Always remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!! This is Your reminder!!!

[j0504s]

Hello So Suave,

We meet again!

Ok DJ’s sometimes those even who have been doing this for a while need a reminder…I got this reminder from (shout out time) Purefilth, Bradd80, cordoncordon, (the judge) Nismo-4 and uncharted…This is a universal reminder …of remembering who you are!

Think about it
All the time you spent on self improvement…you are going places…the time you spent in the gym…the career path you have chosen…the obstacles you have hurdled…the integrity you display…Your making it in this world….

What I’m trying to say is you have to realize and know you are worth it…a lot of this females your approaching are below you…I can go into this whole hyper-gamy shtick but I think its been beat to death with a stick…

Example: Im a young professional I often date chicks that are not really going anywhere yet they have more options then the world can handle….b/c they are pretty? B/c guys treat them like the Holy Grail? You know what who cares…she is below me…I’m not going to put much effort into her…you know why? I AM THE PRIZE, I AM GOING PLACES, I have serious VALUE…If she doesn’t realize that it would be a privilege to date me….she is not worth my time
Mindset: “I am J0504S, I know I’m awesome and good looking….you are pretty/hot/sexy…but what do you have to offer besides that?”
This is the key to success….

Djjizzyjeff aka NN made a post recently speaking about how SS are afraid to approach “HOT” Women b/c of their egos/protecting themselves….

SO you sit there and rationalize ok I’m not going to talk to that girl, she’s AW, she’s BPD, She out of her mind…you don’t even know her yet!! Stop making assessments!! If you don’t approach you don’t know!!!….you see a douche bag @sshole go approach then kiss close her…while you sat there and rationalized why you shouldn’t speak to her, guess what…I was that @sshole who just kissed closed her…you know why???!?!? B/C of the mindset, I spoke of….and I also realized She’s a human being, just b/c she’s hot doesn’t mean I can’t make her feel certain a certain way or put her under my spell….

There is a quote in my profile, “Don’t let anyone or anything compromise you integrity” that’s how I live my life…I know I have some serious self worth, due to the integrity I put out, which has prevailed the value of myself….that why I am truly confident, I stopped caring what ppl thought of me when I was approaching…MY INTEGRITY IS TO NOT BE JEPORDIZED….

What have you learned: Females are not beautiful and unique snowflake , they are the same decaying matter as everything else….they have emotion and feelings…they can get vulnerable no matter how hot they are….ALWAYS APPRAOCH…rejection is BETTER than regret….BE A FKIN MAN….YOU ARE THE PRIZE…have your filter process up…wow she’s hot, BUT WHAT DOES SHE HAVE TO OFFER?
Remember I AM THE PRIZE…IT WOULD BE A PRIVLEDGE TO DATE ME
For now,
Keep Spinning BOYZ,

J0504S

 

[Purefilth]

Good to see you taking note.

Also Gents - If you dont Feel like the prize, then you need to focus on BECOMING THE PRIZE.

 

[Olivia]

Do you guys take critics? Or will I be condeminated as attention seeker...

Anyway, here comes, in my opinion in the very deepest core of your being, where it matters, is woman as your top priority. You say, rationalize that you are the best, but you rationalize this just to get the woman. In other words, the rationalize doesn't matter as much as the woman. In this case, the woman is still the top priority, and the rationalize is just secondary, just momentary. Unless you really are the best man in the world...:

Now it is good to have that momentary rationalization, but realise and understand deeper: you will be facing the same mindset that the unconscious is holding: "She is the top priority". A moment will come when you have to face it. Whatever we repress will surface.. Now when that comes.. it will be difficult. Again you can repress it but then it will gather enery, and a moment comes when it takes you unconsciously. So if you repress the very idea that she is hot, eventough you know that she is hot, she will become hotter. Maybe for a moment you can repress it and she seems not very hot, but the hotness has already taken a new level. It is all mind game..

 

[j0504s]

Do you guys take critics? Or will I be condeminated as attention seeker...

Anyway, here comes, in my opinion in the very deepest core of your being, where it matters, is woman as your top priority. You say, rationalize that you are the best, but you rationalize this just to get the woman. In other words, the rationalize doesn't matter as much as the woman. In this case, the woman is still the top priority, and the rationalize is just secondary, just momentary. Unless you really are the best man in the world...:

Now it is good to have that momentary rationalization, but realise and understand deeper: you will be facing the same mindset that the unconscious is holding: "She is the top priority". A moment will come when you have to face it. Whatever we repress will surface.. Now when that comes.. it will be difficult. Again you can repress it but then it will gather enery, and a moment comes when it takes you unconsciously. So if you repress the very idea that she is hot, eventough you know that she is hot, she will become hotter. Maybe for a moment you can repress it and she seems not very hot, but the hotness has already taken a new level. It is all mind game..

