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Trying to figure out why I’ve been dry for two years now
 

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nothing wrong with your looks, you look youthful more than aggressive so it depends what the woman wants.

deffo keep the short beard it helps.

what game are you running , I think you need to run the beta provider game give off the vibe your looking for stability "not in a rush for anything but if the right girl comes along who knows?"

You dont have the features to pull off hook up game, I dont think bro Im afraid, you do however have great eyes
 
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nothing wrong with your looks, you look youthful more than aggressive so it depends what the woman wants.

deffo keep the short beard it helps.

what game are you running , I think you need to run the beta provider game give off the vibe your looking for stability "not in a rush for anything but if the right girl comes along who knows?"

You dont have the features to pull off hook up game, I dont think bro Im afraid, you do however have great eyes
Well that’s unfortunate for me because all I’m looking for is hookups lol
 

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You look average, which is fine. Maybe shape the neck beard, but no issues in terms of face.
nothing wrong with your looks, you look youthful more than aggressive so it depends what the woman wants.

deffo keep the short beard it helps.
I'd agree with this. No neck beard.

He is 27, so looking youthful is to be expected at 27. He's likely targeting 18-27 year olds.

Also agree that Photo Feeler is a better option in terms of evaluating than just us. Wheat Waffles (leading blackpill YouTuber) has a face rating effort on Fiverr too.

what game are you running , I think you need to run the beta provider game give off the vibe your looking for stability "not in a rush for anything but if the right girl comes along who knows?"

You dont have the features to pull off hook up game, I dont think bro Im afraid, you do however have great eyes
Well that’s unfortunate for me because all I’m looking for is hookups lol
I think @derby1 is providing a correct assessment here. If @Donesimping looks more like a beta provider, then beta male extended relationship game might be the strategy.

That leads into an age problem. At 27, it is more difficult to pull off beta male game than it would be at 31 or 35. At 27, it would be possible to get some plainer looking 24-27 year olds with beta male game. At 31-35, you can get some former college hotties in their late 20s/early 30s with beta male game, especially confident beta male game. Being a 'Greater Beta' at 31-35 is passable. The problem with that is that eventually the women will expect you to put a ring on it. If you don't, they'll get pissy about it. But you'll more easily get into extended relationships in your 30-35 years old with 'Greater Beta' male game and then you can boot them to the door once they get pissy about the ring.

If you want hookups, you'll have to lose body fat, have a more chiseled face, and have big muscles. 6'0"+ too will be ideal, but not necessary.
 

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I’m not a fan of the fully committed smile in general. It makes a man look weaker IMO.
I found (at least for me) that a reserved smile is more attractive to women.
For me, the byword is “reserve” in all matters at first with women. I mean while running initial game. Reserved smile, reserved body movements, reserved commitment, etc.
 

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Nothing wrong with your looks, it's your vibe, you're insecure AF (you starting this thread is more than enough proof).
Well that’s unfortunate for me because all I’m looking for is hookups lol
Given your vibe, you've no chance with the hoes who give it to manly men. They'll see you as a beta provider and try to milk you or ignore you right away. Go after the hoes who put out because they're really insecure and thus seek validation.
 

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5'10" is a shiit height in effect. Though there's nothing wrong with the height as a whole, it doesn't provide you any preferential treatment.

5'9" - 5'10" are average, borderline heights. 5'11" is a little better. 6'0"+ is where height gets advantageous.

At 5'10", you'll either have to lie about your height on swipe apps or focus on real world approaching. I think the real world focus is better.

I've never done shoe lifts at 5'10" but some would be open to doing them.

If you're 5'10" and basic looking, that's not a recipe for success. You need either awesome facial aesthetics and/or big muscles to stand out.
 

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Well that’s unfortunate for me because all I’m looking for is hookups lol
its a game strategy, you lead them down the relationship dance, expect to be 3 date ruled. you dont talk about relationships but you give off the vibe your a long term kinda guy, if she tries to tie you down to fast, you tell her to calm down

women want to be Fcked by a certain guy
& women want relationships from a certain guy

you look more like the relationship guy, theres nothing wrong with it just work with it
 

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Im with @pipeman84 on this one. Your looks are not the problem bro.
 

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Add a neck tattoo, a 90's James Hetfield beard, learn to scowl a bit and get a mohawk. Badass.
 

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5'10" is a shiit height in effect. Though there's nothing wrong with the height as a whole, it doesn't provide you any preferential treatment.

5'9" - 5'10" are average, borderline heights. 5'11" is a little better. 6'0"+ is where height gets advantageous.

At 5'10", you'll either have to lie about your height on swipe apps or focus on real world approaching. I think the real world focus is better.

I've never done shoe lifts at 5'10" but some would be open to doing them.

If you're 5'10" and basic looking, that's not a recipe for success. You need either awesome facial aesthetics and/or big muscles to stand out.
5’10” is fine. no bonus but no penalty either.
 

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You look like a nice, harmless guy. The one that every mom would want coaching their daughters softball team.

Your look won't score "Hook-Ups" easily. But I'm certain you could modify your looks and come across with more of an edge. You're not ugly, just don't have any seductive edge to your appearance.

Sharpen up that beard, drop the neck beard. Hit the Gym. Improve your wardrobe. Whiten your teeth.

I don't know what your personality is like, but that needs to be on point as well.
 
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Use moisturizer, get some anti-wrinkle cream for the areas around your eyes. Short spike your hair
 

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Neckbeard definitely must go. I sound like a broken record with that - but that is a negative.

You have a lot of wrinkles around the eyes for 27 - so I agree some type of moisturizer is probably a good idea there.

Other than that, I would say you are slightly above average just in terms of face. I can't see the rest of your body - but I agree you give off the "nice guy" vibe which generally scored about a zero on the seductive scale. If you are in good to great shape, I would definitely do a ward robe update with some more fashionable clothing to wear out and about. The rest is all about how you carry yourself. You are good looking enough to pull it off - but it may take practice perfecting the craft.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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