Hey Guys,
What I am about to write may shock you. It is a result of some thinking I have done in the last period. The main theme is that we, men, had handed out all our power to women. The more interesting fact is that in my opinion this is not the first time it has happened, and that it was reversed in the past. Can we reverse it again?
First I would like to introduce a few concepts. We all know that women are not attracted to weak, spineless men. However women try endlessly to improve their looks so that more men will find them attractive and chase them. This puzzled me for quite some time. Why would women invest so much time and effort to make themselves _not_ attracted to men? The answer is very simple, it is a power struggle. You can't even blame them. If any of you was offered more power (be it money, slaves, fame) would you decline? What I am trying to say it that instinctively women prefer power over the balance between the sexes. The balance that has to exist so there can be mutual interest and health relationships.
How evolution let this happen? I think that the evolution didn't plan it this way. The evolution gave men and women equal power. The man got the physical strength while the woman got the looks and the ability to influence the man. However as society developed, men lost their power, what I mean is that a man can't go and rape/ kill whoever he likes. On the other hand with the introduction of cosmetics and plastic surgery the power of women just grew more.
What I am trying to say is that in order to keep a healthy balance between the sexes humans must equalize the power. In fact many of the methods you see on seduction sites talk exactly about that, being hard to get/ a confidence. But in my opinion, it won't help unless it is on a global scale because there will always be some other guy who is better looking but a complete AFC.
As I was thinking about this and getting almost frustrated I suddenly understood that this issue was addressed before. Look at women in Iran! – You see, all the three major religions introduce the concept of modesty where women don't use their sexual power. They also go against murder, theft, etc', so in fact they limit the power of both the sexes in order to reach a balanced and a civilized society. Now, I am not a religious person, in fact I believe that religious leaders often have additional motives besides the good of the society, but still.. Isn't it impressive?
So why did we allow this to happen? The answer is short term thinking instead of long term thinking. What I mean is that we, men, would prefer to go outside and see lots of half naked girls on the streets or porn on TV and not care what it would do to the next generation. What I mean is that people who can make cash _now_ from ruining the balance will do it and not think of the future of the human race (I am talking about the cosmetics industry for example).
Now I know that this is a long article, so bare with me for a little more. I am not good with history so correct me if I am wrong, but before the major religions came into the picture we had sexual mess around the world. You must have heard about what was going on in Rome and in Greece. The world was full of *****s, adultery, orgies and so on. Now I know that just thinking about it is arousing, but think with your heads and not your d*cks, the society became corrupt. So men used their brains to find a solution, their solution was religion. They took out and went killing the non believers (be it Crusaders or Jihad in its intentional form). I believe we have to find a solution too! Because the way I see it both sexes are suffering. Though the woman are in control they are (in most of the cases) are not attracted to their partners.
What I find so amazing in this is that a month ago I wasn't seeing all this. I was thinking how great is the fact that the girls of the young generation are sluts. Everyday I see young girls dress and behave more provocatively than before. But now I think otherwise, I see them growing up, not as women who want to sleep with me, but as women who just want to tease me, and it sucks.
Do you think that I am on to something? Am I wrong? I would very much like to hear what you think. Post any ideas that may restore the balance. Remember that any large scale changes take decades and millions of people but still have to start somewhere. Meanwhile all I can offer is that we start to behave more like men, because this is where we get our power from.
Good luck and spread the word,
Hedgehog.
What I am about to write may shock you. It is a result of some thinking I have done in the last period. The main theme is that we, men, had handed out all our power to women. The more interesting fact is that in my opinion this is not the first time it has happened, and that it was reversed in the past. Can we reverse it again?
First I would like to introduce a few concepts. We all know that women are not attracted to weak, spineless men. However women try endlessly to improve their looks so that more men will find them attractive and chase them. This puzzled me for quite some time. Why would women invest so much time and effort to make themselves _not_ attracted to men? The answer is very simple, it is a power struggle. You can't even blame them. If any of you was offered more power (be it money, slaves, fame) would you decline? What I am trying to say it that instinctively women prefer power over the balance between the sexes. The balance that has to exist so there can be mutual interest and health relationships.
How evolution let this happen? I think that the evolution didn't plan it this way. The evolution gave men and women equal power. The man got the physical strength while the woman got the looks and the ability to influence the man. However as society developed, men lost their power, what I mean is that a man can't go and rape/ kill whoever he likes. On the other hand with the introduction of cosmetics and plastic surgery the power of women just grew more.
What I am trying to say is that in order to keep a healthy balance between the sexes humans must equalize the power. In fact many of the methods you see on seduction sites talk exactly about that, being hard to get/ a confidence. But in my opinion, it won't help unless it is on a global scale because there will always be some other guy who is better looking but a complete AFC.
As I was thinking about this and getting almost frustrated I suddenly understood that this issue was addressed before. Look at women in Iran! – You see, all the three major religions introduce the concept of modesty where women don't use their sexual power. They also go against murder, theft, etc', so in fact they limit the power of both the sexes in order to reach a balanced and a civilized society. Now, I am not a religious person, in fact I believe that religious leaders often have additional motives besides the good of the society, but still.. Isn't it impressive?
So why did we allow this to happen? The answer is short term thinking instead of long term thinking. What I mean is that we, men, would prefer to go outside and see lots of half naked girls on the streets or porn on TV and not care what it would do to the next generation. What I mean is that people who can make cash _now_ from ruining the balance will do it and not think of the future of the human race (I am talking about the cosmetics industry for example).
Now I know that this is a long article, so bare with me for a little more. I am not good with history so correct me if I am wrong, but before the major religions came into the picture we had sexual mess around the world. You must have heard about what was going on in Rome and in Greece. The world was full of *****s, adultery, orgies and so on. Now I know that just thinking about it is arousing, but think with your heads and not your d*cks, the society became corrupt. So men used their brains to find a solution, their solution was religion. They took out and went killing the non believers (be it Crusaders or Jihad in its intentional form). I believe we have to find a solution too! Because the way I see it both sexes are suffering. Though the woman are in control they are (in most of the cases) are not attracted to their partners.
What I find so amazing in this is that a month ago I wasn't seeing all this. I was thinking how great is the fact that the girls of the young generation are sluts. Everyday I see young girls dress and behave more provocatively than before. But now I think otherwise, I see them growing up, not as women who want to sleep with me, but as women who just want to tease me, and it sucks.
Do you think that I am on to something? Am I wrong? I would very much like to hear what you think. Post any ideas that may restore the balance. Remember that any large scale changes take decades and millions of people but still have to start somewhere. Meanwhile all I can offer is that we start to behave more like men, because this is where we get our power from.
Good luck and spread the word,
Hedgehog.
Oops I couldn't help but pay attention to hot women. I guess that means more power to them, and less to me. I'll survive (I hope?)
