Am I in the wrong??

jetset22

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Long story short- I have been seeing a girl for about a year on and off. We recently had a talk and she said she liked me so I said did she want to be my girlfriend. She said she wanted to get to know me better. Last night we went to a party at my friends house. My friend is always a drunken mess. He asked her for her number about four times in somewhat of a joking manner. She declined the first three attempts but on the third said well you can text me if you cant reach my man and she put her number in his phone. At this point I got mad. She asked why and I told her because she gave her number out. This morning I sent her a text message apologizing. She didn't reply. I invited her to lunch. No reply. She later replied and said "sorry im out and about, bye."

My plan at this point is to wait until she tries to contact me. Is that the way to go??

Thanks in advance for any advice you guys can give! thanks
 

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if it was me. i would go after another target...if she later on initiates contact,then good for you, if not then you have other options..
dont wait on her...keep MOVING
 

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ABANDON THIS PROJECT~ AND SEEK NEW BUDDYS

This really is the HEIGHT of disrespect. You should have let your bud know that he was taking the piss.... If it were me I would have pulled him to one side - but to be honest, none of my m8's would dare pull a trick like that - and you've been seeing this woman a year!!!!!! She's rotten to the core - at leat you've seen with your own eyes shes lookin at other guys and taking their number... for f ucks sake man, wake up - she;s a skank, and will ruin you if you try and continue
 

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TonyBaloney said:
ABANDON THIS PROJECT~ AND SEEK NEW BUDDYS

This really is the HEIGHT of disrespect. You should have let your bud know that he was taking the piss.... If it were me I would have pulled him to one side - but to be honest, none of my m8's would dare pull a trick like that - and you've been seeing this woman a year!!!!!! She's rotten to the core - at leat you've seen with your own eyes shes lookin at other guys and taking their number... for f ucks sake man, wake up - she;s a skank, and will ruin you if you try and continue
I concur 100% save yourself the trouble... Shes a slore .. Move on and next her
 

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Thanks guys. It's hard to hear but you guys are most likely right. I'm getting ready to delete her number out of my phone right now. Thanks again. Hopefully I can resist the temptation to try and communicate with her.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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