Alphawolf's approach journal - the CLIFF NOTES

[alphawolfx]

This is for those of you that can’t read my long, but detailed versions of my full posts in this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=605473#post605473

I’m doing this for 2 reasons:
1) It will help you if you get something out of it
2) To help me
3) I like being heard when I talk, and read when I post… that simple

First off, this is me:
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=8381097&Mytoken=20050213172515

All the things on that page represent me, and that is my personality. It has changed dramatically since the start of the year, most likely because I broke up with an overly-critical girlfriend, as well as a Nightlife workshop.

 

[alphawolfx]

9/10/04 – Popping my walk up cherry

I was taking a one-month break from my girlfriend at this point, so I decided to start sarging. Here was the result:

I head a county away to try to sarge at a club. I was so nervous, and could not approach before getting VERY drunk.

I approach one girl weakly, by walking over to her, tapping her on the shoulder, and nodding over to the dance floor. REJECTED. So I drink some more.

I do another approach the same way. REJECTED. So I got discouraged and left. Those two approaches took me three hours.


9/18/04: Another Miserable Failure

I attempt to sarge at a mall for about 45 minutes, but fail completely. No eye contact, no conversations. I start to think I’m ugly.

I try to sarge at a Walgreens, and hit on some old, ugly woman. But, at least I got a 10 second conversation.

I head over to Barnes & Noble. I do nothing and completely hesitate for 55 minutes. I start to hover near a possible target in the last five minutes before I approach her and then her boyfriend shows up.

I then try so sarge at Wal-Mart, got one eye contact but didn’t say Hi. I am so nervous, and I’m having a bad night… this is no fun at all.

On my way home, I give some guy a ride to a pool hall, and he invites me to come hang with him. I was feeling like **** before, but I now I feel worse – this guy is so comfortable with everyone around him, and I can’t even talk to a girl.

 

[alphawolfx]

9/20/04 – 9/26/04: Practicing at Work

I try making C&F small talk with a girl while I’m ringing her up at the cash register. I get into a small conversation, she laughs & smiles, and then leaves. I couldn’t continue the conversation.

I smile at a girl and I get excited.

I hover around another chick and then open her with “Who cheats more, guys or girls?” We get into a brief conversation.

I tell one customer that she has beautiful eyes… she appreciates the comment, and then leaves.

I open a few more chicks with “who cheats more” but nothing comes of it.

I approach 7 girls with the “who cheats more” opener, and was able to continue one conversation by saying “what are you studying?”

I open another woman but get blown off.


9/30/04 – Horrible night

I meet two of the South Florida Lair - Greg, and Miguel - and we have dinner and get to know each other.

Afterwards, Greg and I go sarging at the Grove.

Greg does a ****ty approach, and then an okay one. Me however, back out of all of them. I feel so self-conscious.

I try the “who lies more” opener on about 2 sets, but I get ignored or have girls looking at me weird.

Greg forces me into a 3-set, and I pretend like I’m trying to talk to the girls for my friend (Greg) but they won’t have any of that ****.

I decide to kick the opinion openers, while realizing that my inner game needs a lot of work.

After this I go back to my girlfriend, where it is relatively “safe” since I have a girlfriend and get regular *****.

 

[alphawolfx]

1/15/04 – New year, new me

At this point, I have a new job, I permanently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, and I took a workshop with Nightlife on the 1/6-1/8 weekend. As a result, my inner game has skyrocketed, although I still need a lot of work. That weekend I was pushed into a total of at least 25 sets, and I got IOI’s from a few, and long conversations with lots of attraction twice – although I got AMOGed both times.

1/21/04 – Where’s my anxiety?

I meet up with three other lair members at a place called the District. Although I didn’t close, I got lots of IOI’s using body language, and I had NO anxiety running into sets.

1/22/04 – Now It’s actually FUN

I went to South Beach, and meet up with about 5 other guys from the lair are down there at the Delano. So I meet up with them.

Javi AMOGs these guys around a 2-set, and Greg goes in. Afterwards I go in. But I was opening Greg’s target without knowing it, so we started AMOGing each other. She starts to show IOI’s towards me, now.

Then some **** happens and I eject, but Greg goes back and gets her phone number.

 

[alphawolfx]

2/1/04: Rookie mistakes

I open a lone wolf at Barnes & Noble, and she is SO attracted to me, but not comfortable. Then for some reason I blurt out “Do you want to go out?” I nearly kick myself for that. So I eject.

2/2/04: Opposite of yesterday

Today I open another chick, but get a LOT of rapport without much attraction – although there’s still some there.

We get into a long conversation, but I don’t close.

2/11/04: Nothing but still happy

I went out sarging with Greg and Miguel again. It’s fun, although there are no real sets to be found. I’m just happy to be back in the field and have fun out there, since I took a 2 week break because of some stuff.

I made a myspace profile, and I’m starting to get opened by chicks online. At this point, I set up a meet with one on the 23rd – her idea, btw.

 

[alphawolfx]

Where I am in the game as of 3/23/05:

The chick that I met up with at the dog park.

She's now my FB, but falling for me. Hard.

I got sexually assualted by a former coworker the night before she moved.

Just came back from hanging out with a HB9 - tall, blonde, and venezuelan...
making out sporadically, just having fun and eating s.hit.

I love women. And now they love me back.

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

Congrats, dude. Sounds like you're making awesome progress!

 

[Microphone Fiend]

fvcking money man... once you get out ther and start approaching all those other things become non-existent...little by little the doubt leaves your mind and you start to excel in tha game. Congrats....this makes me want to sarge. In the beginning I was gonna give you words of encouragement but now it looks like you can teach me a thing or to. Stay up man!

 

[BLUEox117]

Originally posted by alphawolfx
This is for those of you that can’t read my long, but detailed versions of my full posts in this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=605473#post605473

I’m doing this for 2 reasons:
1) It will help you if you get something out of it
2) To help me
3) I like being heard when I talk, and read when I post… that simple

First off, this is me:
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=8381097&Mytoken=20050213172515

All the things on that page represent me, and that is my personality. It has changed dramatically since the start of the year, most likely because I broke up with an overly-critical girlfriend, as well as a Nightlife workshop.

i like that video.