Am I a pedophile? I sure feel dirty...

Ever onward

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son, you are just ****ed up. dont try to cover this **** up by discrediting me.
I don't think he's that fuked up, he's only 3 years older. I'm sure by the time he's 18 his taste in women will change, if not, then he's fuked up.
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward
I don't think he's that fuked up, he's only 3 years older. I'm sure by the time he's 18 his taste in women will change, if not, then he's fuked up.
I suggested that he buy a playboy, this little girl **** has to end, thats what i am protesting, and frankly i cant believe all you guys are debating this ****. just tell him to get some ball, some acutaine, a gym membership, sense of style and a ***** worthy of discussion instead of debating this freaky ****.
 

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Originally posted by KingPinp
I suggested that he buy a playboy, this little girl **** has to end, thats what i am protesting, and frankly i cant believe all you guys are debating this ****. just tell him to get some ball, some acutaine, a gym membership, sense of style and a ***** worthy of discussion instead of debating this freaky ****.
dude, you ARE actually aware that I do not LIKE the attention I am getting from little kids, nor am I (consciously) trying to attract any attention from them, nor do I feel anything outside of **potential** interest in them.

Sure I could see the lil girls growing up to be stunners...or maybe if I was a few years younger, but I am very uncomfortable with them even hinting at any kind of relations between us.

oh, btw..did you read what I wrote? can you speak english?

:rolleyes:
 

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UGH!

FINALLY!

...A (young) MAN knows what it's like to be a WOMAN!

Welcome to our world, honey... Some fun, eh?

:(
 

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And nobody has really given any serious response about what I should DO to make em stop, or what I should do period.
Perhaps you are doing something to make them attracted to you... :eek: ... of your free will or not, we will never know...

Now for being more serious...

As great as DJ training is... you gotta try:
1. to refrain from emitting anything they may find attractive
and
2. to completely ignore them till they arent attracted to you
3. to GET A GIRL!!! (preferably thats not 12-13)

Good luck with that.
 

KingPinp

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Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
dude, you ARE actually aware that I do not LIKE the attention I am getting from little kids, nor am I (consciously) trying to attract any attention from them, nor do I feel anything outside of **potential** interest in them.

Sure I could see the lil girls growing up to be stunners...or maybe if I was a few years younger, but I am very uncomfortable with them even hinting at any kind of relations between us.

oh, btw..did you read what I wrote? can you speak english?

:rolleyes:
You know what the judge is going to tell you when you say she liked me first?

Or maybe for your defence you should suggest that she will be a woman in few years.
 

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nahh bro..you arent a pedophile...it sounds like you're dealing with it the right way..

when it comes to the 12-13 year olds, there's just a 3-4 year difference between you guys...hell when you're a Senior in HS..these girls will be like Sophmores or Freshman...Yea..its been a while since i've been in HS but I remember knowing a lot of fellas my senior year dating Sophmore and Freshmen chicks.

As for acting on these feelings now...I'd lay off the chicks who haven't reached their teens. In the eyes of an 11 year old Jr middleschooler telling her friends that she's dating a 16 year old HS guy is her challenge. For you, its an easy score. Personally, I like challenges...and what the heck does an 11 year old have to offer. Just lay off dude.

I'm kinda with Kingpinp on that one...I've got 11 year old niecse that I may hunt you down and rip your arms off if I found out you were having sex with them.

hahaha...heck you're 16...i'd be going for the senior cheerleading captain...now THATS a fun challenge..
 

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KingPinp, you dont seem to get what he is saying.

He said that they all look at and like him, and he doesnt want anything to do with them, he wants them to stop looking at him that way because he DOESNT look at them that way, and its wrong to him that there are little girls thinking about him this way.
 

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Haha...knew that one was comin! You silly guys...so predictable...

Nope, I was referrin to how most of your species act around us...

Always gawkin, pickin us up, etc., etc.

Get it now?

Thanks! ;)
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-

hahaha...heck you're 16...i'd be going for the senior cheerleading captain...now THATS a fun challenge..
Hey, I'm captain at my college, be easy.

As for KingPinp who suggests that he buy a Playboy.. the same age difference logic you use would apply to say that he's too YOUNG for the women in that magazine.
 

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Originally posted by DiSt0rTi0n_07
Perhaps you are doing something to make them attracted to you... :eek: ... of your free will or not, we will never know...

Now for being more serious...

As great as DJ training is... you gotta try:
1. to refrain from emitting anything they may find attractive
and
2. to completely ignore them till they arent attracted to you
3. to GET A GIRL!!! (preferably thats not 12-13)

Good luck with that.
Well, for one thing I AM NOT AWARE of what I may be doing that seems attractive to them.

Although I'm sure I AM doing something. I've been thinking it over for the past few days and so far the best 'theory' I have for it is as follows:

I'm about as emotionally developed as the little kids are. I have strong resistance towards 'growing up.' I have a comfort zone based in that age range which is an attractive feature about the situation.

So, whatever I may be doing unconsciously stems from the above statements. Maybe I am interacting on that 'level' because I have already been there, I don't want to leave that level because I am so familiar with it (hell I started DJing around that age, so thats where most of my discoveries and memories were made). Also since I am already developed enough (emotionally) for that age range it's much easier than trying to grow and mature.

However that all in my mind, and are only guesses based off of me telling the situation to other people and them giving me feedback. I have not had anyone analyse my body language or style of interaction with the little kids so I am clueless as to what I am doing. (I can't watch myself?)
 

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Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
Well, for one thing I AM NOT AWARE of what I may be doing that seems attractive to them.

Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.
-Mark Twain


hahah just playing dude. I know how you feel. I have er....relatives or close friends of my parents who have kids that are that age...or even younger. This one girl is like....5 years old and I'm super nice and all, but I think she likes me. She's really shy around me and says she wants to marry me. Sure freaked the sh1t outta me, but it was cute. So...I took my own advice and said, "I hate you, you ugly little monster." And she ran away never to return.
 

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Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
I'm about as emotionally developed as the little kids are. I have strong resistance towards 'growing up.' I have a comfort zone based in that age range which is an attractive feature about the situation.
That sentence alone shows you are self aware enough and mature enough to move beyond your comfort zone. Perhaps you should give it a try. You might like what you find and this will no longer be a problem for you! :)
 

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Here's what I think.

You mentally believe you are attracted to younger chicks because it has only been a couple years since you were that age. Your likes/dislikes at that young age may have carried on.

This is OK, because I believe you will end up growing out of it. As you grow, so will the girls you will be exposed to. As the females start to become older, your liking towards 11-13 year olds will grow to 16-18 year olds. It is just a matter of time before this happens.

This is definitely nothing to be worried about, why? Because it, like many likes/dislikes, is just a phase. Just try not to put too much thought into it.

~ivan
 
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