Olivia, I see your point, but I have to disagree. this mind set is for success in life, not only with women...Take a professional athlete, they didn’t make it to the pros b/c they thought they were avg or bad...they thought they were the best...an Olympian doesn’t compete b/c they think they are going to lose...an interview for a job, you don’t get it b/c u thought u didn’t have a chance...ppl who get the job thought they were the best...Bill gates didn’t become super successful b/c he thought he had a subpar product....the list goes on...point being Use this for life not only for women.

also someone who truly believe most of the time he has attributes to back up why he’s so great...ppl successful in life are the ones who truly believe this and it truly applies to them...

who spoke about repressing things ppl who this applies to generally are stable ppl and realize this will benefit them and face things straight on...we are intelligent enough to deal with everything

and did you totally skip over this part of what I typed:
"Think about it
All the time you spent on self improvement…you are going places…the time you spent in the gym…the career path you have chosen…the obstacles you have hurdled…the integrity you display…Your making it in this world…." this what we truly have the right to feel and think this way, those who put the work in deserve it!!!!

 

[Skyline]

Anyway, here comes, in my opinion in the very deepest core of your being, where it matters, is woman as your top priority. You say, rationalize that you are the best, but you rationalize this just to get the woman. In other words, the rationalize doesn't matter as much as the woman. In this case, the woman is still the top priority, and the rationalize is just secondary, just momentary. Unless you really are the best man in the world...:

I think Pook said this:

As you think you shall become.

 

[Olivia]

Olivia, I see your point, but I have to disagree. this mind set is for success in life, not only with women...Take a professional athlete, they didn’t make it to the pros b/c they thought they were avg or bad...they thought they were the best...an Olympian doesn’t compete b/c they think they are going to lose...an interview for a job, you don’t get it b/c u thought u didn’t have a chance...ppl who get the job thought they were the best...Bill gates didn’t become super successful b/c he thought he had a subpar product....the list goes on...point being Use this for life not only for women.

also someone who truly believe most of the time he has attributes to back up why he’s so great...ppl successful in life are the ones who truly believe this and it truly applies to them...

who spoke about repressing things ppl who this applies to generally are stable ppl and realize this will benefit them and face things straight on...we are intelligent enough to deal with everything

Yes. That would be perfect. The goal is not to even have a woman, rather it is for our own self, for our own ambitions, and then woman will be attracted to that and they will come. But as far as goals and ambitions are concerned, it is just and only for ourself. "It doesn't even arise in our mind that we do it in order to get woman." We have to simply understand that we do this just for ourselves and for nobody else, for nothing else.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

You also need to make sure you are simultaneously working towards being that guy who this post says you need to convince yourself to be.
With out the evidence, and you putting in or having already put in your work, this is all self affirmation type of mumbo jumbo.

If you are a fat slob, who is lazy, no motivation, AFC, etc., and think that convicing yourself you are the PRIZE is all it takes, then you will be dissapointed, at the very least.

I know the people who are already at that level (the PRIZE) will understand what I am saying; I am saying this for those who think this is just a shortcut, a pill, type of approach. You need to put in the work. Just like any unattractive (based on the criteria you look for), will all of a sudden become the PRIZE and be able to get you, just because she believes it.

 

[HedoRick]

Yeap. Solid advice. When I first started out, I focused too much on the exact words to say, rather than the mindset. This led to incongruence. Now that I see myself as the prize, the correct words, and congruency follow.

 

[Uncharted]

I must spread around more rep...

This thread is key. Bookmark it and remember when you get down or rejected or something bad happens with a chick and you aren't feeling 100%. Come back, read this, pick yourself up and get at it again.

 

[Deep Dish]

Olivia:
Anyway, here comes, in my opinion in the very deepest core of your being, where it matters, is woman as your top priority. You say, rationalize that you are the best, but you rationalize this just to get the woman. In other words, the rationalize doesn't matter as much as the woman. In this case, the woman is still the top priority, and the rationalize is just secondary, just momentary. Unless you really are the best man in the world…

You’re illustrating what’s called the Feminine Imperative.

As Rollo Tomassi writes, on The Rational Male,

…I’ve written extensively about the Feminine Reality and Feminine Social Primacy, but these have been ‘top down’ assessments with regard to how society follows a feminine primary narrative as the correct premise of origin. Put simply, if it benefits women, it benefits society – society is better when benefiting women’s imperatives are its focus.

However, from a ‘bottom up’ perspective it is this proclivity for solipsism in women that collectively becomes the social narrative (or paradigm if you prefer). Millions of women solipsistically expressing the demands that would ensure a secure hypergamy for themselves makes for a fem-centric social narrative. And from this develops an expectation of, and entitlement to a default, secured commitment to satisfying women’s hypergamic impulses.

Selective Breeding

So powerful is this sense of entitlement, so consuming and convinced of the correctness of their purpose is the feminine that women will literally breed and raise generations of men to better satisfy it. Hypergamy is cruel, but nowhere more so than in the relationship between a mother overtly raising and conditioning a son to be a better servant of the feminine imperative.

