Almost 18 and... (boners)

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Okay, is there something wrong me with me.. ever sense I have hit puberty I have had boner problems. I get them so damn eseaily and unexpectedly. I didn't worry too much about it up until like 15-16.. but now I'm almost 18 and I still get them over rediculous stuff. Like even just holding hands or just a peck on the lips. I know I'm not gonna have sex during the situations.. alot of times they're at school. And I keep telling myself 'Why am I getting a boner? I'm not having sex.. I'm just showing my affection" but they keep coming.. it's kind of embaressing. Someone commented on me it yesterday but I played it off like it was just the way my pants were.. buit yeah. Is this normal? Most guys ive talked to will get them during makingout and heavy grinding.. but I get them from little stuff. Someone toldme it might be due to lack of action.. this can't be true.. im not some newbie about girls and sex, ive only had sex twice my whole life.. but I stil lconsider myself somewhat experienced.. ive made out and kissed/dry humped blah blah plenty of girls.. so that theory is out the window. Maybe I have high blood pressure? Should I look into this more? Or am I paranoid over nothing? And I only masturbate about once or twice a week.. if that helps/may effect anything... although ive tried experimenting and masturbating more.. like everyday and I stil lget the same effects..
 

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I think it might will go away if you get into a relationship where you have sex really often. In the meantime, just think about your favorite sports and foods whenever you get a boner. It always works for me whenever I need a boner removal.

If you get one from just holding hands and girl notices, immediately grab her butt, and she'll be like 'oh, he was getting a boner only because he was thinking about my butt, how romantic.'
 

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Look at the bright side, you won't be one of the guys needing viagra one day. I'd rather have too many boners than not be able to get one at all.
 

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Walk with a straight back,chest out and show all the women what's up!(literally)

Dude don't fret it,if it keeps happening tuck it up in between your waist line of your pants and 'v' region of the abs.
 
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blinkwatt said:
Walk with a straight back,chest out and show all the women what's up!(literally)

Dude don't fret it,if it keeps happening tuck it up in between your waist line of your pants and 'v' region of the abs.
AHAHAH OMG I do that too! I used to get a boner everytime I got off the school bus... so I had to... cover up. lol

Don't worry I get a boner at random situations too... if you're still worried wack off more.
 

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yes cause we can really just whip it out in classrooms or lecture theatres while looking at some fine lady that just walked past.
socially speaking, whipping out your penis is public is an offense. I know/hope you're joking but just in case...
 

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Same thing used to happen to me.
I started a thread about it as well.
Excessive masturbation makes it worse.
It was happening to me at 19 while I was in a LTR with lots of sex.
At 20 it's alot better, never found out how to stop it.

The beach was always a problem for me. lol
 

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I had the same problem, although to a lesser degree (it seems). I think you just need good, frequent sexual contact with a girl. Once you get used to these things, it should even out.
 

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int3l said:
yes cause we can really just whip it out in classrooms or lecture theatres while looking at some fine lady that just walked past.
socially speaking, whipping out your penis is public is an offense. I know/hope you're joking but just in case...
lol i wasnt but i didnt really think about wut i said...i meant this guy should try wacking off more at home
 

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DjDan said:
if you believe that having sex twice in your life makes you experienced, then there is no surprise why this forum is filled with virgins and losers.

LMAO!
 

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This is reasonably normal.

Happened to me (still does more than it should - i'm 23 :crazy: )

If you are worried about making it less obvious, just wear snug underwear like briefs or y-fronts. Boxers are bad - they allow much more movement. It's more likely people will notice if you are wearing boxers.

Practical tip: If you get one in an unexpected situation and you have the luxury of sitting down and it's leaning in the direction of a leg, casually rest your hand there like it's natural - this will cover it. And if you are cool about it, no one will even notice what's going on.
 

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thursday said:
This is reasonably normal.

Happened to me (still does more than it should - i'm 23 :crazy: )

If you are worried about making it less obvious, just wear snug underwear like briefs or y-fronts. Boxers are bad - they allow much more movement. It's more likely people will notice if you are wearing boxers.

Practical tip: If you get one in an unexpected situation and you have the luxury of sitting down and it's leaning in the direction of a leg, casually rest your hand there like it's natural - this will cover it. And if you are cool about it, no one will even notice what's going on.
don't worry about it...if you have a tiny penis, girls won't notice...if you have a big one they'll see it's big and you might get laid...

giggity giggity giggity

WoW gives me boners all the time
 

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just pull it up into your beltline its called a Texas Belt Buckle and it helps to cover it up. as long as im not working i normally don't worry about it. AM I SUPPOSED TO BE ASHAMED THAT MY PENIS WORKS!!!!!
 

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hahah i never thought i would see a bunch of guys saying getting hard ons is a problem. That just means your a very sexual person, thats healthy. Lots of people are too nervous and repressed to even get a hard on. Try wearing two layers of boxers. If any chick comments about it, just say it helps prevent chaffing :] Ya kinda dorky, but im sure it wont be a turn off.
 

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I get them often to it sucks big time especially when your in public. I mean its fine if your at a restraunt and your sitting down but if your standing up and your talking to someone thats when it sucks..

The best thing to do is put your hand in your pocket and try strecthing out your pants, to make the jeans a little bigger that kinda helps.Also talking to the person kinda sideways might help... other than that who knows?
 
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