enough to create a story. The things you've been through with them are amazing.

That time when your ex told you how she fvcked dozens of men in a few weeks or months to hurt you after I told you mine took nearly a year to do it, LMFAO. It's like there's some demonic evil out for you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I was also taught to be self sufficient, educated, and socially adroit.

Am I the only one who had to look up what that word meant?

 

[ohrein]

Ohrein, your posts are usually quite good. I'm going to half agree with this one. Generally, and historically, women do not (prefer to) date down in social standards. But given feminism, two people needing to work to make a household go, and the emphasis on women to find a career and earn their own money, I see more "career" women who are obviously the "man" in the relationship--and he's ok with it. Even after a divorce, for which we all know the stats, this attitude carries over for the woman. I find more and more women exuding male energy even if they look petite and attractive.

Serious glass-ceiling-breaking career women are generally a huge turnoff for me. I call it "Plastic Balls Syndrome."

Sure. I would say I have doubts about the health of a relationship in that state. I think men are more malleable in that way. I think men could be happy being stay at home dads but I think most women on average would grow resentment if they don't love their career. If they ever feel like they are stuck supporting the man, that's when things can go south. Not that it can never work, because as you know, I preach against binary thinking and absolutes. But someone has mentioned on here how there could exist a healthy relationship of a masculine energy career woman and a feminine energy man. Or even a blend of both. For the most part in my life, I have seen that dynamic fail catastrophically (I've had three friends go through divorces despite the fact they treated their wives like princesses), and with my own personal experiences developing a strong sense of masculine self. That said, there are no absolutes.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's a running joke among my friends lol. I attract daddy issues like crazy and as many as sneak through my filters I have filtered out countless more.

Which woman was the one that made you have to make a new account here?

 

[Music_czar]

Covert NPD chick, the one who ran to tell me about all the other men lol. No red flags for a good year other than her parents fought, even by the end it was still typical girl stuff mostly. AFTER we broke up she became a different person, it was so bizarre.

You’re lucky it was after not during

 

[Billtx49]

AFTER we broke up she became a different person, it was so bizarre.

Her false personality. She morphed into the female she thought you wanted.

 

[Billtx49]

Which is why I dont set explicit boundaries anymore, essentially it reveals red pill knowledge and values.

Not sure if a boundary is red pill vs. an assertive man, but You set a boundary with a damaged woman and she morphs to transform to it. No win with a woman like that…

 

[longtail]

If a woman in any western coutry nowadays is single OUTSIDE her active attempt to score significantly above her league (I mean 3 or more points), its because she is either:

1)painfully ugly for human eyes to see
2)pathologically fat beyond any alarming level according to the world healthy assembly standards
3)she is so screwed up in the head that it would take a joint force of freud and the exorcist to push her back to the pit

Never in the history of manking women had so much power, so many opportunities and so much market value as now.

For one to fail thats like playing a videogame with god mode and invulnerability and actively looking for that glitch that freezes the computer.

Like I said, heavy school + work schedules make scheduling "free time" difficult for many women.

Clubs/bars are difficult if they are working since it disrupts sleep schedules, not to mention it's toxic on so many levels.

There's also the issue of eligible, dateable, good looking men who are reasonably sane and somewhat have their act together. In smaller towns, this pool is vanishingly small. In college towns with a good school, it's a lot better. In cities with lots of immigrants and tech jobs, the balance is so far skewed in favor of women it's pathetic.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So SMV "crashes" after age 23, yet they still get a lot of male attention when they are 50 and they are only HB6. Yeah, that makes perfect sense.

Cucks and beta thirst. Yourself for instance.

So many retards here.

Yes, cause betas and broke ass niggas trying to marry hoes. Are you kidding me?

Your argument for chasing busted chicks after her best years are over is that other cucks pursue granny's?

Get your testosterone checked then post back.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Like I said, heavy school + work schedules make scheduling "free time" difficult for many women.

