there is nothing alpha about a love letter. that's an oxymoron damn near.
i to wrote love letters while in high school. probbly more than most guys actually. any girl i dated for a few weeks started to get letter. i was very bad. took me a while to learn
with that said, i still write letters, but i do so much much less often and i do so knowing before i do it that's it's very AFCish but that's actually what i am going for. like i spoke bout in my other thread women dont' want a hard rock 100% they want spirts of AFC behavior.
i think in 4 years i have wrote my wife 3 letters all 100% random and she ate every last one up. juet let her know hey babe.. your my babe.. don't forget that. you mean the world to me though i know at times i can be quite demanding. sex, good sex lol usually follows.
my son, can half ass write. he can write all his letters though they are half legiable. about 2 motnhs ago i got an idea, i sat down and i helped him (as in i told him exactly what to write lol) what letters to write, then i let him draw on the little card, it was a letter to his mom and she was so happy she cried. I'm one of those guys i just don't want to have sex with women. the dynamics of "game" and male/female interaction to me is quite fancicting i like to understnad why we do what they do. watcdhing this interaction wtih my son and my wife, it made me realize that at tha tpoint, it's not the letter that is beta per say. it's the behavior behind writting the letter and the man that is writing the letter that is BETA.
in other words, Don Juan himself when he was gaming his women would write these long heart felt love letters to his women that he was gaming. while i mean, i personally think that don juan did some quite AFC things by my nature, the women all ate it up. the letter itself is not BETA. the act of writting a letter is not beta. what is beta is trying to make a woman love you through a letter which is what we are doing in our BETA mind set.
but if you have a woman where you want her and youa re gaming her right, a timley short unexpected letter makes you "romantic".
so in short, there is nothing you can say in a letter that makes it alpha. it's the context in which the letter is written. you can't write a letter ot make a woman feel or undestand something she doens't already.
somethign else that always fanciated me about the process of writing a girl a letter like, for instance my old oneitis, i used to pick her up from school everyday when i was out of school and she was a senior i would take her home. a lot of the times i would have a letter written to her and and in retrsoecct though the behavior was quite chumpish, she would usually start reading the letter hte second i let her out of the car. so in retrospect, even though the girls that we wrote these letters to knew already the letter was goingt o be a massive display of chump like behavior, they could not stop themselves from reading the letters time and time again. a lot of the times she would even write back.
IMHO women like the process of reading letters. but it does not work with guys that they are not already very attracted to.
what about convicts in prison? they write letters. i know you dont' think of them in the same context but they really are. and some times they will get women who they have never met to fall in love with them. some women will stay faithful for years for a man in prison through nothing but letters
when i was in impatient rehab when i was 22, there is zero contact with the outside world. no TV, no newspapers, etc. i had a girl who i was kinda digging at the time mor ethan other girls, crystal i have spoke about her here before. anywway i wrote her a few letters and she would write back. she actually sent me some horse racing stuff to keep me busy some maziaines, some books and stuff she knew i would like. when i got out we eventually dated. in that situtation, she knew i was seeing other girls. but when in rehab she was the only one i gave a **** about enough to write and she knew that. the letters weren't even partcuarly long but i just wnated to let her know how i was holding up and how i was doing. it wasnt the lette rin that sense, it wsa the fact that i wrote her out of all the girls, at the time like 4 including her that i had as plates.
