Am I to picky?

[skinnydart]

Ok, I really liked this girl and now I've started going out with her but for some reason, I've lost the attraction for her I once. I seem to have this with a lot of people. I think I'm just to picky, like they have to be perfect looks.

What do you guys think, here is a pic of her, am just to picky?
http://www.newbeginning.biz/girl.jpg

 

[affliction]

I don't think she's very attractive in that picture, but we all have different tastes. I think she'd look a lot better if she got a tan.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Ask yourself, "What do I want?"

 

[Dukester]

personally i think she is fairly attractive. i give her around a 7.5. she does need to do something and she'd be an 8 no doubt. tan, makeup, hair, i dunno.

i think she looks good. if you're looking for a LTR and dump chicks cuz they dont meet your standards then you have to lower them. i hate saying that, but maybe you are too picky.
if your looking just to fvck (and i dont think you are) then whats wrong w/ that chick?
hell, i'd bang the other one too

all guys have diff. tastes, but looking for that perfect 10 everytime aint gonna happen. i kno lowering your standards makes you "less DJ" but thats bs. are you a 10, probably not, so stop looking for perfect 10's bud.

Good luck...

 

[PeeGee]

Being picky, or thinking that girl isn't good enough implies you think you can get somebody better. Can you? Or is that the best you can do (no negative connotation/tone here)? We don't know anything about her except what she looks like (and I don't see anything extremely out of place here), so we can't make that decision for you.

 

[flexion_]

When you buy a new car - its great. After about a month its just a car.

Even if you go out with HB10... after a month you won't see that person as a HB10 since you'll:
Have smelled her fart.
Watched her burp.
Heard her snort like a pig.
etc...

I agree with another poster... "what do *you* want?" If you base your entire perception of a relationship on looks then you'll never have a long one. If thats what you want then fine - if you want a longer term relationship then you'll need to figure out what are looking for from your GF - interests, dependability, humour, support, etc...

The girl is fine looking to me.

 

[jason86]

ill tell u one thing. i used to go for girls who wernt what i really wanted but were ok but still not what i wanted. they were 6 or 7s but because they showed me interest, i used to think eh the girl is noticing me, lets go for her.

but since i saw this site, my mindset has changed and i only go for 8 and 9s. i just ignore the ones who want me but arent all that. looking at those pics, none of them are worth it. settle for the best.

 

[Alpine]

Unconsciously you may be protecting yourself from something.

Nobody is perfect, therefore you will never settle for anyone, is that what you want?

It is quite common for gay men in denial to keep on searching for the 'perfect' and therefore unobtainable women.