Clubs/bars are difficult if they are working since it disrupts sleep schedules, not to mention it's toxic on so many levels.

There's also the issue of eligible, dateable, good looking men who are reasonably sane and somewhat have their act together. In smaller towns, this pool is vanishingly small. In college towns with a good school, it's a lot better. In cities with lots of immigrants and tech jobs, the balance is so far skewed in favor of women it's pathetic.

Its not a argument.

You can't be a good mom and working 80-100 hour work weeks. Retards sold many degrees in basket weaving and women studies.

The assumptions is that, a man's value is based upon resources, and if a woman climbs the dominance hierarchy, she will be more attractive as well.

Not true. If education is pursued, she spent what nearly two decades or more in government schools. She cannot cook, clean or balance her cheque book but, she has her opinion on the patriarchy. She pissed away her best resource in SMV and fertility.

Top form SMV 18-23 is typically the best years of a woman. Retards will argue cucks and betas will marry granny's. They also watch bbc cuck porn and partake IRL. Wtf is your point?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Put women on a scale between top form SMV 18-23 and thereafter her degree in gender studies and basket weaving. Guaranteed, bulking season kicked off.

SMV for men and women is asymmetrical. All things arent equal nor are the same things that make a man attractive. A woman's inability to add value outside SMV is a good indication of poir lifestyle choices.

Not getting the ring isn't rape nor is squandering her best years.

 

[lamath]

SMV qualities in men and women not the same for sure.

i dont want a stupid women but 1 thing is sure Idgaf about those with very high education or job thinking they are top smv because of it.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

SMV qualities in men and women not the same for sure.

i dont want a stupid women but 1 thing is sure Idgaf about those with very high education or job thinking they are top smv because of it.

I would prefer a hard plain Jane, cute, feminine, dolls herself up over your everyday sloot gonna sloot. Can cook clean isnt a attention ***** or slut.

I have been doing pickup randomly. Its been pretty apparent when/where attraction is and how easy it is to 'phase shift' into a quirk, break rapport, acquire digits or IG, and follow up.

Two prospects, both on top form SMV, both in the same social circle, and they are mirrin my aesthetics. Theres a certain level of attraction, of interest, and way a woman will sit in silence when overcome with desire. Women do the same thing before a makeout. There's a certain level of emotional charge in sexual desire. Game us in the acquisition of compliance.


The reason its so frowned upon in society is to the degree in a man's ability or lack thereof in reading social cues. I might add, women's cratered SMV and fertility pursuing chikd birth only exacerbates the prevalence of autism spectrum. Kids are at higher risk. Women are at risk of said males especially thosr with mental health like the gta mini van incident.

Its why being a attention ***** is a dangerous game to play. Society encourages saud behaviour.

 

[lamath]

This could explain the expanding birth rate of autistic children, could prob also explain some part of the ADD boom also

 

[Spaz]

SMV qualities in men and women not the same for sure.

i dont want a stupid women but 1 thing is sure Idgaf about those with very high education or job thinking they are top smv because of it.

Only losers believe those narratives.

And it's older or fugly women that's putting out high class = high smv

It's basically a lie to remain viable with the onslaught of younger sexier women turning 18 everyday.

The only truth on a women's smv is always her youth and going further is her feminine abilities.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Like I said, heavy school + work schedules make scheduling "free time" difficult for many women.

Clubs/bars are difficult if they are working since it disrupts sleep schedules, not to mention it's toxic on so many levels.

There's also the issue of eligible, dateable, good looking men who are reasonably sane and somewhat have their act together. In smaller towns, this pool is vanishingly small. In college towns with a good school, it's a lot better. In cities with lots of immigrants and tech jobs, the balance is so far skewed in favor of women it's pathetic.

The kind of woman you describe is far from high value, no man of value would pick a workhaholic look at my career gurlz type, nothing more than a quick lay...if a woman is single its a for a reason totally due to her in the western world.