zekko
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I would say that showing interest is the exact opposite of aloofness. Even if you show interest and then withdraw. But I agree the vast majority of guys have to show some interest.Evan said:Aloof doesn't mean to ignore women completely. It means or not give a **** whether or not she's attracted to you. You have more important things going on than whether or not she's attracted to you. You show interest and then you sit back and see how she reacts. Showing interest means approaching her, asking questions and seeing if she is good enough for you.
There was one girl I remember who called me aloof - she was banging hot. I actually talked to her quite a lot, but only in a friendly manner, I never showed her any romantic interest. I could tell she wasn't my type. She was a big attention ho so that did kind of drive her crazy.