Am I being too quick to "next"?

[polo2006]

of course i'm gonna agree with iqqi here. Most of the time only ugly girls/plain janes give you immediate high interest. But the really hot women have SO many guys hitting on them, they almost universally give all guys moderate to low initial interest, no matter how good looking you are, how great your personality is, or what kind of job you have.

Any guy - even an AFC - can ask a girl out a couple of times and then give up. But it's the mark of a true DJ to turn that inital low to moderate interest from a very hot woman and turn it into something almost like an obsession

Anything worth having in life, sometimes you gotta work a little bit for it.

Consign. Some wome are like puppies and have to be trained.

 

[backbreaker]

BB, I'm totally with ya i wish i could get hb9's to bang me on the first date all the time like that last girl i fvcked, but the sad reality is that this isn't always possible. The hb9 i banged the other night, it was on our first date. But it was after 2-3 weeks of me employing a very highly skilled level of texting which carefully broke down her anti-slvt defenses. It still took some work. I know sometimes i make it look easy but really it's not. During this time, she pretended not to show any interest, then would exhibit push-pull tactics in being interested again. Was she flaky? Yes. Did she play games? Of course. But did I let my ego get in the way of my goal, that of fvcking the living daylights out of her? No way. I knew there would be games and obstacles. In fact I expected them.

If fvcking hb9's was so easy, none of us would get married and we'd all be out there having orgies and pounding models and strippers lol

Now that all having been said, i'm seeing another hb9 (this new story and pics/videos will be posted on my FR thread very soon) who is giving me all the signs of interest, like making out, lots of touching etc, although after 4 dates we have still not banged. So what i'm trying to say is, not every woman who is very hot will come easily. Of course, some will come a bit more easily than others. But it's up to every man to figure out on his what limits are as to what he will put up with.

The bottom line of what i'm saying is that just because a really hot women doesn't give you immediate high interest, don't be so quick to next her. You might be passing over the opportunity of some great sex and some really entertaining stories that you can be sharing here with everyone the next day

this is a text book faulty causation fallacy.

I never said, that you shoudl be able to fvck hb 9's on the first date. find the quote in this thread where i said that i will paypal you 100 dollars right now. you can't.

I said, a woman should show clear interest in you.

i see now you aren't interested in actually learning anything you think you are too smart for your own good. i'm not wasting another post with this ****.

you come here after spending hundreds of dollars on a date with a broad and dont' get anywhere and now you think that you know the answer to all the hb's in the world.

you are twisting everyone's words to come to the conclusion you want to come to in your own mind.


good fvcking lord dude, i did not have sex with my now wife for almost a month. i never said i hoped int he sack with her the second i met her. in fact i quite clearly stated the oppostie.

but what i am trying to say, is she CLEARLY showed me that she was interested in me in the process. she called me all the time, she never gave me any **** about setting up dates, she had no problem doing anything i suggested, our first 3 dates combined i probably spent 30 bucks.. she had no issue kissing me, holding hands, touching, rubbing, she showed real interest in me.

yeah, i had to work for it, she's not a slut. but along the way, she made it clear that myw ork was not in vein,

these girls, that are being half ass about dates, not wanting to kiss, not wanting to do **** you want to do, not wanting to call on the phone and prefer you text them, they don't want to kiss you or are hesitant about kissing you, they aren't interested in you. dude you are a lawyer how can you not understand what i am saying it's as clear as day. women who like you even if they don't fvck you will show you that they are interested in you. this isn't rocket science.

 

[backbreaker]

I'm not upset, i'm just high strung, i have nothing against you. but this is just.. it's so basic that i dont' see hwo people don't understand this principle.

I mean, when i meet a woman, and i take the time to approach her and then take the time to setup a date, i have clearly showed her i am interested in her. i don't have to do any more outside of that besides bring my A game ot the date.

at that point, a woman has to show me that she is itnerested at least in giving me a chance. she does that by not being a ****, and by agreeing to the date and if not then, setting up a specific time afterewards. i mean people have lives she might work or might have to run an errand or something but she has to show clear interest at that point, not even just bam i have to ahve him but interest enough to at least let you show her what you got.

at that point, if a woman is flaking out, and is being wishy washy just leave. she isn't interested. she might not be interested beucas eshe doesnt' find you attractive, she might not be interested beucase she has other plates that she is more interested in, she might not be in trested beucase there is an ex in the piture but the result is all the uame; she isn't interested. find someone who is.

that concept, will cut out 80-90% of the drama in your dating life.


like when i met amber, and we did not have sex off the bat, but after we actualy had our first date i had zero problem getting togehter with her. half the time not even dates just chilling over each others houses. if i asked her to come over she'd come.

but then the girl who brought me here, if i would ask her to come over she would but only if she didn't have antying else remotly itnereting to do. and i never got "prime" time slots lol. like friday nights and ****.

heather, a girl who i edned upd ating would call me out of the blue and find reasons for her to hang out with me. girl was infatuated with me. there zero doubt in my mind that she was interested. very cute too. banging body.

then l,ike alexis a girl i went on some dates with she woudl go on dates but only if it was the right resturant or i was doing something expensive. i cut her off once i realized the gig .

millie "(my wife) had other plates, though she was discreet about it, and she wasn't fvckign any of them i am 99.9% sure about that, after the 2nd date, i don't care what she had planned if i called it got canclled. iw as her prority.

what i am saying is that, you will know when a woman is serious about giving you a chance. there is no way i was getting alexis to like me for me she saw dollar signs. no matter how much money i spent, where we went, what i did, she saw moeny. that's just how she was wired. she thoguht i wsa cute but i wasn't really her type.

there was nothing i could do to get kat (The girl who brought me here) to see me as datable.. actually i eventually did but that's beside the point and it was no where near worth the effort.

spend your time with the heathers and ambers of the world not with the kat's of the world.

 

[tryst type]

This guy has a pretty solid theory for not pursuing


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lw26HxAM0PU&feature=relmfu

 

[disgustipated]

Itt some horrible advice by Iqqi once again. I swear some girls just to play devils advocate while their nails dry. That's JUST the kind of advice a struggling Afc who maybe has oneitis is desperate to hear. Something to justify his wrongful pursual of a girl that has no.attraction for him. It's dangerous, misleading, bad advice. And to hear it from a woman is o.ly going to appeal too his already feminized leanings. Irresponsible, but I don't expect a chick to have a conscious or accountability for these type things.

 

[Willie Naylor]

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