Am I just a friend, mixed signals?

[Potbelly]

listen up man,

1. She likes you.

2. She just happens to have a BF...who happens to be a senior...and senior year just happens to be the year PROM happens...SO WHY WOULD SHE BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW?? SHE IS TOOLING HIS ASS JUST TO GO TO PROM SO SHE CAN GO BACK TO HER FRIENDS LIKE "OMG GUYS LYKE I WENT TO PROM!!! OMG! I AM SO AWESOME!!!!"

3. she likes you

4. PLAY IT COOL

5. How?

6. Do what you have been doing. Maybe start ignoring her a little by giving her the GIFT OF MISSING YOU. Find a hobby or something you can REALLY GET INTO and basically if she asks you to hang out or something, accept, but if you don't feel like it, just be like "yeah I gotta go work on <hobby>."

7. WORK ON OTHER CHICKS WHILE YOU KEEP HER ON THE BACKBURNER. She has a BF right now..(not for long man...she will drop him once he goes off to college).

8. Like I said work on other chicks and keep her on the back burner and sh1t. You are a desirable guy in her eyes because she enjoys your company. You're just not desirable SEXuaLLY. So....

9. BECOME DESIREABLE SEXUALLY. ie. date other chicks, make out w/them and stuff...i dunno if that's our thing but gradually make jokes more sexual...more sexual kino instead of that innocent arm tap sh1t.

10. EXAMPLES: i am normally a chill dude...not flashy, but i remember when my oneitis in 11th grade saw me "gaming" (i used "" because I was just talking to her being C&F) this cute girl around the corner and like literally the next day she became really shy around me and a week later ... the rest you can use your imagination. HAHA!

ok so basically make her miss you a little. evolve as a man into a sexual being (NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH IMMATURE OR PERVERTED).

sexual: ::deep eye contact --> look at her lips --> back to eyes --> kino::
immature: hehe BOOBS!
perverted: ::stare at boobs::....::from a dark alley::....::with binoculars::

 

[Potbelly]

**** man...i actually read your posts and i gotta say this about my advice now...

NOTHING CHANGES.

DO NOT LET HER AFFECT YOUR HAPPINESS.. YOU MUST MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY THROUGH ENJOYING LIFE AND YOUR ACCOMPLISGHMENTS. IF SHE JUST HAPPENS TO BREAK UP W/HER BF THEN GO AHEAD DO WHAT YOU WANT, BUT EXCLUSIVE INTENSE EFFORT IS BULLSH1T JUST TO GET A GIRL IN HS.

 

[Upthere]

Ok, I would like to thank you guys for the replies.
I think she like me but I dont know if more then her boyfriend. I mean if she dated him just to go to prom then she probably would have broken up by now right?

Anyway i accidently ran across a cool interest test. Dont know if its been done but I thought I could share it with you guys
Today I was sitting in class noticed she had 2 colors of earings on each side. I mentioned I thought it would look better if she made it so they were same color on each side ( I could care less, I was just seeing her reaction). See her next hour, she changed them to way I suggested. I asked why and she said "I changed them for you".
I think I will use this little test to see interest in future with other girls. I think its a good one.

 

[blackbelt2k]

just tell her straight up ... ohh baby you, you got what i need, but you say im just a friend, but you say im just a friend...lol

 

[Upthere]

just tell her straight up ... ohh baby you, you got what i need, but you say im just a friend, but you say im just a friend...lol

Isnt that a song? I think I remeber that.

Hmmm..
Anyway I went over to study, nothing eventful. Psshhh..

 

[angelz]

Isnt that a song? I think I remeber that.

Hmmm..
Anyway I went over to study, nothing eventful. Psshhh..

Mario - just a friend

 

[playa99]

i think u r best moving on she has a BF so u cud be being played along for her bit of fun nt worth the risk

 

[Upthere]

Actually, she dumped her boyfriend and invited me to a movie. Movie times didnt work so we went swimming. Only sort of kino I got was tickling her in her bathing suit. Kinda pathetic. meh.
Now what? lol. I dont know what to do

 

[Nighthawk]

How would you describe her on-off bf? What does she say about him?

Advice is to make a move already btw.

 

[Upthere]

How would you describe her on-off bf? What does she say about him?

Advice is to make a move already btw.

I think she got bored of him. Thats it. He is kinda of an afc. She says she is still going to stay friends, but he is kinda bitter.

Her mom is super protective. Wont let her do much. That being said
Today she said when we were going to go to movie " we might have to bring some other people along because my mom might think that, well you know" and she left it at that

I think she was implying that her mom might think we are going out. I dont know.

I sort of assumed she was leading me on when she invited me to a movie but then ended up swimming. To me thats not something a guy and a girl typically do alone. Am I right? I feel like sometimes I am such a good friend she will do date type stuff with me but not actually a date.

 

[Nighthawk]

That sounds promising. Now be a man and kiss her, and if she's not interested stop wasting your precious time and find someone better.

 

[Upthere]

I am going to a party with her tonight. I will grab my balls and go in for a kiss. Hopefully all will turn out well. Thanks for all the help

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

You are just a friend.

When guys hang out with other guys, they do activities, don't talk a whole lot, and don't touch each other. So when guys touch and talk to girls, they see this as flirting because they don't do it with their guy friends.

But when girls hang out with other girls, they spend most of the time talking and are very open and comfortable with lots of physical contact. So when girls touch and talk to guys, they don't really consider it flirting because girls do this to EVERYONE.

she will wait exclusively for me to walk her back to her locker or next class. She initiates kino all the time, I have recently started this too with a good reaction from her. She invited me over to watch a movie with her alone when her BF was out of town...Also she made me a B-day card that said "we should really hang out some time ( if you want to)". When talking to her after school a couple times she has brought up that and said we should hang out some more.

I and every other girl I know does this with their friends, regardless of their gender.

Now my understanding of Just friend signals that she has sent. She openly talks about her boyfriend with me. She is going to prom with him and seems excited ( I know this girl better then she does with 6 hours of my day with her). She is pretty physical with him in public ( not kissing just being close holding hands hugging ect). Also we have lots of inside jokes, I dont know if this is good or bad.

Again, you are just a friend. Friends have inside jokes. She has a boyfriend and is very into him.

Honestly, I doubt you have a chance with her. Girls don't "friend" guys they're into and want to date. If a girl wants to date a guy, she'll date him. If she gets along well with a guy but doesn't want to date him, she "friends" him.

 

[blackbelt2k]

damn you guys are young...its sir mix alot ... or someone from the 80's ...

 

[Upthere]

I need to be kicked.

I got ther eand this one goth kid gamed her up the whole night. There wasnt much I could do. Fortunately she would never go out with him but I lost precious time oh well.