I was talking to my friend whose ex recently moved on about this. Women aren't loyal. Your best weapon is indifference and understanding that you age better than them. You can always pick up the weights and get a younger women, right into your fifties. Women at thirty are on the downward. So view the loss of a woman as an opportunity to get a newer model. When you're with a woman, understand that your value increases as hers declines. If she wants to jump ship, let her. If you're a younger guy dating younger women, 25 and under, understand that she is going to switch things up in 99% of cases. I'm in my mid thirties now and I don't have a single friend who met their girlfriend/wife in their early twenties.
You need to be the center of your life. You can have women come in and be a part of your world, but never build your world around them. Always be prepared to let them walk away or walk away yourself. It shouldn't surprise you when they pull this sort of thing. Had a friend recently whose girlfriend decided to go travelling for a year without him. He's beta as fvck and going to do LDR. Four years they've been together, living together for three years. He believes she loves him even though she's getting as far away from him as possible? I'm giving him the rational male for Christmas, it's time he unplugged. I was hoping his relationship would work out but not so much.
