Am i to old to change?

[bigwuz]

Hi I'm new to the so suave forms I'm 26 single unemployed truck driver. I have two kids by two different women. I feel life is digging me deeper. Both my baby mamas ended up hating me the last one got with her ex right after I left. I know I care to little sometimes. Then I care to much an go crazy when its to late. I don't know if I'm to old to change. But I know I have to change for the better. I'm tired of women ending up hating me, and me hating myself. I just want to love an accept myself. How can I help myself?

 

[Droz88]

Read the DJ bible. That's very empowering material. Only you can decide the answer to that question. All we can do is tell you what is possible...which is anything.

 

[bigwuz]

I wanted to add I think I just get bored easily so I treat women badly after awhile I'll read that today

 

[Iggy69]

I would probably start out by trying to get a job and also picking up a hobby. But first and foremost go fill out some applications and after you got the job thing good for you pick up a hobby something you like to do. I personally am a big fan of boxing and go train at a boxing gym 3 days out the week, for me it's a great way to get away from it all when I go train.

If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.

To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.

It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.

Good Luck!

 

[Atom Smasher]

Too late? Look to the left of my post. I didn't start getting it together till 50. The worst thing for you is idleness. It slowly strangles a man's self esteem.

This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!

 

[The Gambler]

You can do this, sir. Please come back soon and give us a few more details about what you think the problems might be.

The Gambler

 

[Zerro]

You've not too old to change, just too reluctant. I turned 30 before I finally got it together and started getting good results with women.

 

[bigneil]

My life began at age 26. That's the first age a man can be considered a professional at his trade (having graduated at 22 ideally).

 

[bigwuz]

Thanks guys I now have an action plan to follow. I'll start by looking for jobs and push myself. I'll also follow the DJ bible. I think this will be my best year ever