Alpha Male concept

[612_Da_Playa]

This is just a hard concept for me to grasp. How can I become not a wussy? It's not overnight but still. I know people at my school don't take me serious. Maybe because I'm in all the nerdy classes or whatever. But how do you present that attitude of "Mess with me and I'll jack you up"? Also I have this thought that if you act like a "man" you might seem a a hole and girls would be turned off by this

 

[GaryUranga]

it can be explained in a few lines but for you to GET it you have to start understanding it and it takes time to do so

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

This is just a hard concept for me to grasp. How can I become not a wussy? It's not overnight but still. I know people at my school don't take me serious. Maybe because I'm in all the nerdy classes or whatever. But how do you present that attitude of "Mess with me and I'll jack you up"? Also I have this thought that if you act like a "man" you might seem a a hole and girls would be turned off by this

Well the opposite to acting like a man is acting like a women. You getting any girls acting like that? I doubt it from your post. Really saying that a women would get turned off by you if you act like a man is the stupidest sh!t ive ever heard. You seem to be a major afc! Go read the book of pook and the bible! You need to learn the basics first!

 

[Envy]

haha ya man just read the bible.

 

[612_Da_Playa]

Well the opposite to acting like a man is acting like a women. You getting any girls acting like that? I doubt it from your post. Really saying that a women would get turned off by you if you act like a man is the stupidest sh!t ive ever heard. You seem to be a major afc! Go read the book of pook and the bible! You need to learn the basics first!

no you misunderstood me. You know how females will be like, "He's such a jerk" or "He's such an a hole" I know you've heard that response

 

[SinJester]

They might SAY that but they and secretly want to SEX you up. When it comes to girls judge them by their ACTIONS not their WORDS. Read the book of pook and weapons of mass seduction, then you will 'get' it.

I think you are looking for people to FEAR you rather RESPECT you. There's a difference. If you want to get 'don't mess with me' imagine going them go to the gym and take a martial arts class. When you are huge and have a blackbelt no one will mess with you will they? But it still will not make you the alpha male just by that (it will help of course).

There's no point me writing everything down when there is already great material here to read. I'll give you some basic points:

-Be a leader
-Be loud, talkative, funny and interesting
-Increase your physical presents (through what I said above and posture)
-Do something that people will respect you for
-Don't be phased when people poke sh!t at you

Of course this advice might not be the best because I'm not THE alpha male, even though I do a lot of the above I am still small and don't actively seek it. Nevertheless I score when I want with whoever I want. I think I will be there sometimes soon anyway.

OH: When I say I'm not THE alpha male it is because my main friendship group is basically a group of jocks and alpha males. In my other friendship groups I am THE alpha male.

...Apligies, I started rambling there

If you don't want girls to thinky our an @ss hole then don't act like one.

 

[Bonafide]

I tell you one thing. Im naturally a ****y bastard but - females do love it, dont be fooled.

 

[SinJester]

Yeah you'll be surprised man. I went through that stage then actually started being ****y and they loved it.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Remember, there is ACTING and BEING a Alpha-male.

You need to start doing "Alpha" things. Some people say you are a alpha-male or you are not. I believe if you change your ways and mindset you can BE alpha. Do some searches on the forum.

 

[(JJ)]

apparently there's a point where you can go too far though. my gf told me that i was lucky she cared so much about me or she woulda dumped me for being too ****y and jerk-ish lol so i think i still haven't quite got the balancing act of ****y with funny yet.

 

[SinJester]

But she didn't dump you did she? Actions not words. Actions not words.