Almost there!!! Help!

[85camaro350]

Allright theres this girl. And she likes me and we always lay in bed together and make out and stuff. She always talks about how we are so perfect for each other and that we are gonna get married and stuff. She said i am waht shes been dreamingn about since she was a little girl. We always have deep conversations for hours and we connect on a level like nothning else. The weird thing is she has a boyfriend. yea thats right. we kinda have this secret thing goin on. She said if her and her boyfriend arnt together at the end of the school year then me and her are going to hook up. She said shes not over him yet thats why she wont dump him now. Does this make sense? He treats her not too bad but i can definitely love her better. My question is what can i do to get her to dump him real soon like now? She promises me that we will be together someday cuz im her dream guy or something...then why not now? Help!

 

[The Master Disaster]

LMAO
She is using you buddy.
"You are exactly what I want, but... ahh.. I am busy this weekend"
Your Her Man wh0re. Here is what you do: tell her you want her only if she breaks up with him tommorrow. If she wont then you quit it with her which shows she doesn't have the feelings she has told you. If she does have fun Mr. Man wh0re.

Get-Er-Done

 

[85camaro350]

ehh maybe but shes the girl of my dreams

 

[The Master Disaster]

Pay attention man. You think she is the girl of your dreams. DONT TELL HER THAT AT ALL. You gotta act like she is just one in a million. The bible man read it. Act like you could go get a girlfriend if nothing happens. Then do it. If you really really like her lure her in. Make sure you keep control, don't let her get control. Maybe you should ignore her for awhile. If she really likes spending time with you then she will start to miss it and want to get with you not her boy friend.

Get-Er-Done

 

[85camaro350]

so i should tell her "if this isnt goin anywhere right now then theres this girl i was thinking about taking out." hows that?

 

[The Master Disaster]

Don't tell her anything. Avoid her, Barely talk to her ( answer yes no questions at most). She will crawl back to you. If she doesn't get a g/f and make her jealous. Trust me works 99.9%. The other .1% car crash sad sad thing.

 

[85camaro350]

aiight well shes in 1 of my classes and there is another fine girl in the class. how bout mad flirting with this girl so shel get jealous?

 

[The Master Disaster]

Now your thinking. Flirt with her and ignore "dream girl." Do it over the top too.

 

[85camaro350]

anyone else have any suggestions?

 

[Bling]

**** the living daylights out of her, and move on. You really are an idiot if you're obsessed with a girl that doesn't even want you.

 

[Bling]

and don't think I haven't been in your place. I have. That ho used me worse than I could imagine, and I didn't get anything out of it.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Confirmed. She's using you. Leave her....now.

 

[WesCottII]

Originally posted by 85camaro350
She said if her and her boyfriend arnt together at the end of the school year then me and her are going to hook up.

Does that not give you an idea, right there? IF. Surely, if you were the boy of her dreams, shed've dumped the person that wasn't, agree?

My suggestion? You find someone else. Simple, then tell her "if we arn't together at the end of the year, i'll get with you"

 

[A7Xx]

Yo man, she ****in around with you. I would say deliver the altimatim, if she isn't willing to move on from her bf to you, then it is over and she doesn't truly want you, she jus usin you. You can't give her the power to play you like that, you are supposed in charge man, you are the one who decides that ****. While she is gettin what she wants from her boyfriend, and you at the same time, and enjoyin every minute of it. She needs to know that you don't **** around, and don't need her, so if she wants you she better make u her boyfriend or else "NEXT!".

 

[The Master Disaster]

You know man I would just dump her. See if you get with her in a week or so. She will find another man wh0re. Those kind of women can't be trusted. Just dump her and find a good girl friend.