I think the "Don Juan" is more of an ideal... Something for us to aspire to reach toward. The "Don Juan" is not about sex, those who measure their self worth simply by sex have very little in the way of true self worth. The "Don Juan" like the mythical character of the same name is a man who is free, confident, and who is guided by his on convictions and virtues. There are many men who have lots of sex but who will not qualify as being "Don Juans" because they are weak willed or weak of character. Too often (even on this forum) we obsess about the women. Too often we make it about the pvssy and have that be a determination of our masculinity and of being a Don Juan. Too often we are focused on other trivial things and not on what is most important, ourselves. The concept of a "Don Juan" is the idea of a complete man. We all simply strive to become this concept, a masculine concept of self-actualization. This "Don Juan" is successful with women, but that is just a byproduct of being a complete, secure, and successful man.