But to breed a better worker, the feminine imperative’s queens can’t afford to have any corrupting, masculine, outside influence. On a societal scale this might mean removal (either by disincentives or forcibly) of a father from the family unit, but this is the easy, extreme illustration. There are far more subtle social and psychological means that the imperative uses to effect this filtering – via mass media, social doctrines, appeals to (feminized) morality, the feminine is placed as the correct imperative while the masculine is filtered out or apologetically tolerated as vestiges of an immature and crude reminder of masculinity’s incorrectness.

Yet for all of this social engineering Hypergamy still demands satisfaction of women’s most base imperative, Alpha seed. The queens need physically / psychologically dominant drones – if just for a season and at their ovulatory pleasure. While beta workers are endlessly vetted in sisyphean tasks of qualifying for the acceptance of the feminine imperative, the Alpha drones live outside this shell; their qualifications only based on how well they satisfy the feminine’s visceral side of hypergamy.

http://therationalmale.com/2013/01/07/queens-workers-drones/​

Men of high value are their own top priority.

 

[j0504s]

I must spread around more rep...

This thread is key. Bookmark it and remember when you get down or rejected or something bad happens with a chick and you aren't feeling 100%. Come back, read this, pick yourself up and get at it again.

Exactly! Ty brotha!

 

[j0504s]

Great reminder j05.

Just remember guys, it's important to understand that you're not just a great guy, but the best guy she’s ever going to meet. You KNOW down deep in you soul, that if you could just get a block of her time (a date or two) that you could blow her away and make her forget every other guy she’s ever known.

Beautiful women are everywhere, they're really nothing special. Go to any mall, or nightclub, or office building, or just walk down a crowded sidewalk. Beautiful women are not that rare, you see them all the time.

But YOU ARE RARE. You’re a Don Juan. And every Don Juan knows that NO WOMAN can resist him... FOR LONG. He knows that he’s special.

So when playing the field of beautiful women, keep in mind the principles of the DJ: never get upset, forget your ego, don’t be lazy, accept and glide through the tests and games that women inevitably play, have plenty of options, and, most importantly..

always remember that you’re a Don Juan and any lady would be lucky to even have a shot at you.

Now get out there, and keep being money!

yup gold once again bradd...things seem to just fall into place if you keep your mind geared in this fashion

@purefilth i agree 100%, if you dont feel that way, you need to work on your self so you can start seeing it, this is the only way to true happiness in all aspects of life!

Keep spinning,
J0504S

 

[j0504s]

You’re illustrating what’s called the Feminine Imperative.

As Rollo Tomassi writes, on The Rational Male,

…I’ve written extensively about the Feminine Reality and Feminine Social Primacy, but these have been ‘top down’ assessments with regard to how society follows a feminine primary narrative as the correct premise of origin. Put simply, if it benefits women, it benefits society – society is better when benefiting women’s imperatives are its focus.

However, from a ‘bottom up’ perspective it is this proclivity for solipsism in women that collectively becomes the social narrative (or paradigm if you prefer). Millions of women solipsistically expressing the demands that would ensure a secure hypergamy for themselves makes for a fem-centric social narrative. And from this develops an expectation of, and entitlement to a default, secured commitment to satisfying women’s hypergamic impulses.

Selective Breeding

So powerful is this sense of entitlement, so consuming and convinced of the correctness of their purpose is the feminine that women will literally breed and raise generations of men to better satisfy it. Hypergamy is cruel, but nowhere more so than in the relationship between a mother overtly raising and conditioning a son to be a better servant of the feminine imperative.

But to breed a better worker, the feminine imperative’s queens can’t afford to have any corrupting, masculine, outside influence. On a societal scale this might mean removal (either by disincentives or forcibly) of a father from the family unit, but this is the easy, extreme illustration. There are far more subtle social and psychological means that the imperative uses to effect this filtering – via mass media, social doctrines, appeals to (feminized) morality, the feminine is placed as the correct imperative while the masculine is filtered out or apologetically tolerated as vestiges of an immature and crude reminder of masculinity’s incorrectness.

Yet for all of this social engineering Hypergamy still demands satisfaction of women’s most base imperative, Alpha seed. The queens need physically / psychologically dominant drones – if just for a season and at their ovulatory pleasure. While beta workers are endlessly vetted in sisyphean tasks of qualifying for the acceptance of the feminine imperative, the Alpha drones live outside this shell; their qualifications only based on how well they satisfy the feminine’s visceral side of hypergamy.

http://therationalmale.com/2013/01/07/queens-workers-drones/​

Men of high value are their own top priority.

Good stuff right here...and to add this goes back to the concept is no one determines your happiness accept your self...if you rely on someone ro something you will be very disapointed...

 

[j0504s]

Damn I'm feeling like the Prize today!

 

[j0504s]

after being away for a while and reading some of these threads this should answer 50% of them,

from Naughty to Humble the Ninja Man show some true perserverence