Originally posted by DiSt0rTi0n_07
Perhaps you are doing something to make them attracted to you... ... of your free will or not, we will never know...
Now for being more serious...
As great as DJ training is... you gotta try:
1. to refrain from emitting anything they may find attractive
and
2. to completely ignore them till they arent attracted to you
3. to GET A GIRL!!! (preferably thats not 12-13)
Good luck with that.
Well, for one thing I AM NOT AWARE of what I may be doing that seems attractive to them.
Although I'm sure I AM doing something. I've been thinking it over for the past few days and so far the best 'theory' I have for it is as follows:
I'm about as emotionally developed as the little kids are. I have strong resistance towards 'growing up.' I have a comfort zone based in that age range which is an attractive feature about the situation.
So, whatever I may be doing unconsciously stems from the above statements. Maybe I am interacting on that 'level' because I have already been there, I don't want to leave that level because I am so familiar with it (hell I started DJing around that age, so thats where most of my discoveries and memories were made). Also since I am already developed enough (emotionally) for that age range it's much easier than trying to grow and mature.
However that all in my mind, and are only guesses based off of me telling the situation to other people and them giving me feedback. I have not had anyone analyse my body language or style of interaction with the little kids so I am clueless as to what I am doing. (I can't watch myself?)