Jolly_Roger
Don Juan
Girls are able to tell if they want to fcuk you in about 3mins of seeing you.I asked 4 girls who were my sisters friends to sit down as i walked into the room and as
i walked out.First time was how i usually walk,they said i looked like a scared,and how nervous i looked.I was pretty shocking since i knew them all for quite
some time.Second time i waited about 5mins while i went over on how to walk like an alpha male.I entered the room and they all sat in silence.I asked how was it
and they said its a heck of a lot better than it was before.Its important that you know as much as you can about body language,especially since what a girl says is
entirely different then the way she acts,and it is the foremost form of displaying that you ARE ALPHA.Communication through spoken words plays a much
smaller part, but is still vitally important.Practice this stuff,sure it'll seem stupid at first but it pay's off.Eventually you'll do this stuff natural and since its summer
for most of you guys or if your on vacation people will notice a change.
Body Language
>Slow relaxed movements,not fast walking
>Open body posture (open shoulder and arms displaying,legs apart
>proud confident walk,confident smile
>When walking keep your legs apart
>feet grounded when sitting
>NEVER EVER EVER EVER LOOK DOWN WHILE WALKING
*i cannot stress this enough,this shows you are insecure
>Turning your head so fast while your addressed
>fidgeting
This along with looking down is a sign to girls that this guy is scared and insecure
The whole idea is to have a cool,calm and collected image.Some guys just have the look of an alpha male without needing to show it through body
language(muscle men)
>don' t lean in
Voice
>speaking slow, with pauses creating anticipation
>not saying 'excuse words like 'erm', 'uh', or 'you know what i mean?',and 'right?' at the end of sentences
>not talking in a boring, mumbled voice.
>not talking in a dull, low voice
>not stuttering
>not taking too long to answer questions
>speaking in various pitches(a low voice may sound good, but if there are no fluctuations in your voice you will sound monotone)
>not talking too quietly
The following is a list of alpha attitudes that a typical alpha has/does...
* Not asking for advice from friends, only on rare occasions(eg.asking a friend where should we go?What should i do about...?)YOU should be the one who
makes the decisions and knows exactly what to do(and most of the time you probably will/do but say something like 'i don't mind...' or something similar)
* Not startled by **** tests/rude remarks, or people trying to dominate you through insults
* Take the lead in all situations, an alpha male is the ALPHA MALE OF GROUP, you should be the one who makes the decisions, stands up for your
friends etc(but not to the point where you are too controlling)
* Doesn't need to impress with material items, it is as though you are trying to prove you are a man/buy womens affections. Don't buy people gifts unless they
have EARNED them
* Having authority(this one is VERY IMPORTANT, in every aspect of a pickup to a relationship. An example is simply having the confidence to SAY 'NO'. She
will give you much more respect for being YOUR OWN MAN. why would you put someone else's interests before yours...but remember not to over do it, just if
she wants to go see a chick flick or something and you don't, whatever
* Being passionate about interests, hobbies, work etc. You should always look at the good in things. If you have to paint you entire house, or do
something you have to do bit don't want to its better to have an upbeat attitude about it is much more appealing than whining an complaining about it, and displays you role as a leader.The reason girls are attracted to rich men is not just the money but the strong desires and passion they have to get that far.
* Taking up space with your body, leaning back, spreading yourself out,not pecking/leaning in etc
* Has strong eye contact when talking to girls,hardly ever looks down.When talking to guys less eye contact shows your dominant,reply to his conversations of coausre just don't look at him <<<<<<<very important
* Has a polite an calm authority rather than aggressive <<<<<<<very important
* Is calm under pressure <<<<<<<very important
* Is uninterested in cool things(stays calm, doesn't start screaming like a girl when he sees a cool car etc),especially girls. Why should you be
interested?You've seen it an one it all before....
* Is uninterested in what others think <<<<<<<very important
* Doesn't need to be aggressive, or even hurt another person to please himself or show dominance
* Has the power and confidence to do WHAT HE WANTS, WHEN HE WANTS <<<<<<<very important i can't stress enough.I hate it when i see a guy sit in an S shape chair just to talk to a girl,put yourself first before her.
* Rewards people for generous actions and compliments
* Makes people feel comfortable in your presence
* Has mind set that women are trying to impress you, and that you are the catch
* Not letting others dominate or affect YOUR REALITY.(In other words, if another PUA or an AMOG tried using AMOG tactics/lines on you, you would just
blow them off, no one should affect your reality in a negative way...the trick is not to care) <<<<<<<very important
* Not afraid to kino(it's awkward for a woman when a guy touches her LOOKS and what he's doing, it should be done naturally)
When you first meet a girl above all your first goal should be try to touch her,a handshake,a touch at the elbow JUST TOUCH HER!
* Never laughs at own jokes(or at least till other people start laughing)Am practicing to not laugh as much,like when i laugh i laugh and keep my mouth close with a big smile.Laughing out loud tends to make you look like an @ss especially if your the only one
* Always leans back
* Is interesting
How you do this?,by hanging out with interesting people,watching interesting stuff and listing to interesting stuff.Do this:buy the funniest/coolest movies you know like Clerks II,Jackass 1 & 2,the ocean movies wedding crashers and fight cluband ONLY watch that NO TV,if you want more movies get some.Next download or buy songs that only make you want to dance or sing or if the make you happy "like Blink 182 stuff some of their songs are crazy funny".Doesn't matter its rock,hip-hop whatever,next go on youtube and look at funny videos like awkward boy.If you keep exposing yourself to these kinds of positive funny interesting things you'll soon become like them.
*Never gives apologizes
ex:
Sorry to interrupt you but....
Am sorry that i.....
I can't believe i did that ....
*Smiling way too much
You come off like a freak of nature who has 1 single facial expression
i walked out.First time was how i usually walk,they said i looked like a scared,and how nervous i looked.I was pretty shocking since i knew them all for quite
some time.Second time i waited about 5mins while i went over on how to walk like an alpha male.I entered the room and they all sat in silence.I asked how was it
and they said its a heck of a lot better than it was before.Its important that you know as much as you can about body language,especially since what a girl says is
entirely different then the way she acts,and it is the foremost form of displaying that you ARE ALPHA.Communication through spoken words plays a much
smaller part, but is still vitally important.Practice this stuff,sure it'll seem stupid at first but it pay's off.Eventually you'll do this stuff natural and since its summer
for most of you guys or if your on vacation people will notice a change.
Body Language
>Slow relaxed movements,not fast walking
>Open body posture (open shoulder and arms displaying,legs apart
>proud confident walk,confident smile
>When walking keep your legs apart
>feet grounded when sitting
>NEVER EVER EVER EVER LOOK DOWN WHILE WALKING
*i cannot stress this enough,this shows you are insecure
>Turning your head so fast while your addressed
>fidgeting
This along with looking down is a sign to girls that this guy is scared and insecure
The whole idea is to have a cool,calm and collected image.Some guys just have the look of an alpha male without needing to show it through body
language(muscle men)
>don' t lean in
Voice
>speaking slow, with pauses creating anticipation
>not saying 'excuse words like 'erm', 'uh', or 'you know what i mean?',and 'right?' at the end of sentences
>not talking in a boring, mumbled voice.
>not talking in a dull, low voice
>not stuttering
>not taking too long to answer questions
>speaking in various pitches(a low voice may sound good, but if there are no fluctuations in your voice you will sound monotone)
>not talking too quietly
The following is a list of alpha attitudes that a typical alpha has/does...
* Not asking for advice from friends, only on rare occasions(eg.asking a friend where should we go?What should i do about...?)YOU should be the one who
makes the decisions and knows exactly what to do(and most of the time you probably will/do but say something like 'i don't mind...' or something similar)
* Not startled by **** tests/rude remarks, or people trying to dominate you through insults
* Take the lead in all situations, an alpha male is the ALPHA MALE OF GROUP, you should be the one who makes the decisions, stands up for your
friends etc(but not to the point where you are too controlling)
* Doesn't need to impress with material items, it is as though you are trying to prove you are a man/buy womens affections. Don't buy people gifts unless they
have EARNED them
* Having authority(this one is VERY IMPORTANT, in every aspect of a pickup to a relationship. An example is simply having the confidence to SAY 'NO'. She
will give you much more respect for being YOUR OWN MAN. why would you put someone else's interests before yours...but remember not to over do it, just if
she wants to go see a chick flick or something and you don't, whatever
* Being passionate about interests, hobbies, work etc. You should always look at the good in things. If you have to paint you entire house, or do
something you have to do bit don't want to its better to have an upbeat attitude about it is much more appealing than whining an complaining about it, and displays you role as a leader.The reason girls are attracted to rich men is not just the money but the strong desires and passion they have to get that far.
* Taking up space with your body, leaning back, spreading yourself out,not pecking/leaning in etc
* Has strong eye contact when talking to girls,hardly ever looks down.When talking to guys less eye contact shows your dominant,reply to his conversations of coausre just don't look at him <<<<<<<very important
* Has a polite an calm authority rather than aggressive <<<<<<<very important
* Is calm under pressure <<<<<<<very important
* Is uninterested in cool things(stays calm, doesn't start screaming like a girl when he sees a cool car etc),especially girls. Why should you be
interested?You've seen it an one it all before....
* Is uninterested in what others think <<<<<<<very important
* Doesn't need to be aggressive, or even hurt another person to please himself or show dominance
* Has the power and confidence to do WHAT HE WANTS, WHEN HE WANTS <<<<<<<very important i can't stress enough.I hate it when i see a guy sit in an S shape chair just to talk to a girl,put yourself first before her.
* Rewards people for generous actions and compliments
* Makes people feel comfortable in your presence
* Has mind set that women are trying to impress you, and that you are the catch
* Not letting others dominate or affect YOUR REALITY.(In other words, if another PUA or an AMOG tried using AMOG tactics/lines on you, you would just
blow them off, no one should affect your reality in a negative way...the trick is not to care) <<<<<<<very important
* Not afraid to kino(it's awkward for a woman when a guy touches her LOOKS and what he's doing, it should be done naturally)
When you first meet a girl above all your first goal should be try to touch her,a handshake,a touch at the elbow JUST TOUCH HER!
* Never laughs at own jokes(or at least till other people start laughing)Am practicing to not laugh as much,like when i laugh i laugh and keep my mouth close with a big smile.Laughing out loud tends to make you look like an @ss especially if your the only one
* Always leans back
* Is interesting
How you do this?,by hanging out with interesting people,watching interesting stuff and listing to interesting stuff.Do this:buy the funniest/coolest movies you know like Clerks II,Jackass 1 & 2,the ocean movies wedding crashers and fight cluband ONLY watch that NO TV,if you want more movies get some.Next download or buy songs that only make you want to dance or sing or if the make you happy "like Blink 182 stuff some of their songs are crazy funny".Doesn't matter its rock,hip-hop whatever,next go on youtube and look at funny videos like awkward boy.If you keep exposing yourself to these kinds of positive funny interesting things you'll soon become like them.
*Never gives apologizes
ex:
Sorry to interrupt you but....
Am sorry that i.....
I can't believe i did that ....
*Smiling way too much
You come off like a freak of nature who has 1 single facial expression
